女人真的爱上男人，才会对男人说出的话

　　zaimianduinanshengtifenshoule，womenshibushiyoujihuiwanhuiaiqingni？zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，jiangtaolunfenshouzhihouzenyangyongzhengquedefangshizaicijifatadexingqu，ranqiaiqingdehuomiao。wulunshitongguogoutongjiaoliu、gaibianxianzhuang、xiyinzhutadezhuyili，huozhejiduifangyixieshijianhekongjianlailengjingfenxi，dounengbangzhuwomenshizhewanliushiqudedongxiaiqing。wulunruhe，womenyaoxiangxinaideliliang，bingbuduanxunzhaoshihezijidefangfa，laidadao“nanshengshuofenshoulezenmewanhui”mubiao。

　　nanshengfenkaile，dajiatongchexinfei，qingxuniliuerxing。keshi，shibushijiuyiweizheyiqieyijieshuni？yexuwomenyeyouwanliudejiyu，zhixuyaoduifangfa，jiqixixinhezhenchenglaimiandui。neiyang，yingduinanshengxiangfenshouzheigexianshi，womengairuhewanhuini？xiamianjiangfenxiangyixiekexingdefangfahecelve。

　　寻找原因---洞悉芥蒂

　　nanshengshuofenshoulezenmewanhui，zaifenshouzhihou，diyijianshiqingjiushiyaozhuibensuyuan，zhaodaodaozhifenshouyuanyin。zhiyoulejienantidezhenshisuoshu，cainengzhenzhengdezhenduixingdichulibinggaibian。zhenduinanshenglaijiang，youkenengshishouwaijiechanshengdeyingxiang，huoshiduidajiasuozhanxianchudequexianzaochengyanfan。yiner，dajiayaojinxingziwofansi，shenshizijidexingweiwenti，bingnuligaishanhetigao。

　　沟通交流---诚信表述心里

　　zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong，goutongjiaoliushishifenzhongyaodejieduan。zhaoyigeheshideshijihechangsuo，tanrandibiaodazijineixinxiangfa，duitashuodajiaduiaiqingdeguanzhuhexiangyaoweizhifendou。zhongyaodeshiyaobaochilixinghelixing，fangzhizhengchaohezeguaiqingxu。yonglizhiherouhedekouqi，gentachuandiwomenzijidezhenzhihejiandingbuyi。

　　个人提升---更改自身的不足

　　youshi，nanshengwangwangxiangfenshou，shiyinweitarenweiwomenyemeiyoufazhanhuodiaozheng。yiner，womenyaojijiditourudaolegerentishengzhonglai。bulunshixuexipeixunxindejineng，fazhanqushigerenxingquaihao，huoshidiaozhengzishendequedian，doukeyixiangnanshengzhanxianwomenzijidediaozhenghefazhan。zheizhonggaibianbujinkeyitishengxiyinli，yenenggourangtakanjianzijidenuliheyongqi。

　　创新和吸引住---重新点燃爱的火花

　　wanhuiaiqingdeguanjiansuozaihaizaiyuruhezhongxinjifatadexingquheyouhuoli。dajiakeyichangshichuangzaogengduozhuiyi，zaiciganshouyiwangdemeihaohuiyi，huozhechangshiyixiexinxiandeyouyiyidehuodong。zhongxindianranaidehuohuadeqiantixia，yenenggourangwomendeguanlianbiandegengjiayouquhefengfu。

　　给与时间和空间---冷静分析

　　youshi，tigongbicizhijianyixieshijianhekongjianyeshibixude。nanshengxiangfenshoukenengjiushiyinweitaxiangyaolengjingfenxihezhongxinshenshiaiqing。zaizheigeshihou，womenyaozhongshitadejueding，bingyuyitazugoudeshijianlaisisuo。yucitongshi，yeyaodongdebawozijideqingxu，buyaoguofenjiuchanbuqinghuoshiguoyuzhuiqiu。

　　nanshengshuofenshoulezenmewanhui，zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong，womenyaojiandinglixiangxinnian，jianxinaidelilianghebicizhijianqijiazhi。buguanxuanzehezhongfangshi，zhongyaoshizaiyuzhenzhiheqinfen。zaiwomenfuchusuoyounulihou，buguanjieguoruhe，womendounenggouwuyuanwuhui。youyuzaijinglizheiyiqie，dajiabujinjinzhishiwanhuiaiqing，yeshiweilezijichengzhangyuxingfu。