恋爱秘籍：暧昧时千万别走心

“nijuede，aimeidezhongdianshishenme?huishiaiqingma?”pengyouxiaomizheimewenwo。

 xiaomizuijinrenshilegenansheng，liangrenmeitianliaotian，duihuaaimei。nanshengjitaqulehaoduonicheng，yihuierjiaotaxiaoshagua，yihuiershuotashixiaobendan，yuqijianjinxianchongni。tayehennuan，xiayutianhuitixingxiaomidaisan，tianlenglehuijitafagezhongbaonuanreyindezuofa，haishibushitixingtagaichifanle，tashuoxiaomiezhele，tahuidanxin。

xiaomixindongle，mingshianshinansheng，tayuanyichengweitadenvyou。dannanshengdouzhishitingzhe，buzuorenhehuiying。

 xiaomiwenwo，nanshengdaodishijigeyisi。woyezhinengzhibaigaosuta：“neigerenzhishixiangheniaimeieryi，bingbuxianghenitanlianai，taqishibingbuxihuanni。”

 aimei，buyidingjiushilianaidekaishi。youdenanshengkenengzhixiangliaoliaonieryi，quemeirenzhenxiangguoyaohenilianai。youdenanshengzhishiyishixingqiheniwanwanaimeiyouxieryi，quebushizhendeduiniganxingqu。

suoyi，aimeideshihoubiezouxin。

（lianaimiji：aimeishiqianwanbiezouxin！）

• 暧昧走心，会增加沉没成本

 takenengzhizaikongxiandeshihouheniliaoliaoweixin，niqueshikenazheshouji，miaohuitadexinxi。takenengzhishishuoxieqinghua，zhuantoujiushui，niqueyincixingfendeshimian，bantianshuibuzhe。

tazhishisuikoushuoshuozijiqueleshenme，xiangyaoshenme，nijiufeijinxinsijitamailai，dangzuoliwuyiyangsongchuqu。

 zaiganqingli，xianaishangdeneigerenyidinghuixiantouru，wulunshishijian、jinqianhaishixinxue。suoyi，zaiaimeilibuyaozouxin。yidanzouxin，yidanzengjialezijizaizheiduanaimeilidechenmeichengben，jiuyiweizhenizaimianduishibaishigengnanchoushen。

 ruguotajujuenideai，nihuibuganxinzijifuchudezheixie，youhuibuganxindixiang，zijidoufuchulezheimeduole，kenengzainuliyixieduifangjiuhuijieshou。ruciyilai，chenmeichengbenjiuhuijixuzengjia，exingxunhuan。

• 最怕你想走心，他只想走肾

 yourenshuo，lianaizhongdenvshengzhishangweiling。zheihuasuiranshikuazhangde，danyoubushaonvshengzaiganqinglidequerongyixinruan，rongyibeirenliyong。

 wodepengyoucengjingheaimeiduixiangyuequkandianying，qijianliangrenhenqinmi，haiqianleshou，wodepengyouyiweizheijiushinanshengjichudexinhao。

 suoyi，houlainanshengjianyiquxiaolvguanxiuxiyixiashi，tayouyuleyixiajiudayingle。tajuede，liangrendouyijingchaozhenannvpengyoudefangxiangfazhanle，yebuchazheiyibu。

 neitianzhihou，tawennansheng，liangrenshibushikaishitanlianaile。nanshengmeiyouhuida，zaineizhihoujiuduitalengdanlebushao，zuihouhaiduanlelianxi。

 pengyoushuo，dangchunanshenghuoxuzhishixiangzoushen，meixiangdaotaquezoulexin，haibachuanghuzhitongpo。nanshengkenengshipareleqingzhai，suoyijimangchoushen。

 zaiaimeili，nvshengzuihaipadeshiqingdagaijiushizijizouxin，duifangquexiangzoushen。zijibashenxindoujiaochuqulezhihou，nanshengquepaipaipiguzouren，zhibaliangrendeguanxiguiweipaoyou。

• 暧昧走心，会把真感情聊没

youxieshihou，aimeishijiyuhaogan，queyoumeidaotanji“aibuai”dechengdu。zheigeshihoutaizouxin，huibazhenganqingliaomei。

 takenengzhixiangheniliaoliaoyinle，nijiubazijixiaidegeshougaosuleta，youshuolebushaogequfengge，youyonggecichuanqing。shuodetaiduo，lejienitairongyi，huirangtashiquduinidehaoqixin。

 tahuoxuzhixiangheniliaoliaoweixin，shuoshuoduanzi，jianhuoqingsuyixiazijidexinshi。dannijiupobujidailianxita，meitiandoujitafaduanxin、dadianhua、jiyutawuxiandereqing，jiuwufatiaoqitadezhengfuyu。

 youleshenmeshiqing，nimeixiangzhezijijiejue，ershisazhexiaojiao，rangtalaibangzhuni。jiuerjiuzhi，tajiuhuijuedenishigetaizhanrendenvsheng，juedeheniyiqitaiguoyouyali。

 zaitaduinizhishi“haogan，quehaimeiyouaishangnideshihou，taiguozouxinrongyibatahepao。nanshengxihuande，haishineizhongsiyouruowu，zhidetaqunulitiaozhandeganqing。

 暧昧，真的不一定是爱情的开始，也有可能是结束，更有可能是对你的一种伤害。所以在暧昧里，你千万别走心。

 tadongqingsanfen，nijiuhuiyisanfen，buduobushao，buguoyuqinmi，yebuguoyulengdan。tadongxinwufen，nijiuhuiyiwufen，dengtazhendekaikoubiaoshixihuanni，xiangyaozhuiqiunishi，nizaidayingzuotadenvyou，zaiquzuoyixiezhuanshuyuqinglvzhijiandeqinmijudong。

yigenanshengzhenxinaini，juebuhuizhianyuheniaimei，erbuquzhuiqiuni。

 zhenzhengdeaiqing，shidaiyouzhanyouyude，tayehaipazaiaimeiqijian，nijiubeibierenzhuizoule，tayexiangjiniyigezhengshideshenfen，rangliangrennengmingzhengyanshundizouzaiyiqi。

ruguo，tazhishiheniaimei，quechichibukaikoubiaobai，biaoshixiangrangnidangtadenvyou，neimejiuqingshouqinidezhenxin。

 xiangxiangshouxindongdeganjue，neijiubaozhewanwandexin，xiangshouaimeideguocheng。youhuoshizhuanshenlikai，heneixiezhixiangheniaimeidenanshengduanjuelianxi。