迷茫时不知道干什么好该怎么办

 dangnimimangbuzhidaoganshenmehaoshi，jiutingxiajiaobuba，jingjingdeduchuxiangxiangzijixianzaidechujinghejiexialaideguihua。buzhidaoganshenmeshidesikao，shiweilerangyihouzoudegenghao。

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一、需要平静的独处

 dangrenzaimimangdeshihou，wangwangshiyouyuduiweilaishiqulefangxiang，buzhidaozijigaiwangnaliqu，buzhidaozijigaizuoshenme，zheigeshihou，taziranerrandehuiduiweilaichanshengkonghuanghejiaolv。

 jiyuzheizhongjiaolvhekonghuangdequshi，huilingwomenbennengdexiangyao“zuoxieshenme”laihuanjie、yangai、heduobizijidejiaolv。youxierenhuixuanzeyonggongzuo，jianshen，kanshudengzheixie“shangjin”“nuli”shiqinglaiyangaijiaolv。youxierenjiuchenzheigeshihoutingxiajiaobu，qulvxing，quhuangehuanjing，quqingtingneixindeshengyin。

二、了解自己的能力

 dangzhiyeshengyayudaopingjing，lejiezijidenenglishibukeshaodeyibu。meigerendegongzuonenglishibutongde，zaiwomenmimang，buzhidaoyaoquzuoshenmegongzuodeshihou，womenyaolaiduizijidegongzuonenglizuoyifanxiangxideziwolejie，zheiyangzaiwomenmimangshi，cainengzuochuzhengquedexuanze。

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三、打造自己的通用能力

 wolun·bafeiteyoujuzhumingdehua“renshengjiuxianggunxueqiu，zuizhongyaodeshifaxianhenshidexuehehenzhangdepo。”xiangxindajiadouzhidao。

 zhiyefazhanhetouziyiyang，zhaodaoyixiangjineng(xue)，zaizhengquedexingyezhiwei(po)shangtouruzugouduodeshijian(zhang)shizuijiandanzuiyouxiaodefangfa。

 ruguobunengzhaodaozhengquedexingye，yekeyiquedingyouyixienenglishigezhongnenglidejichu，shirenheshihoudoukeyikaishi，bingqieyongyuanbuhuiguoshide，neiyidingyaojinzaoyangchengxiguan。biruyuedunengli、goutongnengli、xiezuonengli、sikaonenglideng，haiyouxietongyongdeshi，birushuo，jiankanghelicai。

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四、停止内心消极对话

 biandizijidepingjia，chulerangxinqingxueshangjiashuangwai，shenmehaochudoumeiyou。womenzongshigaogubieren，diguziji。nibinixiangxiangzhongyaogenghao，zhidaoma？

不要因为遭受到了挫折就否定自己。人生就是一场马拉松，不到终点都不能定输赢。谁也不能逼你停止赛跑，最怕的就是你自己放弃。