分手后如何体面地挽回前男友？

bushaonvshengzai wanhuiqiannanyou  deshihou，yaomejiushizhiyiduifangfenshoudeyuanyin，yaomejiushibeiweidiaiqiuduifanghuidaozijishenbian。qishizheixiecuowudewanhuifangshizhihuiladizijishenjia，fanerrangduifanggengjiafangan。neimenvshengyinggairuhetimiandiwanhuiqiannanyouni？

fenshouhouruhetimiandiwanhuiqiannanyou？

一、挽回男友之前要思考3个问题

1.你在过去的感情中是否幸福？

ruguonizaishangyiduanganqingquanquanfuchuzhenxintouru，huanlaidequeshicaijizhengchaoshiwangtongku，neimecishifangshoukenengshiyizhongjietuo。yinweiruguonimendeganqinghexinwentimeiyoujiejue，buguanfuheduoshaocidouyoukenengzhongdaofuzhe。

2.这次分手的主要原因是什么？可以接受么？

youshihoudaozhifenshoudeyuanyinkenengshiyixieyuanzeshangdewenti，liru：liaosaojiabaochugui。zheixiexingweiduiyuhenduonvshenglaishuoshibukejieshoude。dantamenwangwangchuyubushe，ningyuanweiquqiuquanyeyaoliuzhuduifang。zheizhongwanhuizhudingshiyichangziwozhemo，hennanbaozhengduifangbuhuizaifanzheizhongyuanzexingdecuowu。

3.是否愿意为了这段感情而改变自己？

ganqingzoudaofenshouzheiyibuyidingshimougehuanjiechulewenti。lengjingxialaisikao，ruguowentichuzaizijishenshangjiuyaoyongyuchengrenbingzuochugaibian。

二、挽回前男友的正确步骤

1.把握挽回男友的时机

suoweiwanhuideshiji，zhidezaifenshouhoushuliguozijideqingxunenglengjingxialaizhidingjihuadeshihou。suoyibulunniyouzaiduobuganxin，yeqingxianlengjingxialai，zhuajinshijianshulizheiduanganqingnagehuanjiechulewenti。

 gangfenshoudeshihoushiyigerenqingganzuicuiruodeshiqi，qingxuyehenbuwendingjinxingwanhuishiweixiande。yinweizheigeshihounihenrongyichucuo，yidanzaiduifanghaixinyouyunianzhishibashengyudehaoganxiaohaodaijin，wanghoudewanhuijianggengnanjinxing。

suoyibulunniyouzaiduobuganxinyeqingxianlengjingxialai，zhuajinshijianshulizheiduanganqingnagehuanjiechulewenti。

2.调整好自己的挽回心态

wanhuiqiannanyouxintaizuizhongyao。niyinggaimingbaiyidian：wanhuishinideshiqing，yaobuyaojieshoushitadeshi。

dangnizhongxinshenshizheiduanguanxishihuifaxian：kenengzaitayanlizheiduanganqingkenengjieshule，yaozuohaotameiyouyiwuquanpanjieshounidezhunbei。youlezhengquedexintai，nicaibuhuitaiguoyuhuandehuanshi，yehuigengqingchuzijidemubiao。

3.要用对挽回方式

wanhuidefangshishilinghuode，nixuyaozhidaonimenfenshoudeyuanyinlejieduifangdetedianduizhengxiayao，cainengzhongxinzhaohuilianaishihoudeganjue。

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