花镇情感咨询师

　　laogongchuguiruhediaochaquzheng，xuyaodiaochaquzhengzhangfushibushihunhouchugui，jigeguanjianyinsubukehushi。zuixian，shizhongbaochijingti，liuyiyiqieyichangdejudongbianhua。cizhi，soujizhengjushifeichangbiyaode，keyiliyongjiankongxitong、tongxunjilu、shejiaowangluodengfangshi。chucizhiwai，bixuyiguihuodezhengju，jinliangzunzhaogerenyinsiyaoqiu，fangzhiweijixingwei。zuizhuyaodeshi，baochilengjinghelixing，quebaosuodedezhengjujingqueheli，weilekaizhanhoumianguanlijuece。tongguozheigeliucheng，cainenggenghaodejiejuelaogongchuguidexianxiang。

　　diaoyanlingyibanshibushichuguishiyixiangfuzaqieminganmeirirenwu，yidingyaojinshenhemingzhidexuanzefangshi。zheilijiangjiyuyixiejianyi，yibangzhuzijitanxunkenengxingdezhengju，jiechuzheiyijiedi。

　　观查小细节，灵敏且不太过

　　laogongchuguiruhediaochaquzheng，zuixian，zixiguanchaxiaoxijie，nikeyifajuecunbucunzaiyixieyichangdejudonghuozhuanbian。zheijiangbaokuogenggairichangzuoxishijianbiao、chuanzhedabandegaibian、duishoujibaomidejudongdeng。danshi，womenxuyaobaochilengjing，quebaoziyiderenweishiyouyijude，bingfeiyipiangaiquan。

　　探寻证据，但尽量依法依规

　　yidanniyongyouhelihuaiyi，tanxunzhengjudeyigeguochengbianyouweizhongyao。danqingjinkuaizunshoufalv，bubicaiyongweifahuoqinfangerenyinsidefangfa。nikeyikaolvdaosoujitongxunjilu、duanxiaoxi、shejiaowangluoweixinliaotianjiludeng，danxuzaidedaoxieshangyizhihuohelihefafangshizhongjinxing。

　　依靠方式方法，安防监控

　　tangruobixu，nikeyikaolvdaoyikaofangshifangfazhankaidiaocha，liruzuzhuangjiankongshexiangjihuoshiyongeyichengxu。danshi，shiyongzheileijishushi，womenxuyaoquebaoyiguishijicaozuo，yangezunshouyouguanguiding。chucizhiwai，weilefangzhibenshengerenyinsixielu，tiyizixunfalvzhuanyejishurenyuan，quebaonidexingweiyifayigui。

　　获得专业的协助，寻找调查员

　　jiaruzheixiefangfarengbunengyouxiaohuodezhengju，nikeyixunzhaogengzhuanyedediaochayuanxiezhu。tamenyouzhezhuanyenengliyujingyan，nenggouyouxiaodikaizhandiaochaquzhenggongzuozhong。yudiaochayuanxiezuoshi，quebaotiaoxuanxinyuduyouliang、juyouhelihefazigedediaochajigou，weihuzishenquanyi。

　　保持冷静，作出理性决定

　　laogongchuguiruhediaochaquzheng，buguannifaxianlezhengjuhuoshizhaobudao，douxuyaobaochilengjinghelixing。jiejuezheizhongqinggankunhuobuyi，danbulizhihuopianjidejudongzhinengzaochengjudadesunhai。shensishulvhou，yijudiaochabaogaozuochushihezijiguanlijuece，youkenengshiweixiguanxi、xunzhaohunyinfudaohuoshifenkailiyi。jinyoulengjingfenxi，nicainenggouzuochumingzhidexuanze。