我和男友异地恋 过了热恋期他说要换个恋爱方式

wohe nanyou shiyidilian，diyicitanlianaitaduiwohenbaorong，danshirelianqiyiguotajiushoubulewodexiaoqingxuhepiqi，jingchanggenwojiangdadaoli，haigentafumushuo，fumurangwomenxuehuimohe，tashuowomenyaohuanyizhonglianaimoshi，wohenmeianquanganzenmeban。

情感问题 咨询

ninhaolaoshi!wohetashiyidilian，tazaiguangzhou，wozaishenzhen，womenshilaoxiang，jialidehenjin，womendoushidiyicilianai，tanleyinianle，ta175cm.wo159cm。

shuangfangjianguofumu，tafumudoushilaoshi，woyeshiyiminglaoshi，tazaiditieshangban，wohenaita，reliandeshihoutaduiwotebiehao，baorongwodexiaoqingxuhepiqi，jianjiandi，guolerelianqi，woouerdexiaoqingxuhepiqitashoubulele，gujiyeshiyinweixiangnianba!tahaihuigenwoshuoyidaduidadaoli。

relianqideshihoutashuoniandijiwodaishangjiezhi，keshidaoxianzaitajingranshuo，huanzuoyiqianhuijinidaishang，xianzaigujibanbudao。erqiewohetanaoqingxuhuozhefapiqideshiqingtagaosuletafumu，luledianhuahejietujitafumukan，tafumuyezhaowotanhuale，dantaidubuqiangying，shuoyigejiatingzuizhongyaodeshihemuxiangchu，bunengzongshinaopiqihebaoyuan。

qishi，woweitayijinggaibianlehenduole。danshitashuowomenliangdexinggehaiyaomohemohe，tahaigentafumushuolehaiyaomohemohe。 houlaijiuyinweizheijianshi，wofumuzhidaole，wofumuhenshengqi，shuoyigenanrenzheizhongshidouhefumushuo，jiubunengbaorongnima?xinggehaiyaomohedaoshenmeshihou?benlaizheixueqidasuanguoquguangzhouhetayiqishenghuole，jiuyinweizheijianshi，wofumufanduile，jiaowobuyaoguoqu。

houlaiwofumuyehetaliaole，wofumugentashuozhijizheixueqideshijian，ruguonimenliangjuedequeshishimohebulaile，neijiufenle，gezhaogede。 houlaiwomendianhualiaoleyixia，tashuozheixueqihuangelianaifangshi，jiudangzuodiyicilianaishibaile，womenzhongxinkaishidiercilianai。

wozijixinlihencuiruo，meiyouanquangan，woyeyouyigedasuanjiushirangtaxiangwoqiuhun，wozaiguoquguangzhouhetayiqifendou，wobijiaorongyiqingxuhua，youshihoushuoleyixiepianjidehua，danshiwozhendexiangrangtagengzaihuwoyidian，meitiandouhenxiangnianta。

（wohenanyouyidilian guolerelianqitashuoyaohuangelianaifangshi！）

花镇情感 咨询师 回答 ：

nishuo，xiwangtagengzaihuniyidian，woxianzaikeyigaosuni，nidesuozuosuowei，yunideqiwangbeidaoerchi。lianggerenpoliedeguocheng，huichuxianyigezhongyaodeshike，wojiangqichengzhiwei“nizhuandian”。

zaizheiduanguanxili，zheigeshikeyijingchuxianle——nibingbuxiangxintahaihuihenizaiyiqi，ertayebingbuxiangxinnihaihuigaibian。zheishihou，niyuexiangrangtazaihuni，tayueshimeiyoubanfazaihuni。

zaizheigegejuxia，nixuyaogaizhengsanfangmian：

diyi，buyaorangshuangfangfumucanyuzheiduanguanxidefazhan。congxianzaiqi，niyinggaihetayuedingqingchu，wentidouyinggailiangrenzijiquchuli，buyaojiangwentikuosan。

dier，jiubaoronghemohedewentieryan，nimendeliaotianjilutebieyouyisi。niwenduifangweishenmebunenganzhaoshuangfangqingsongdefangshilaixiangchu?tashuo，neinizhidaotaxihuandefangshishishenmema?

zaiyiduanguanxili，shifouhelishiliangrenzixingyuedingdeshiqing。meiyitiandouyaoqiuduifanganzhaozijixiangyaodedongxilai，keshiniyoumeiyouxiangguoduifangyaodeshishenme?

disan，qingbuyaodongbudonggongjibieren“qingshangdi”。congnitigongdewenziheliaotianjilulaikan，wojuedetadeqingshangmeiyougaibian，ershiyizhiyilaidouzai“renshou”ni。yiqiantabaorongnidepiqi，zhiyinneishinimengangzaiyiqi，haizaishuakadejieduan，erxianzaikayijingshuabao。

zaizheiduanguanxili，nishiyigehen“ziwo”deren，ernibazheibufenmeihuachengshi“duitadexiangnian”。shishishang，nideqingxuhuarangniwufachengweiyigelizhideren。ruguonibugaibian，zheiduanguanxiwufabianhao。

taxianzaihaihenitiyaoqiu，zheihaishihaoshiqing。dengdaoyouyitiantabuzaigennitiyaoqiu，neimezheiduanguanxichedi“liangliang”le。