男友说跟我在一起压力大，我该如何挽回他？

 wohenanyougangzaiyiqideshihouganqingnongduhengao，danshihoulaimanmandezongjuedeyougehe。tashuowominganaishengqi，genwozaiyiqiyalihenda。danshiwoyijingxiguanzheiyangdeshuohuafangshile，wozhidaozijilibukaita，qingwenwogairuhe wanhuinanyou ni？

nanyoushuogenwozaiyiqiyalida，wogairuhewanhuita？

网友 情感咨询

 meilidelaoshinihao，yijingkanguoninliangbenshu，danshizongjuedezijimeiyouchitou，xianzaiganqingshangyudaoleyixiewentijixulaoshibangzhu，wangnengchouzhong。

 wohenanpengyourenshihenduonianmvchabuduo，qunian11yuekaishizaiyiqide，12yuefashengguanxide。gangkaishizaiyiqiganqingnongduhengao，houlaimanmandezongjuedeyougehe，lianggerennongduyuelaiyuedi。nanpengyoushuowomingan，shuowoaishengqi，shuohewozaiyiqihenkaixin，danshiyalitebieda，shuomeicihewoshuohuahuoshiweiwozuoshenmezongshixiangleyouxiang，jiupawoshengqi。shuoyalihenda，danshiwobuxiwangtayalida，zheiyangwojuedelianggerenzhangjiubule，buzhidaoyoushenmebanfanengburangtayouyali，wogaizenmezuoni？

 wozheigerenyoushihoujiushishuohuabijiaoxili，danshijueduibushishengqi，liruyutianwoganmaole，tashuonanshoujiuqingjiabieshangbanle。woliangshitongshi，woshuoniyaoshibuxiangkanjianwo，wojiuqingjia，qingwenzheisuanbaopuma？fanzhengwoshuohuajiushizheizhongrangtaganjuetingbujianglideba，danshiwoxiguanzheiyangshuohuale。qingwenzheiyangshuohuayouwentima？henzhaorenfanma？

 wonanpengyoushengqibuhenijiaoliu，wojiuzijidiaozhengyisu，diertianjiujiazhuangshenmeyemeifasheng，danshiwoshixiwangdangtianfashengdeshiqingdangtianjiejue，bixujiaoliutou。ruguozongzheiyangdeguoqieguo，zongyouyitianhuizangoubaofade，qingwenwodexiangfaduima？wozhendebuxiangrangtayouyalileilejiulikaiwole，wozhidaowolibukaiduifang，zaicijichushangwonengzuoxieshenmecaikeyirangwomenzheiduanguanxibiandegenghaoni？

花镇情感 咨询师 花镇 回复：

 “yutianwoganmaole，tashuonanshoujiuqingjiabieshangbanle，woliangshitongshi，woshuoniyaoshibuxiangkanjianwo，wojiuqingjia”，nishuohuazhendetingzhaorenhende。wocaibujinshimeitianxuyaohenishuohenduohuadenanpengyoubutaihaoguo，jiushizhidangnidetongshihepengyouyalidouhuifeichangda。nishidianxingdebuhuihaohaoshuohua，suoyibuzhaorendaijianyeshihenzhengchangdeshiqing。

 “haiyouhenanpengyoushengqibuhenijiaoliu，jiuzijidiaozhengyisu，diertianjiujiazhuangshenmeyemeifasheng，danshiwoshixiwangdangtianfashengdeshiqingdangtianjiejue”，nishuodeqingkuangshicunzaide，youxierenzaichaojiashengqizhihouhuifupan，lianggerenzuoxialaihaohaogoutong，xianghudaoqianjiayigaijin。danshininanyoudangzuoshenmeshidoumeifashengguo，jiyoukenengshiyinweitabugangennigoutong，yinweinishuohuataiqiren，yihenishuohuanijiuduita，zheiyangshuoxiaqudangtiangenbenjiejuebulewenti。

 wocainishuodangtianjiejuedeyisishi，xiangrangtabuyaodangzuoshenmeshidoumeifasheng，yaolaijinitigongqingxujiazhi，danshiyaozhidaotaguangxiaohuanidefunengliangyijinghenjiannanle，nijiubuyaozaiweinantaleba。

 jirannizhidaozijilibukaiduifang，haixiwangjixuzheiduanguanxidehua，jiubuyaozaizheimeminganle，duoxuexueshenbianneixieguodebijiaoxingfu、bijiaozhengnengliangdenvhaishizenmeshuohuade，yekeyibawodeshuzaihaohaokankan。