为什么男友喜欢用冷暴力来提分手？

 ruguonanyouturanzhijianduinifeichanglengmohuolengdan，takaishijianjianshuyuanni，qishitazheishixiangtongguolengbaolidefangshilaibini fenshou 。youdenanrenzaiganqingzhongmeiyoudandang，lianfenshoudoumeiyoufengdu。neime，weishenmenanyouxihuanyonglengbaolilaitifenshou？

weishenmenanyouxihuanyonglengbaolilaitifenshou？

1、他自知理亏不好意思直接提分手。

 youdenanrenzhisuoyixihuanyonglengbaolibinvrenfenshou，zhuyaoshiyinweitazizhilikui，tabutaihaoyisizhijiehenvrentifenshou，yushitatongguolengbaolibinvrenfenshou。dangnanrenzaojiuyiqingbielian，aishanglebiedenvren，cishitadeneixinduinikenenghuiyouyisikuijiu。tabuyuanyizhudongxiangnitifenshou，napatazaojiubuainile。jirantabuainile，neimetayebukenengduinichongmanreqing，huoxiangdangchuzhuiqiunineiyang，duiniyantingjicong，wenroutitie。

 xiangfan，tahuiduinigewailengmo。tahuimanmandanchunideshixian，zhidaonizaiyedabutongtadedianhua，nifajitadexinxi，tachichibukenhuifu。nikaishiyishidao，nanrenduinichanshengleyanjuanzhiqing。tasuiranbuganzhengmianhenitifenshou，danshitahuiyonglengbaolibinixiantifenshou。tahuitongguowushinidecunzaiheganshou，rangnizaizheiduanganqingzhongmanmanbengkui，zhidaohetatichufenshouweizhi。

2、他根本不懂得如何正确对待分手。

 youdenanrenzhisuoyixihuanyonglengbaolibinvrenfenshou，zhuyaoshiyinweitagenbenbudongderuhezhengqueduidaifenshouzheijianshiqing。youdenanrensuirantanguohenduocilianai，dantashizhongmeiyouxuehuiruhehaohaojieshuyiduanganqing。nanrenwangwangtebiedongdezenmequzhuiqiuyigexinaidenvren，danshidangganqingzoudaojintou，taquebudongderuhehaohaodijieshuzheiduanxingtongxushedeganqing。

 yushi，tahuitongguolengbaolidefangshi，binvrenfenshou。tazaiganqingzhongxiangyizhituoniaoyiban，jiazhuangwushinidecunzai，yejiazhuangnikanbudaota，manmandicongnideshenghuozhongtuichu。dangyigenanrenkaishichuchuduobini，tabuganyongyuchengdanganqingdezerenheyiwu，yiyudaowentihuomaodunjiuxuanzetaobi，huoshishuyuanni，neimebiaomingtaxiangyonglengbaolibinifenshou。

3、他害怕直接提分手女人会因此责备他或纠缠他。

 youdenanrenzhisuoyixihuanyonglengbaolibinvrenfenshou，haiyouyigehenzhongyaodeyuanyinshitaxianmafan，tahaiparuguozhijiexiangnvrentifenshou，nvrenhuiyincizebeitahuoduitajiuchanbuxiu。taweilebimianzheizhongqingkuangdefasheng，tahuiyonglengbaolidefangshibinvrenfenshou。biru，tahuiduinvrendexuhanwennuangandaoyanjuanheyanfan，tayebuhuizhudongguanxinnideshenghuo。

 dangnigandaogudan，xiangyaotachoukongpeibannideshihou，takenengzaojiuyijingcongnideshijielixiaoshi。nizaiyezhaobudaota。niyefanbuzhezaiquzhaotahuowanliuta，yinweitayijingbuainile，taxianghenifenshou。youdenanrenzhisuoyixihuanyonglengbaolibinifenshou，zhuyaoshiyinweitabuxianghenifashengzhengmianchongtu。tayiweizhiyaotabuyaozaijiandaoni，niziranjiuhuibatawangdiao。（zuozhe：baiyiwutong）