女生越来越难恋爱的3个原因

 tuodanlianaizheijianshiduiyuyixienvshenglaishuosihuhennan，erqieshiyuelaiyuenan，yiqianshenbianhaiyouyixiekefazhan lianaiguanxi deyixing，kexianzaisihumeiyoule，niyuelaiyuenanlianai，zheishiweishenme?

 “wokenengyaoguduyibeizile。”cai25sui，wodepengyouyijingzheimeduanyanle。tashuo，yiqiantanguodelianai，shouguodeqipian，zuyirangtaduilianaichanshengkongjule。tabuzaixiangfuchuzhenxin，zuihouquededaozheiyangdejieguo。ruguoyoukenenghuishoudaoshanghai，neimetaningyuanbuzailianai。

 tatanguoliangcilianai，danliangcidoumeiyouhaodejieguo。diyici，nanyoupituizijidepengyou，tongshishiquleaiqingheyouqing。dierci，nanyoujiushigejuying，zhiwangtayangjia，haiyaotazuohaosuoyoudejiawu，batazhaogudetuotuodangdang。houlai，tayelailepiqi，henanyouchaojia，nanyoufaqihuolai，duitadongleshou。

 zheiliangcizhihou，jinguanzhuitaderenyebushao，dantajiumeizaitanguolianaile。taduiwoshuo，nengrangtadongxinderenbushimeiyou，zhishitahaipazheidoushijiaxiang，tazaiyechengshoubuleaiqingduitadezaiyicishanghaile。

 meiyouyigenvshengbuchongjingaiqing，zhishi，aiqingdailaidequebuzhishimeihao，haikenengyoushanghai。erneixiebeishanghaiguodenvsheng，yinweishenzhibeisuoaizhirenshanghaiyouduoxintong，suoyitamengengnanzaiaiqinglimaikaijiaobu。tamenouerhaishihuiduimougerenyoujidong，queyuelaiyuenanqukaishiyiduanlianaile。

 jingchangtingzhangbeishuo：“wozainimenzheigenianjia，yijingjielehun，shenglexiaohaile。kankanni，haizheimebujinbuman，yidiandoubucaoxinzijiderenshengdashi。”

 zaizhangbeimianqian，wodoushiyibianpeixiao，yibiandiantouchengshi。danqishi，nagenvshengbuxiangyougerenlaiqianqizijideshou，congcipeizhezijizouwanyisheng。zhishi，xianzaizhendeyuelaiyuenanlianaile。

（nvshengyuelaiyuenanlianaide3geyuanyin）

• 我明白自己想要什么，更明白自己不想要什么

 yougepengyoudanshenxujiu，tashuo，tahenmingbaizijixiangyaoshenme，gengmingbaizijibuxiangyaoshenme。tayaodeshiyiduanyoumoqidelianai，tabuxuyaoguyifuruan，nanyoujiunengkandongtazaiqiangzhuangjianqiang。tabuxuyaoshuochukou，nanyoujiunengdudongtadeqingxu，zhidaotashikaixinhaishibukaixin。

 dankexi，tayudaodenanshengdoubujubeizheiyangdenengli。tamenbuyuanyifeishijianqududongtadexinsi，yebuyuanyiquxiangtayoushenmexuqiu。qingrenjielizhihuijitasonghuasongqiaokeli，quebuzhidaotahuafenguomin，yebuxitianshi。

 pengyoushuo，tatailejieziji，taimingbaizijibuxiangyaoshenmele。hezheiyangdenanshenglianai，zhihuirangtajuedeliangkexinshiyaoyuande，erbushihuxiangyikao，huxiangwennuan。

• 恋爱应该一起欢笑，而不是彼此折磨

 yizhixihuankan《aiqingbaoweizhan》，limianyoubushaoanlishiyiweijiabintaiaiwan，erlingyigequexiangxianzhiduifangdeziyou。danqishi，aiwanmeiyoucuo，dangran，xuanzeandingyemeiyoucuo。

 lianai，jiuyinggaishizaiyiqihuanxiao。ruguotaaiwan，aijiaoyou，aipaoba，erqiaqiaoniyeshi，neinimenjiukeyiguozhehuanlebuduandeshenghuo，yehuirenweishenbianderenshihepeiniwannao。ruguotaaiguojujiashenghuo，aizijimaicaizuofan，aiwozaijialifadai，erqiaqiaoniyeshi，neinimenjiukeyiguozhewenxineranxindeshenghuo，yehuijuedeshenbianderenshihepeinizhonglao。

 zheiliangzhongaiqingdoumeiyoucuo，cuodeshixuanzelebukenpeizhezijiwannaoderen，xuanzelebukenpeizhezijifadaideren。womenyuelaiyuenanlianai，huoxujiuyinweiruci。womenxiangyaodeshiyiduanziyouerheshideaiqing，erbushibeimougerenshufu，bushihuxiangzhemo。

• 如果只为一刻欢愉，找个pao友就好了

 weishenmeyaolianai?buzhishixiangyaoyikehuanyu，haixiangyaoxishuiliuzhangdepeiban，haixiangyaoyiwufangudezhichi。danhenduoshihou，nanyouzhinengmanzuqianyixiang，quewufajizijipeibanhezhichi。

 zheijiushiyouxienvshengbuyuanyilianaideyuanyin，tamenrenwei，ruguozhiweikuaile，neimezhaogepaoyoujiukeyile。erruguo，haixiangyaolingwailiangyang，haixiangyaoyouyigerennengduizijihao，nengpeibanzijiduguorenshengzhongdeyigeyouyigenanguan，neijiuyaohaohaotiaoxuan。

chufeizhendenengzhaodaoneiyangdeyigeren，zaicizhiqian，juebujiangjiu。

 “weishenmenvshengyuelaiyuenanlianaile?”henduorendoushuo，shinvshengtaitiao，yanjietaigao。zheigeshuofa，woshizantongde，xianzaidenvshengdequeduiaiqingyuelaiyueyouyaoqiule。

yinweiwomentaiqingchuzijixiangyaoshenme，yezhidaozijibuxiangyaoshenme，suoyicaibuxiangjiangjiu，buxianghuluanjiudinglezijideyisheng。

 womenhaishixiangyaozhaoyigeduiweideren，nengpeiwoyiqinao，yenengpeiwoyiqiku。womenhaishixiangyaozhaoyigekenhuaxinsiqulejiewo，ranhounengjieshouzhenzhengdewoderen，erqieduiwozhuanyi，zhisibuyu。

 ruguoneigerenhaimeichuxian，womenbujieyidengdai，womennengguohaozijideshenghuo。ranhouzaitachuxiandeneiyike，badezijizhanxian，rangtajingyan。erbushisuibianzhaoyigeren，quxiaomodiaowomenduiaiqingdesuoyouchongjinghereqing。

lianaiconglaibunan，nandeshizhaodaoyigewoaide，tongshiyeaizhewodeta。