男人有婚外情后会对女人说这4句话！

　　xianghepengyoufenshouzenmeshuoshiyigerangrenyanjundewenti。fenshoubudandanshiwanbiyiduanguanxi，gengshiyizhongqingganshangdechuliyouxiaogoutongjiqiao。zaizheigejianshuzhong，womenjiangyaotantaoruheyizunzhongyuchengxinweizaiti，xunzhaozuilixiangdefangshiyuhaoyougebendongxi。bulunshiyouyujiazhiguanniandebuhe，gongchufangshidebupipei，huozhegerentishengdebutongdefangxiang，dajiayingtiqiansisuohaokeyichuandadexinxi，zhanzaiduifangdejiaodujiaodushangsisuo，bingxuanzeshihezijideshijianyufangshi，weishuangfangbaocunzunyanyouhaodexintai。

　　小标题一：思考与确定

　　xianghepengyoufenshouzenmeshuo，zheiyiwentikunraozhehenduoren。zaizanmenrenshenglvtuzhong，womenhuiyudaoxingxingsesederen，eryoushihou，yumouxiepengyouzhijianguanlianhenyoukenengfazhanqushiburuwomensuoqiwangdeneibanchenggong。wulunshiyouyuxianghujiandejiazhiguanchongtu，gongchufangshiquebu compatibility，haishishenghuozhonglujingdebuyiyang，womendouhuiduizheigexuanzezuochushenzhongkaolv。

　　henzhongyaodeyidianshiziwofansiyuqueding。zuixian，womenyinggaiziwofansi，sisuoweishenmexiangyuzheigepengyoufenshou。shiyouyupinfandizhengchaohefenqi，haishiganjuezaishuangfangdepeibanxiaqianquechengzhangkongjian？sikaohuanjiezhong，womenyaokeguandepingdingyouqingduizanmendejiazhiheweihai。suihou，womenyaoxiangxinzijidejueding，bingzhangwobierendeganshou。zaizheigehuanjiezhong，womenyinggaizhubeimodadeyongqiheyongqilaimianduizheiyangdejiankudehuihua。

　　小标题二：尊重和诚信

　　zaimianduizheiyangdekunjingshi，womenyaoyizunzhongyuchengxinweizaiti。zhengruwomenxiwangduifangkandaiwomenyiyang，dajiayinggaizunzhongbierendeganshouheguandian。zheiyiweizhewomenbixutanchengdichuandiwomendejueding，tongshiyeyaolijieduifangdexiangfa。buyaohushihaopengyoudetiyan，fanershichangshizhanzaiduifangdejiaodujiaodushangsisuo，jiejinsuonengdilejieduifangdelichang。

　　chengshishouxinshiguanlianzhongbukehuoqueyuansu。womenyaotanchengdigaosutamenwomenzijidexiangfaheganshou，erbushikaotuocihuofuyanleshilaiyangaishiqing。chengxinbujinjinshilijieduifang，yenengbangzhuwomenzijizhidaochuandachufenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。danshi，womenyaoliuyiyongshidudeyongyulaibiaoxianwomendexiangfa，bimianjilingyifangzaochengshanghaihuochongjixing。

　　小标题三：选择适合自己的时间与方式

　　xuanzeshihezijideshijianyufangshishiguanxijieshuguochengdelingyigeguanjianhuanjie。womenyaoxuanzeyigeshidangdeshiji，baozhengshuangfangyougengduodeshijianheqingganqujiejuezheiyihuihua。fangzhizaibicijuyouzhongyaoshiwuguanlihuoxinqingdiluoshichuandizheiyixiaoxi。

　　yucitongshi，fangshiyehenzhongyao。mianduimiandejiaoliujingchangshizuijiadefangshi，yinweitamendajiakeyigenghaodeguanchaduifangdongzuobiaoqingxinlixianxiang，nengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejielingyifang。chucizhiwai，womenkeyikaolvdaozaiyigeshushiyousirendehuanjingzhongjinxingzheiyihuihua，neiyangshuangfangkeyigengfangsongdibiaodaguandianhetihui。

　　小标题四：保存尊严友好的心态

　　wulunfenshoushiyinweishenme，womendouyaobaocunzunyanyouhaodexintai。zheijiuyiweizhewomenyaofangzhiruma、chizehuogongjibieren。zhengchaohemaodunzhihuijibicichanshenggengduodeshanghaihezulan。fanguolai，womenyaochangshigenjulizhiyoushandegoutongjiaoliu，biaodawomendexiangfaheganshou。womenkeyiganjilingyifangyiqianweiwomendailaideyouyiheshiyong，tongshihaiyaorenkewomengezidefazhanhexuyaodiaozhengdeweizhi。

　　zuizhong，womenhaixuyaolijieduifangyaoweichijianjudexinyuan。youshi，jinguanwomenqidaibaochilianluo，danduifangkenengxuyaoyiduanshijianlaiguanliqingxuhejieshoushiji。zaizheigehuanjiezhong，womenyaojibicizugoudeshijianyushijian，lijieduifangdejuece。

　　xianghepengyoufenshouzenmeshuo，xiangyuhaoyoufenshoushiyixiangjianxinerbeishangdemeirirenwu，danshiwomenjinbuyuchengzhangdeyibufen。genjusikaoyuqueding、zunzhonghechengxin、xuanzeshihezijideshijianyufangshi，jiqibaocunzunyanyouhaodexintai，womenkeyigengchengshudijiejuezheizhongqingkuang，weishuangfangdailaigengduodejielun。jilao，youqingchedijieshubingbudengyubuchenggong，zhishiduiwomenzishengenduifangzunzhonghechengzhangdeyizhongtixian。