为什么有些人会觉得谈恋爱好难

 jintian‘ tanlianaihaonan ’zheijuhuashangleresou，kanlehenduorendoujuedetanlianaihaonan，youwangyoupinglunshuotanlianainanshiyinweiyouxitaihaowan、ouxiangzhangdetaishuai、yudaoyigeliangqingxiangyuederenhaonan、yeyinweizijisong!nini?weishenmenihuijuedetanlianaihaonan?

为什么有些人觉得谈恋爱好难?

 buzhidaoweishenme，xianzaihenduorennapashibeijialibizhexiangqin，yebuyuanyishizhequjiechutanlianai，fangfoxiguanlezijiyigerendeshenghuo，youdenvshengshuo：wozijikeyiyanghuoziji，zhendebuzhidaozhaogerenjiehundeyiyizainali?jiujingshishenmeyuanyindaozhiyuelaiyueduoderenjuedelianaihaonan?

 pengyoushuo： dagaishiyinwei，yixiangdaoyaozhongxinkaishiqurenshiyigeren，yaocongtoudaoweiqulejieduifang，jiuhuijuedeshizaishitailei，yetaimafanle。 gengzhongyaodeshi，youshihounixiangyaolejieduifang，yeyaokanduifangyuanbuyuanyi。 erneixieshiliuqisuihanzhe“lianaidaguotian”denianji，xiaoxinyiyidikaojin，renzheneryoubenzhuodixihuanyigerendenianji，haoxiangzaojiuyiqubufufanle。

qingchunqiganggangliqu，ershenghuodejiannanyouganghaodaolai。

yiqiandeshihou，xibuxihuanyigerenshiaiqingdeqianti。 danxianzaishenbianderenhaoxiangdoubuzheimexiangle。

wogenpengyouliaodaozheigehuati，tashuo： qishishenbianjiuyouhenduobuyinweiaiqingerjiehundelizia!

jialirenliaotiandeshihouyehuishuo，moumouqinqidenver，xiangqin，caiyigeyuejiujiajilemouyigenande。

nandejialiyoufangyouche，xiaoriziguodehenanwen，duohaoazhileide。

daxuetongxuejuhui，yinweijiehunerbiandeyouquanyoushideneiyiweiyeshoudaolezuiduodegongwei。

“aiyazhenxianmuniya，shenmeshidoubuyongcaoxin。”

dajiatanlunaiqingdeshihoubushiwenni“xibuxihuanta”，ershiwenni“tajialideqingkuangzenmeyang”。

很奇怪吧?

 yiqiandeshihouxihuanyigeren，shitoutoubazijidezuoyebengenduifangdediezaiyikuai。 shipaiduishengguoqideshihou，zaihaoduoyimoyiyangdehounaoshaoliyiyanrenchutalai。

但现在不是了。

（为什么有些人会觉得谈恋爱好难？）

 jiuhaoxiangyoupengyougenwoshuo： zijimingmingcaiershilaisui，danbuzhidaoweishenme，ganjuehenmimang。 neizhongqingchunniandaiheermengbaofa，duiyigerenpengranxindongdeshike，jiuzheiyangyiqubufufanle。

dajiabuhuizaihuahenzhangshijianqulejieyigeren，buhuihuahenzhangshijianqutoutouxihuanyigeren。

tashuo： aiqingbenlaijiushihennandede，youxierenkenengyibeizidouyubudaole。

有点丧。

为什么有些人一直都不想谈恋爱呢?

a.duizijiyaoqiutaigao，renweizijihaibugoulixiang，juederuguogennizaiyiqidehua，haibunengjinisuoxiangyaodeyiqie。

b.zibeidenansheng，juedezijidetiaojianbugouyouxiu，zhuinvshengdenanduhenda，buyuanquchangshi。

 c.bijiaoyouzhixiangdenansheng，tamenxuexi、shenghuomubiaomingque，xiwangnengzhuajinshijianhaohaodushu，duoxuediandongxi。(benlaihaohaodushushijianhenzhengchangdeshiqing，xianzaidefengqishidezheiyangdenanshenghaoxiangxiyoudongwuyiyang)

d.bijiaotingfumuhuadenansheng，fumurenweidaxuetanlianaihaibuheshi，buhuiyoumanyidejieguo。

“yixiangdaoyaozhongxinqurenshiyigeren，yaocongtoudaoweiqulejieduifang，jiuhuijuedeshizaishitailei，yetaimafanle”

 “kaoshangyanjiushengle?qianzhuanwanle?dianyingkanwanle?shoujibuhaowan?youzheimeduoshiqingyaozuo，ganmafeiyaojizijizhaogenanpangyoutiandu”

“youhaogandenanshengduiwomeixingqu，xihuanwodewokanjianjiufanjiuganga，zhenzhengxihuandemeiyou，ganjuezheibeizidoutanbulelianai”

“yinweiyaobazijisuoyoumeihaodeyimiannachulai，haiyaoyizhijianchizhe，zhendehaolei”

 “jimamafaxinximamameihuinibuyongxinhuang，jiduixiangfaxinxiduixiangmeihuiniyitiandouzuolinanan，yinweiniquedingmamaaini，buquedingduixiangaibuaini，zheizhonghuandehuanshideganjueyidiandoubuxiangyao”

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 meiyigejuedenandehuoxudoubeiaiqingshanghaiguo，keyishuoshishiqulelianaidexinxin，ganjuesuoyoumeihaodedongxizhiyinggaichuxianzaitonghuali。niyejuedetanlianaihaonanma?