恋爱宝典：谈恋爱男生就该做舔狗吗

 tanlianainanshengjiugaizuotiangouma？dang“tiangou”zheilianggezicongyigenanrenzuilishuochulaideshihou，haoxiangzongshiyunzangzheyizhongdandandexinsuan，zixipinwei，shenzhihaijuedeyoudianbeizhuang。

一、情感问答

 hetaxiangqinrenshide，xiangchulelianggeyue，woganjuewoduitatinghaode，chumenchifan，xiaoqianxiangmu，guihualuxiantongtongyouwolaigaoding，haishibushiyejitamaixiaolingshihongtakaixin，tazijiyeshuolewoduitahenhao。

 danshizheixieriziyilai，tachulezhudongzhaowoliaotian，jianmianhenshao(woyuerenjiabuchulai)youliangciwojiuhenrenzhendiwentadaodixihuanwobu，tajiushuowolaoshizhejijiehun，xinlihenhaipa，buzuozhengmianhuida。

 haiyouwoganjuebudaowomentanlianaideganqingjiaoliu，zongshiganjuewodanfangmianzaifuchu，tayebuzenmezhudong(chuleyoushihouweixinshangzhudongzhaowoliaotianwai)。

 nanshengjiuhuogaizuotiangouma？napazhudongjiwoyigeqianshou，yigeyongbao，yigebusuanguizhongdexiaoliwu。wotaileile，woganjuetawanquannazhuwole，suoyirenweimobuzuoshengwoyebuhuilikai。

二、情感解答

 dang“tiangou”zheilianggezicongyigenanrenzuilishuochulaideshihou，haoxiangzongshiyunzangzheyizhongdandandexinsuan，zixipinwei，shenzhihaijuedeyoudianbeizhuang。

sihuyigenanrenbazijichengweile“tiangou”，jiujuedezijiyijingweizheigenvrenfuchuleyiqie。

 keshiruguowomenrenzhenqukanyikanshiqingshizenmehuishi，wangwangyouhuifaxianzheixienanrenduizijifuchudepingpan，kenengshifeichangziwoweizhongxinde。

henduorenqishiwanquanbuqukaolvduifangshiruhepingpanzheijianshi，yijishehuihuizenyangpingpanzheijianshi。

yizheigegushiweili，womenkanzheigenanshengsuoweide“chumenchifan，xiaoqianxiangmu，guihualuxiantongtongyouwolaigaoding。”

zheixieshiruguoshizaijuyouxiangshouxingxintaiderenyanli，benlaijiushitanlianaiguochengzhongyigetingyouyisidehuanjie。

 danshizaizheigenanrenzhei，zhijiejiubeitieshangleyige“tiangou”debiaoqian。sihulianggerenchumenyuehuideshiqingbuyinggairangtalaiganside。

neiniyaobuzuogebianxingshoushudangnvrensuanle？jiurangbierenlaizhuini、laiweinichouhuazenmechumenbei！

womenrenleizuoweiyizhongshehuihuadongwu，shenshangdouyougezideshehuishuxing。

nanrenzhuinvrenzheijianshi，zaiwomendewenhualijiushitianjingdiyideshi，zheibushitiangoubutiangoudewenti。

tuiyiwanbujiang，jiusuannizhenderenweizijishigetiangou，niyezhendexiangyigetianfuchule，neihaibushiyinweinimeidexuanma？

ruguoniyouxuanze，niweishenmehuibeitawanquannazhuni？

nandaotazainishenshangtaoletiaogoulianzi，ninadoubunengqu？

bushizheiyangba？tameizainibozishuanlianziba？

nikeyizoua，weishenmeyaoshuo“huogaizuotiangouni”？

nibuhuogai，nikeyizou！

neiniweishenmebuzou？yinweinimeiyouxuanze。

suoyi，dangnimeidexuandeshihou，buyaoshuorenjiawanquannazhuni。

nibeinazhu，shidaibiaonimeidexuan，erbushirenjianalianzishuanzhuleni。

zuihou，woxiangtanyitan：ruguonizhendexiangzuoyizhitiangou，yinggaizenmetian？

tiangou“tian”dedongzuo，bushigoushuang，yinggaishibeitianderenshuang，niyinggaigaomingbaizheigedaoli。

tiangoushiweibierentigongfuwude。dijitiangou，jiuxiangnizheiyang，yejiao「shenghuoxiaozhushou」，jiushipeitaxiaoxiaoqian、chugemen。

zuichangjianyizhongshirenjiazhihuizaiyaobanjiadeshihoucaihuixiangqini。

 jiubiruyigenvshengzaiyaobanjia，huozhexiayutiandabudaochedengzheiyangdeqingkuangxia，rangnibangmangwanchengshenghuozhongdexiaonanti，chongdangtalinshideshenghuoxiaozhushou。

wogaosuni，zheizhongtianshihaowuxiwangde。

yinweizheitiaosaidaotaiyongjile，shigenandedounengzheimetian！

suoyi，niyaonulizuoyizhi「gaojitiangou」。

gaojitiangou，manzudeshibierenxinlingdexuyao。

bushimaigexiaolingshihongrenjiakaixinjiuwanshidajile，renjiazaojiuguolezheizhongnianjile。

ruguotaxianzaishigegaozhongsheng，nimaigexiaolingshihongtakaixinshiyinggaide，dannimenxianzaishiyigeshehuishangderen。

zaizheigeshehuishang，niyaomingbaiyigenvrentazhenzhengxiangyaodeshishenme。

jiunizheigegushi，yexuzheigeguniangxiangyaodejiushiai。

tayijingzhudongzhaoniliaotianleya！

neiliaotiandeguochengzhong，liaodeduihaishibuduini？

weishenmeniyuetayuebuchulai？

yexurenjiagenniliaotianjiuliaodebugaoxinga！

dijitiangouyousanbao：chifan、guangjie、kandianying。

kenengnigentadesuoyouhuodong，yejiujinxianyuciba？

ergaojitiangouyaozenmezuo？

yaozhenzhengdongdenvrenxin，yaozhidaotaxiangyaodeshishenme。

taxiangyaodeshinidongta，lijieta；

taxiangyaode，yexushizaitakunnandeshihou，ninengjiyutayixiezhenzhengdeanweihezhichi；

zaitagaoxingdeshihouhetayiqifenxiangxiyue；

daitaqukanconglaimeiyoukanguodefengjing；

daitazouneixiemeiyourenzouguodelu；

daitayiqigongtongchuangjianyigetayexiangyaodeweilai。

zheixieshiqing，jiushigaojitiangouyinggaizuodeshi。

 suoyi，nanshengzhuinvsheng，keyishaoyidianbeizhuang，shaoyixiexinsuan。zhuinvhaizi，shizheigeshijieshangzuimeiyoufengxiandanshouyiyoudeshile。

jiuzheigeshiqing，nihaizaizheiyuanshengzaidao、shuosandaosidejiuzhendemeiyisile。

像个男人一样去看待这件事，成为男人是你2020年的功课，不要一直像个小男孩一样。