情感问答：谈了好几年不想结婚正常吗？

tanlehaojinianbuxiangjiehunzhengchangma？tanlianaijiehundaduoshuqingkuangxiashixunxujianjinde，erxianshizhongyouyixietanlehenjiuquemeiyoujiehunchongdongdeganqing，zheiyangdeganqingzhengchangma？

一、情感问答

wohenvpengyoutanlehaojinianle，yedaoshihunnianlingle，danwoquehaimeiyouxiangjiehundexiangfa。woshibushiyouwenti？

二、情感解答

womenzuodemeiyigexuanze，bujinyingxiangleziji，haiyingxianglehenduohenduo。

yigebukuailedefuqin，zaijialinengzuoshenmeni？

“wanshouji，dayouxi，huibixianshi。

youhuozhe：wodegongzuozhendehenmang，woshiyigexuyaoxiaoshidefuqin，yinweizaijialiwobukuaile。woshuowojiabanzongkeyiba？nibunengbawozenmeyangba？

womeiyoubanfalikaini，yinweinibuxuwolikaini，suoyiwozhishaokeyibuhuiquba？huozhewohuiquxigezaojiushuile，jiangjiuyixia。”

henduorenderenshengshizheiyangde，wozhishibangnixuxuzhankaizheigehuajuan。

zheigehuajuanyexushinibuxiangkandaodeweilai。zaizheigehuajuanshang，womenkandaoleyigexiaoshidefuqin，yigeshiwangdemuqin，yigemingande、yijingchajuedaozheiyiqiedehaizi，yinweihaizinengzhidao，tadebababingbukuaile。

suoyi，shiqingdejieguohuishizenyang？

ganxiexianchanglingwaiyigeguanzhongdechuangzaoxingchengxian，shiqingdejieguokenenghuishizheiyangde：

ruguoneishiyigenvhaier，dangtazhangdabingyujianyigenanrendeshihou，tahuixiangjinjindezhuazhuta。

yinweitabuxiangchengweizijimuqinneiyangshibaidenvren。

yinweitaxiwangtongguozheiyangdefangshiqujinjindezhuazhushuyuzijideganqing。

yinweitaxiangdedaozaizijijiatinglimianshiqudeyiqie。zheijiushizheigenvhaizhangdazhihouhuizuodeshi。

ruguoneishiyigenanhai，neigenanhaizizhangdalehouhuichengweini，huichengweiyigebuzunzhongzijiganjuedenanren。

yinweitadefuqin，yebuzunzhongzijideganjue，suoyitadeganjueyebuzhongyao，tahuigenniyiyang。

yinweinideqizizhangkongbuleni，tayidinghuizhangkongnideerzi，zheijiushidaan，zheijiushimeiyigejiazuzaifuzhidemingyun。

zheigeshihou，zheigeqizijiuhuizhuazhuzheigehaizi，yinweizheishitazaijialimianweiyinengzhangkongdenanren。zheihuishidetachengweiyigeweiweinuonuodenanren，yigebudongdezunzhongzijiganjuedenanren。

dangzheigenanhaizhangdayihou，taweiyidemingyunjiushijiaofujilingwaiyigenenggouzhangkongtadenvren。

yinweiqianmianneigeqizihuigaosuhoumianneigenvren：yaohaohaodeduiwodeerzi，yaohaohaodezhaoguta，tacongxiaojiushizheiyangbeidaidade。

yekenenghuiyoulingwaiyigeshengmudaititajixujieguozheigehaizi，jixuzhaoguta，zheijiushimingyun。

zheigeshijieshang，cunzaiwushugezhengzaigenwomenpingxingfashengdekeneng，suoyoudemingyundouyijingxiehaodaan，cunfangzaiwomenmeiyigexuanzezhizhong。wojintianjinizhankaidezhishiqizhongdeyizhongkenengxing，zheizhongkenengxingnikeyixuanzeta，yekeyibuxuanze。

dangnixuanzejinruta，zheixiekenengxingjiuhuifasheng；ruguonixuanzelingwaiyitiaolujing，zheixiedoubuhuifasheng，tamenhuifashengzaipingxingyuzhoudelingwaiyigeshikongli。

erwodegongzuo，bushigaosuniyinggaijinruzheigexuanzehaishineigexuanze，wodegongzuoshigaosunizuochuzheigexuanzehuifashengdeshi。

zaizheigechangyuzhizhong，dangwomensuoyourendenengliang、suoyourendezhuyilidoujizhongzaiyigedianshangdeshihou，womenkeyikandaoweilai。zaineigeweilaichanshengdeshihou，nijiuzhidaoxuanzeshenme。

我不能替你做选择，不是因为我没有这个能力，而是我不想卷入你的因果。