shejiaokongjuzheng shishenjingzhengdeyizhong,xianshishenghuozhonghenduorendouhuiyoushejiaokongju,shenmeshishejiaokongjuzheng?womengairuhekefushejiaokongjuzheng?jintianwomenjiulailejieyixiashunbianzuogeshejiaokongjuzhengceshi。
一、什么是社交恐惧症
shejiaokongjuzhengshikongjuzhengdeyizhongyaxing,kongjuzhengyuanchengkongbuxingshenjingzheng,shishenjingzhengdeyizhong。yiguofenhebuhelidijupawaijiemouzhongkeguanshiwuhuoqingjingweizhuyaobiaoxian,huanzhemingzhizheizhongkongjufanyingshiguofendehuobuhelide,danrengfanfuchuxian,nanyikongzhi。kongjufazuoshichangchangbanyoumingxiandejiaolvhezizhushenjingzhengzhuang,huanzhejilihuibidaozhikongjudekeguanshiwuhuoqingjing,huoshidaizheweijuqurenshou,yineryingxiangqizhengchanghuodong。changjiandekongjuzhengyaxingbaokuoguangchangkongju、shejiaokongjuheteshukongjuzhengsanzhong。
二、如何克服社交恐惧症
1、shejiaokongjuzhenghuanzhejienaziji。
xuehuijienazijineixindekongju,buyaoyanezheiyangdeziji,zhiyoutandangchengrenzishenquedian,cainengzouchuzixindediyibu,yizaihuaiyi、fourenziji,zhihuirangzijixianruyigeexingxunhuan。
2、guliziji,yongganmiandui。meitiankeyijizijijiabajing,bufoudingziji,dashengdiguliziji,duizijishuo“wokeyizuodao,wobuhaipa”。ranhouyuxianggezhongshejiaochanghe,zaixinlidahaofugao。
yibubuqulianxi,quchangshi,keyicongzijizuixinrenderenkaishilianxi。jizhubuyaotaobishejiao,taobi,budanjiejuebulewenti,haikenengjiazhongzijidexintaifudan,yaogaosuzijiyonggandimaichuneiyibu。
3、buyaozhaizaijiali,zouchuqu,duoyundong。
yiweididuozaijiali,zhihuirangzijideneixingengjiafengbi,tuikaijiamen,zouchuqu,xuehuiyongbaozheigeshijie。duoduoyundong,tongguoyundongnenggoushifangyali,shuzhanshenxin,zaiyundongguochengzhong,haikeyiguanchabieren,kaishishejiao。
4、fangxiaguoduodexintaifudan。
henduoshejiaokongjuzhengdehuanzhebuganshuofa,buganhebierenliaotian,shiyinweihaipabierendeyane,tamenxiwangkeyirangsuoyourendoumanyi,congerrongyijiazhongshejiaodexintaifudan。shishishang,meiyourenkeyitaosuoyourenxihuan,ruhekefushejiaokongjuzheng?zuohaozijijiukeyile,meiyoubiyaoguoduoguanzhubierenduinibuhaodekanfa,bingqiejizhu:bingmeiyouhenduorenhuiguanzhuni。
三、社交恐惧症测试:自测社交恐惧常见的5种表现你占了几个?
1、duiwaijiedefanyingmingan
bierendeyijuyidongdouqiandongtadeqingxu,birubierenduokanletayiyanzhihou,jiuhuaiyiduifangshibushizaizhenduiziji,duifangshibushizaitaoyanzijidengdeng,dangzijizaimouxiechanghechuxianjinzhangbuzirandeshihou,tajiuhenhaipazaiyicichuxianzaizheigechanghezhizhong。
2、内心比较冲突
liruzaizuomouxiejuedingdeshihou,zongshichuyuyizhonghenchongtuhenmaodundezhuangtaizhizhong,zuoshizongshiyouyouyuyu,jingchangrongyiyinweiyixieshiqingerziwogongji,congyikaishizhiduiyijianshiqinghuozheyigerenchanshengchongtu,ranhouyanbianchengduiduojianshiqinghuozheduorenchanshengchongtu,biruyikaishihaipajianmougeren,manmandebianchenghaipajiechusuoyouren。
3、逃避社交场合
taobishejiaochanghe,birujuhui、jucandeng,buganqurenduodedifang,zhiyaoshirenduodedifangjiukaishixianggezhongjiekouduobi,zongjuedebirubuxihuanziji,yidandaolerenduodedifangjiukaishijinzhangjiaolvbuan,gandaohunshenbuzizai,zongganjuedaozijideyijuyidongdouxiangshizaibeirenjianshiyiyang,ganjuezijijingchangbeibeirenlengluo,henmeiyoucunzaigan,wufazhengchangdequgongzuohexuexi。
4、不敢跟被人对视
jingchanggandaozijidebiaoqingbuziran,bugangenbeirenyouyanshenjiechu,genbierenduishideshihouyanshenhuichuxianshanduo,dangnihebierenjiechudeshihounifaxianbierenbugankanzijideyanshendeshihou、nirenweizijideyanshenhuishanghaidaobieren。
5、余光恐惧
jingchangjuedezijiyuguanghuiyingxiangdaobieren,renweizijiyuguanghuirangbierenfangan,zongshibazijidezhuyiliguanzhuzaizijiyuguangshenshang,kaishikezhizijideyuguang,danshiyueshikezhizijideyuguang,zijideqingkuangjiuyueyanzhong。
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