夫妻吵架如何掌握分寸感

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夫妻吵架要如何掌握分寸感?

 xinggebushiwanquanyiyangdefuqilianggerenzaiyiqishenghuoneimezhangshijian，nanmianhuifashengyixiezhengzhi，yixiefuqiyeyinweijingchangchaojia，juederiziguobuxiaqujiulihunle，danshiyixiedongdechaojiayishudefuqi，dongdebachaojiabianchengganqingshengwenderunhuaji，chaojiabudanbuhuiyingxiangtamendefuqiqinggan，erqiehaihuicujintamendeqingganjiaoliu，tongyangshichaojia，jieguoquewanquanbutong。suoyifuqichaojiadezheigefencun，woxiangdajiashibixuyaozhangwohaode，neimefuqichaojiayoushenmeyuyanyishuzaiqizhongni?

夫妻吵架，首先，我们要注意的是吵归吵，不要恶语相向。

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 chaojiadeshihounikeyiyi‘jiaodu’erbushi‘shifei’deguandianlaishuochunidexiangfa。chaojiadeshihouqianwanbuyaoyou‘yidingshitadecuo’zheiyangdexiangfa，zheizhongsixianghenweixian，tahuirangnijuedezijimeiyouzuocuoshenme，doushiduifangdecuo，zheiyangnijiuhuiyiweidezeguaiduifang，zhishiduifangjuedeniwuliqunao，bukeliyu。suoyibuyaoyichaojianijiushenmedoufanboduifang，zhengmingzijimeicuo，zheiyangnimenbujinzhaobuchuchaojiadeyuanyinsuozai，jiejuebulewenti，haihuizaochenggengduodewuhui，xingchenggengdadejuli。

 lingwaifuqichaojiaduoshiyinweijiatingjiufen，yijianbuhechanshengdezhengzhi，zheixiejiufenwentiwangwangmeiyouyigebiaozhundedaan，suoyibuyaotaiyiziwoweizhongxin，wanquanbuguduifangdexiangfaheyijian，yebuyaozaichaojiadeshihousuisuibianbiandeshuolihun，lihunzheiyangdeziyanhuoxuzhishinichaojiashihoudeyijuwuxinzhiyan，danshishuodeduole，huozhechupengdaoleduifangdedixian，neimezheiyangdesiweijiuhuizaibicizhijianshenggenfaya，zuihoudaozhibeiju。

其次，夫妻吵架要做到防患于未然。

 lianggerenzhisuoyihuichaojiashiyinweiyijianbuhedaozhidezhengzhibuxia。ruguobuxiangrangchaojiayingxiangdaonimendefuqishenghuo，neimezaipingshiyulingyibanxiangchudeshihou，jiuyaozhuyiyuyanyishu，nikeyixiangduifangduoduobiaodazijidexiangfa，dangranyeyaoduotingduifangdeyijian，xingchenggongming。zheiyangjiaoliugoutongdeduole，shuangfangduiyuyixieshiwudekanfayehuibijiaoxiangxiang，congerkeyibimianxuduozhengzhi，yeweifuqizhijiandelianghaoguanxidaxiajichu。

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