被分手后如何挽回男朋友？四步让他回心转意

 beifenshoudeneiyigezongshizuishoushangde，youqishinvsheng。nvshengbeifenshouhouyidinghenshangxinhennanguo，danxinlimianhaishifangbuxiaguoquxiangyao wanhuinanpengyou 。neime，beifenshouhouruhewanhuinanpengyouni？anzhaoxiamianjigeguanjiandebuzhouyibubuwowanhui。

beifenshouhouruhewanhuinanpengyou？siburangtahuixinzhuanyi

挽回步骤一：断联

 henduonvshengbeifenshouhouhuiduiqiannanyousichanlanda，yiweizhiyaobufangshouqiannanyoujiubuhuizou。qishinvshengduinanshengsichanlanda，fanerhuirangnanshengduiniyuelaiyueyanjuan，youkenenghuibidetajiangnimenzhijiansuoyoudelianxidoushandiaolahei，zheiyangyejiuyiweizhewanhuinanyoudenandujiuhuibiandegengdale。

 yincizaifenshouzhihoubufangshishiduandiaohenanshengdelianxi，jitayigehuanchongdeshijiangengshijizijiyigelengjingtishengdeshijian。zaizheiduanshijianlinikeyibazijiguanzaifangjianlidakuyichang，yekeyizhaoguimipengyoutucaofaxieyidun……lengjingxialaizhihoujiuyaofanshengyixia，taduininalibuman？daozhifenshoudewentishishenme？niyaozenmegaibian？jiexialaidejihuashishenme？

挽回步骤二：改变自我

 gaibianziwoshiwanhuinanpengyoudeguanjian。nanyouyaohenifenshou，yaobujiushinizishenyouxiequediantawufajieshoude，youhuozheshinimenzhijiancunzaihendadewenti。suoyixiangyaowanhuinanyoudexin，jiuxuyaogaibianziwo，rangzijibiandegengjiayouxiu。

 ruguotajuedenitaihaiziqi，neinijiexialaijiuyaorangzijishiyingyigerendeshenghuo，rangzijixiguanchengshuwenzhongdesikaofangshi；ruguotajuedeniduiweilaimeiyouguihua、muguangduanqian，neinijiuyaohaohaoshenshiyixiazijimuqiandeshenghuozhuangtai，jizijidingxiayigeduanqidemubiao，minglingzijiquzhixing；zuihouhaikeyikaolvhuanyigeganjingliluodeliuhai，changshibutongfenggedechuanyidapei，canjiabutongleixingdeyundongxiangmu，birumanpao、malasong、yujiahuozhejianshendeng，rangzijideshenghuozhongxinyangguanghuopoqilai。

 gaibianshiyaozhenduiduanlianqijiannidesikaohefansheng，youneierwaijinxingde。dangnizhenzhengbagaibianluoshidaonishenghuoli，cainengzaijiexialaidefulianqi，yiyigequanxindegaojiazhixingxiangchuxianzainanshengmianqian。

挽回步骤三：建立吸引

 zheilisuoshuodexiyinzhuyaoshiercixiyin，ercixiyinjiushiwanhuinanpengyoudejuticaozuole。youleshangyibudeziwogaibianhetishengzuoweijichu，zaizhanxianzijimeihaodeyimianqujianlixiyin，rangqiannanyouzhongxinduinichanshengxingqu，zheijiushiercixiyindeguocheng。

 tongguoyaoyuebicidegongtonghaoyouchifankandianyinghuozhelvxing，jianjiediranghaoyoubaniwaizaiyijixintaishangdebianhuahetishengchuandijinansheng。youhuozherenweizhizaode“ouyu”，nikeyishixianlejieyixiatadeshenghuoxixing，anpaiyifenhuwaimanpaodelujingyuzhizhongdie，ranhoujiushijingdainihetadeouyule。

 chenggongouyuleyebuyongjinzhangyebuyaoshuohua，zixinyangguangdiyixiaoerguojiuhao，nidemudeshiyaojiangzijidejinkuangzhenshifankuijita，ruguozhudongkaikouhuirangtajingjuebingjuechadaonideyitu，zheiyangzijiuqiangongjinqile。

 shixiangdangnanshenghenifenshouzhihou，congpengyouquanzhongkanbudaonibandiandebeishang，pengyouyefankuinijinlaidexinqinghezhuangtaidouhenbucuo，zaijingguoyiliangci“ouyu”mianduimianganshoudaonihecongqiandebuyiyang。tajiuhuiduinichanshenghaoqi，zheigeshihounijiukeyizhaojihuizhongxinhetajianlilianxile。

挽回步骤四：与前男友复联

 fenshouhoufuliandediyiciduihuatongchangshihengangade，weilebimianjinzhanghegangacaiyong“xuqiutiwenfa”。birushuonikeyiyong“buhaoyisiwoxiangwenniyigewenti”，ranhoujiangwentipaochu“wodediannaoxianzaituranchulexxxdewenti，nibijiaodongzheige，nengzhidaoshishenmeyuanyinma？”zheilikeyiconghenduogefangmianzheshou，nanshengdetezhang、aihao、gongzuodengdeng，danzheigeshihouzhuyibunengshejiganqinghuati，bimianrangtayiyankanchuannidemude。

 cishi，nishiyouqiuyutadewugushaonv，tashireqingshanliangderexinshimin，nimenzhijiandeqifenjiushiqiadaohaochude。dangnidewentijiejuezhihou，zhaogejiekoujieshuhetadediyicifulian，yunyongtuilajiqiaojixuyayiyataxinzhongjiyashuridehaoqixin。

 yibanqingkuangxia，jingguoshucimudexingshijiandetuilazhihou，nihenanshengjiunengzhongxinjianliyigezhengchangdeliaotianguanxi，shengxiadejiushichangguixingdeliaohanhejianliguanxi，batadangzuonigangrenshidenanshenyiyangquzhuiqiujiukeyile。

 nvshengbeifenshoulebenlaishenjiajiuhendile，ruguonijixufangdishenjiaquwanhuiduifang，zhihuirangtagengjiakanbushangni。tayuekanbushangnijiuhuiyuebuxiangfuhe，suoyifuhezhiluqishijiushiziwotishengzhilu。