冷爱观爱：婚姻是生活的必需品吗？

　　laogongchuguisinianduohaishitongyigeren，zaizheigegushili，womenjiangyaozhuanzhuyuyigefuyouzhelideqingxujiongjing。shenweiyigeshoushanglaopo，wofaxianlezijidezhangfuzaiguoqusinianduogongliyoulewaiyu，ershiwogengjiachijingdeshi，tawaiyudemubiaojuranyizhidoushitongyigeren。zheirangwoganjuedaoyihuoyutongku。bulunshichuziyuduiganqingdeshimingganhaishiduiyuzheifenai，woshifougaiwanhuizheiduanganqing？wojiangmianlinjiannandexuanze，tongshihaixuyaozhongxinsikaoyusikaorenxinglideyuwangzhiai。

　　发觉叛变的苦楚

　　laogongchuguisinianduohaishitongyigeren，meiyigejiatingdouyougezideyinmi，keshiwo，zuoweiyigeqizi，jieguofaxianwozuibuxiangyingduideshishi。tongguosinianduodeshimimanghecaiyi，zhongyujiekailaogongdebeipanmianju。danshi，gengweiyaowoxintengdeshi，tapanbiandeduixiangjuranshitongyigeren。

　　情绪交织的疑惑

　　yingduizhangfudewaiyu，woxinhuangyiluan。wojianjianzhiyizishen，zheishifouzhishiyicisaoraohuoshichongdongguoshi。danshi，wofaxianleqibeihouyunzangzhegengfuzadeyouyuhechongdong。kaiyandebujinshichuguixingwei，gengjiashiyiduanshenshendijiuchanbuqingdeqingxu。

　　挽回还是放手

　　lizaisuoxuanzedeshizilukou，womianlinyigejiannandejueze。wohuailianguoquneiyiduandajiaxiangruyimosuiyue，zheixiexinlai、fuwuchengnuohegongtongdeqinshenjinglihaoxiangyiyishanguo。danshi，zhuiyigenbenwufawaiqushishi。woxunwenzishen，shibushihaiyoujihuizhonglianwomendehunyin，haishiyaofangkaishoubingtanxunguishuyuzijideaiqing？

　　重新思考人性错综复杂的

　　zhangfudewaiyuyaowokaishikaolvrenxingdeduoyuanxing。chongdongyuaizhongjiandejiexianzaiwodexinliyuelaiyuemomohuhu。wokaishikaolv，nandaoshiyinweihunyinshenghuodepingpingdandanhebumanyi，cairangzhangfuzouxianglewaiyudelumian？yeshiyinweiduineigetongyigerendeqingxunanyigeshe？zaizheigehuanjiezhong，wojiumishileziwo。

　　探寻解脱的路

　　buguantiaoxuanwanhuihaishifangshou，wodouyaomianduikunjinghechengshoutongku。buguannayizhongxuanyong，wodoumianlinzhenshiziwojietuodelu。huoxu，liquwojuedezheishiyigexindekaishi，yizhongzhongxindingyizijidehaojihui。huoxu，kuanrongnenggourangwomenzaicituanyuan，zhongxindianranhunyinshenghuodehuomiao。buguanzhengqianfangshisha，wojiangjizijitanxunjietuodelu，jiwoyiqianxingfudehunyinxunzhaoyigequanxindefangwei。

　　重构认同和追求幸福

　　buguantiaoxuanshenmefangxiang，zhonggouxinrenshizhongyao。jiaruwojuedingcongtoukaishi，womenyinggaimianduikunjing，xiufuxianghuxinren，jinerfujianwomendehunyin。danshiruguowodasuanliqu，wohuinulitanxunguishuyuzijideaiqing，zaicizhaohuishiqudezixin。buguanzenyang，zheixiejinglihuiyongyuanweihaizheta，bingrangwochengzhangweigengweineixinqiangdaderen。

　　结束语

　　laogongchuguisinianduohaishitongyigeren，gushilidemeiyigerendouzaibuduantanxunzijidedaan。zaizheigedanxinyutongkudeguochengdangzhong，dajiayebuyinggaiwangdiao，renxingfuzaqiebianhuaduoduan，renrendouyoufancuowuyuzhuiqiuxingfudequanli。bulunshikeshouhunyinshenghuohaishixuanliqu，guanjiandeshibixujianchizijineixin，maixiangzijijuedezhengquededaolu。youyubuguanzenyang，xingfuhejietuoshiwomenzhidezhuiqiudequanli。