极品好男人的四个特征，绝对不沾花惹草

　　weishenmezheicifenshoumeiyouwanhui？cuoguoderenjiyu，shiqudedongxiaiqing。zaineiduanganqingzhong，gezhongyuanyinshiwomenzuihoumeifahehaoruchu。yexushigoutongjiaoliudeshouzu，xianghuzhijianwufalijieduifangdexuqiu；yexushiyiwangdeshangtongnanyishihuai，yizhilongzhaozhezaiwomenzhijian；yexushishijianchongxi，rangaiqingyuelaiyueyuan。buguanshishenmeyaosu，dajiadouweizhifuchuleqinfen，danzhongguigongkuiyikui。cicifenshoubingmeiyouwanhui，shiwomenshenkeganshoudaoaiqingdecuiruobaogui。

　　**shiquxinlai，shiqujianglai：weishenmezheicifenshoumeiyouwanhui**

　　1. 并没有及时处理交流问题

　　zaiyiduanganqingzhong，goutongjiaoliushishifenzhongyaode。danshi，zaiwomenzaoyumaodunhedanyoushi，ruguomeiyoujishichulijiaoliuwenti，henrongyizaochengwujieheyuanhendexingcheng。zheijiuxiangyibazuifenglidedaozi，manmanjiguangqiegezheganqingdeqiaoliang，rangwomenjianxingjianyuan。womenyexudouyishidaolezheizhongqingkuang，danquewufagaoxiaodiqujiejueta。meiyouweijiaoliuwentishezhijidingmubiao，bingmeiyounaixinqingtinglingyifangdeshengxiang，womenzhishizaixianghuzhijianxingchengleyidaomeifakuayuede。

　　2. 难以释怀以往的伤痛

　　yiwangdeshangtongwangwangchengweidajiaqianxingdelanluhu。bulunshiyouyuzaoyuguopanbian、sunhai，huozhejinglilebeishangdefenlichulai，zheiduanjinglidouyaozaijingshenshangliuyoushenshendeluoyin。danshi，jiaruwomenwufazhenzhengmianduihexuehuifangxiayiwangdeshangtong，zheiyifentongchuhuiyizhicunyou，yizhizulanwomenzhongxingoujianqilianghaodeguanxi。womenyexuchangshixianghuxinren，danshineixindeshangtonghennanbeixiaochu，zuihourangwomenxianrumeifazaiciyongbaoaiqingdejiongjingdangzhong。

　　3. 时间冲洗和情感消耗

　　shijianwuqingdi，jinguanwomenshenshenaizhelingyifang，dansuizheshijiandetuiyi，jiqingzhujiantuiqu，qingxuyezhubuhaofei。shenghuozhongdeyali、xiangguangongzuodemangliu，zhuduosuosuijiangwomengeziqianshe，daozhidajiahushileguanhuaiheguanxinlingyifangdebiyaoxing。rifuyiridezhongfuhekuzaofaweirangwomenyuelaiyueduiaiqingfama，bicizhijianjianjianshiqulejiqingyuzhichi。danzheizhonglengmomoshenggan，zuizhongdaozhilewomenzijidefenshou。

　　4. 欠缺不懈追求付出

　　aiqingbixubuxiezhuiqiufuchu，xuyaodajiajingxinhehuyujingying。danshi，dajiazaineiduanganqingzhonghuidouquefalezheizhongbuxiezhuiqiufuchu。dajiazantinglejiduifangxiyuedadong，dajiabianbuzainulidequweichizheiyiduanganqing。jinyaoguantoudequeshixingwei，shiwomencuoguolewanhuifenshoudehaojihui。womenyexucengjingyongyouguonanwangdehuiyi，danjinkaohuiyishimeifaweichiganqingde，dajiaxuyaodaliangdifuchuyunuli。

　　5. 躲避和选择放手

　　yexufenshouyiqian，jijingtaobilebicizhijiandenanti，womenyecengxuanzexingdejinbishuangyanmeiquyingduiganqingzhongdefannao。womendouzhidaozheizhongduobizhihuijiazhongwentiebian，quezuizhongxuanzelefangkaishou。huoxuwomenbuganmianduijiannan，danxinmianduiweilaidebuquedingxing，danxinzaiyicifushang。zaiduobihexuanzefangshoubeihou，dajiazhujianshiqulewanhuidehaojihui。

　　weishenmezheicifenshoumeiyouwanhui，cicifenshoubingmeiyouwanhui，bingbudengyudajiameiyouaiguo，yebingbubiaoshiwomenbingmeiyoufuchuqinfen。fanguolai，dajiazaineiduanganqingzhonghuoduohuoshaodefuchulexuduo。danshi，qianqueyouxiaogoutong、nanyishihuaiyiwangdeshangtong、shijianchongxiheqingganxiaohao、qianquebuxiezhuiqiufuchujiqiduobihexuanzefangshou，zheizhonggezhongyuanyindiejiazaiyiqi，zaochenglewomenfenshounanyibeiwanhui。yexufenshoushiyigejieguo，tongshiyeshiyigejingyanjiaoxun，yerangwomengaoqingchuaiqingxuyaodajiabuduandequyunyinghezhenxi。