恋爱技巧：女人应该如何面对男人的过去？

　　nvshengruheweiwandetifenshou，dangmianduiyiduanbuhuizaixingfukuailedeganqingshi，nvshengyexuyaoxuehuiwanzhuandimingquetichufenshou。tamennengtiaoxuanwenroudifangfagaosutamen，zouxindebiaodachuzijideganshouhexiangfa。genjuzhenzhidehuihua，nvshengkeyirangduifanglejietadeneixindemimanghetongchu，shishuangfangkeyidandingdichuliganqingnanti。suiranfenshoushiyizhongtongkudexuanze，dannvshengnengzuodaojiandingeryouhuxiangzunzhong，rangzheiduanganqingyiyizhongmeihaofangfaluoxiaweimu。

　　以真心实意会话

　　nvshengruheweiwandetifenshou，zaiyiduanbuhuizaimeihaoganqingzhong，nvshengzenyangwanzhuanditifenshoushiyigejianxinerguanjiandewenti。bixuzuodaowenrouqietanchengdimianduizheiyiqueding，nvshengbixushizhongjianchizhenxinshiyijiaoliudebiaozhun。jibianzaixinliyexialejuexin，nvshengrengranyingdangjiduifangchongzudezunzhongyuguanai，zhongjiuzheiduanganqingyecengdailaitamennanwangdehuiyi。yiner，zaitichufenshoushi，nvshengyaoxuanzeshidangdeshiji，yongxinqingtingbierendeganshou，bingchangshiyongshidangdeyuyanbiaodazijineixinzhenzheng。

　　掌握语言的力量

　　yancishichuandiganshouhexiangfazuizhuyaodegongjuzhiyi，yiner，zaiwanzhuanditifenshoushi，nvshengxuyaobawohaoyuyandeliliang。tamenkeyitongguoshiyongweiwandiyongyuhebiaodaxingshilaihuanjielingyifangzaochengdeshanghai。fangzhixuanyonggongjixingyanyu，ershizhijieqiadangdeciyulaibiaodazijideganshou。yucitongshi，nvshenghaikeyibajiaodianfangzaizijineixinzhuanbianshang，yi“worenwei”、“duiwoeryan”dengzhengqueyindaoju，nengrangduifanglejietamendezhenshitiyan。

　　适度搭建间距

　　tifenshoudaibiaozhewanbiyiduanganqing，weilenenggoushizhenggewanbigengjiawenhe，nvshengbixuqiadangdidajianjianju。zheibudanshirangbiciyoushijianyukongjianqulengjingfenxi，haiyouzhuyujiangdikenengxingdemaodunhesunhai。nvshengkeyikaolvzanshifenkaihuojianshaobicizhijiandeguanlian，jiduifangzugoudeshijianlaijienaheshiyingzheigexuanze。yucitongshi，nvshenghaikeyitongguoheqinqipengyoudegoutongjiaoliulaixunqiushiyongheanwei，zheiyouliyutamennenggougenghaodiyingduifenshoudeyigeguocheng。

　　珍视追忆，祝福未来

　　fenshoubujinjinshiduiganqingchedijieshu，gengshiduiyiqianmeihaojiyidedaobie。yiner，zaiwanzhuanditifenshoudeqiantixia，nvshengyingdangzhenshizheiyiduanganqingdailaitamendemeimiaoqinshenjingli，bingzhufuduifangkeyizhaodaoheshidexingfukuaile。yuqibaoyuanhebaoyuan，buruyongganxiehezhufuxintaizuojiezheiyiduanganqing。bulunshihuxiangjili，yijiubaochiyoushandeguanlian，nvshengxuyaoyiyikeshanliangdexinhejijidexintaiyingduifenshou，zaiciquyingjiedemeimiao。

　　坚定而委婉地确定

　　wanzhuanditifenshoubixunvshengyouzhejiandingerlixingdexinxin。jishiduifanghenyoukenenghuilejiehuoshipaichi，nvshengyexuyaobaochixinlidezhizhe，buyiwaijiedeyalisuoyingxiang。fenshousuiranrangrenjiuxin，neiruguozheiyiduanganqingyiwufajiyubicizhenzhengdekuaile，neiyangfenliyexushiyigebucuodexuanze。nvshengbixumingquezijideguandianyuxuqiu，bingqieyijiandingbuyiyouweiwandifangfagaosutamen，rangfenshoubianchengyizhongjietuo，jizijigenduifangdakaixindejianglai。

　　nvshengruheweiwandetifenshou，buguanzenyang，nvshengzaiwanzhuanditifenshoushiyinggaijianchizunzhongyuzhenzhidebiaozhun。yizhenxinshiyihuihua、zhangwoyuyandeliliang、shidudajianjianju、zhenshihuiyihezhufuweilai，nvshengnenggouyouyadiwanchengzheigejiannandexuanze，bingjizijigenduifangzhizaochugengmeihaodemingtian。haoyidiandefenshoufangfanenggoujianshaosunhai，weishuangfangdailaigengduochengzhangyuxingfukuaile。