分手后如何让前男友主动挽回你？

 fenshouhoulianggerendouhuihennanshou，nihenxiang wanhuinanyou queyouaiyumianzibuganzhudonglianxiduifang，zhinengshashadidengdaiduifanghuitouzhaoni。qishiaiqingjiushizheiyangmanmanxiaoshide，ruguonibuxiangshiquduifangjiubixuyaogaibianxianzhuang， zhongxinxiyin qiannanyoubingqierangtazhudongwanhuini。

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1.调整心态

 xiaoji、tuitang、shangxinzheixieqingxudoushiyinweiniduizheiduanganqingheduifangdebushe，danbuguanshijieshuhaishizhongxinkaishi，jijileguandexintaicainengrangnixunsubaituoshiliandailaidejingshenheshenglishangdejiasuo。

2.分手的原因

 jirandoushilianle，sheihaiyuanyiqushenjiufenshoudeyuanyin？danqingnixiangyixia，zaiwanhuiqiankeyifansiganqingzhongdewenti，keyijinxingzhenduixingdeduizhengxiayao，neimewanhuijiuhuishibangongbei；zaikaishixinderenshengqian，jiecijihuifansheng，zaixiayiduanlianqingzhong，zhishaonengbuzaifantongyangdecuowu，yehuoxujiushilianaihuirangrenbiandechengshudelingwaiyizhongquanshi。

3.过好自己的生活

 fenshouhouniyiranguodehenhao。zheishirangdaduoshurendouhuihouhuideqingkuang，dangnideshenghuozailikaitazhihoubingmeiyoufashengrenhegaibian，shenzhishiyueguoyuehao，tajiuhuihouhuizijiweishenmeyaohenifenkai。shenzhishizaiheyixingpengyouyewandetebiehao，likaitahouyixingyuanmengzhangdeshihou，takandaozheizhongqingkuangyibandouhuixinshengduji，huihouhuihenifenshoubanirangjilebieren。suoyifenshouhouguohaozijideshenghuo，zuirongyirangduifanghouhui，rangduifangzhudonglaiwanhuini。

4.不把他当一回事

 youxierenfenshouhoujiandaoqianrengenjiandaoguiyiyangsimingduozhe，buganzaijianmian，pagangayepashangxin。zheiyangqianrenfanerhuijuedehenifenshoushizhengquede。danruguonijianmian，hainengxiaozhehetadazhaohu，bubahetatanguolianaidangyihuishi，jiuhuicuoshangtadezizun。zheishiyizhongyijiqiduifangshengfuyudefangshi，rangtaduinizhongxinguanzhu，zhongxinganxingqu。tajiuhuixiangzhefazilaiwanhuini。

5.提升自己

 zaifenshouhou，haohaoliyongshijianlaitishengziji，duizijijinxingyifan“shengjigaizao”，zaifenshouhouyouyigeguangxianlianglidexingxiang，jinengrangzijibiandegengmei，yenengxiyinzhuyixingdeyanguang。tongshi，hainengrangtaduinideyinxiangyouleyigefanxin。tishengzijihou，dangtahaishizaiyuanlaideshuipingdeshihou，nichuxianzaitamianqianshiyigeyijingbiandegenghaoderendeshihou，tajiuhuihouhuihenifenshou，debudaoxianzaigenghaodeni。neimetajiuhuizhudonglaiwanhuini。

 xiangyaoheduifangwanhui，shuodaodihaishiyaohaohaogaiguozijidequedian，rangduifangkandaonidegaibian，kandaonibiandegenghao，jiuhuiyouwanhuidexin。