女人恋爱必知：9种态度辨识废柴男!

　　nanshengshuotaileilefenshoulehuihouhuima，dangnanshengmingquetichufenshoushi，jingchangbansuitashuodao“taileile”，zheiyinfaleyigerangrenjiujiedewenti：fenshouzhihouhouhuima？fenshouqueririyeyesinianzhecengjingdewenrou，huodushouzihaoxuanzegudu？zaizheiyangyigexuanzedeshizilukou，kunhuohehouhuiruyingsuixing。danshi，renshengjiushiyichangbuduanxiangqianlvcheng，yexufenshoudejuecezhishizanshidepibeibukandetuoci，erweilaidehouhuishiduiganqinghaipadejielun。zhenzhenzhengzhengdehuidazhiyoucongxinlixinsheng，qingbianqixing，zishenxuanze。

　　困惑的选择

　　nanshengshuotaileilefenshoulehuihouhuima，nanshengshuo“taileile，fenshoudehuahuihouhuima？”zheishiyigechongmanjiujieheyihuodenanti。zaiaiqingzhuanzhediandeyike，neixinchongmanlekunhuohexuduozhongyihuo。fenshouhuibuhuichanshenghouhui，bixushendusikaohehengliang。

　　被负担打倒

　　youshi，nanshenghuiyinweijiatinghuogongzuoshangdegongzuoyalijuedejingpilijie。tamenyexuzhaobudaochulu，erbazheizhongpilaoganqingxiedaoganqingli。fenshouchengletamenduanzanbaituohefaxie，danshizheiyangdexuanzeshifoumingzhidexuanzeni？dangtaolixianshiqingxuxiaosan，tamenyexuhuihouhuibuyi。

　　谈恋爱疲倦积淀

　　lianqingzhongdepijuanbingfeiyichaoyixichansheng，takenengshizhangshijiandejilei。nanshengsuojiangde“taileile”youkenengshiduizhiqianganqingshidelianghaohuoxiaochenwenzhangliuxialaidepilaogan。zaixinlideguochengdangzhong，zhuduocuozheyusunhairangtamensangshixinxinnaixin，zaochenglezheizhongxuanze。danshi，congqiandepijuanbingbudaibiaojianglaidehouhui。

　　追寻个人提升

　　nanshengxuanzefenshoudeyuanyinzhiyijiushiweileyigerendechengzhangyufazhan。zaimianduizhongyaorenshengjuezeshi，tamenkenenghuijuedeqinglvguanxixianzhiletamenzhuiqiugenggaozongtimubiaodejiaobu。tamenhaipazaiweilaidemouyitian，yehuiyincishiqujihuihecanglaocengjingdeziji，zheileihouhuirangtamenzuochulezheiyijiannandexuanze。keshi，yeyoukenengzaizhuixunbenrenchengzhangguochengzhong，tamenjiuhuifaxianfenshoubingbushiweiyidexuanze。

　　悔恨和想念

　　fenshouzhihoudehuihenshiyizhongchangjiandeqingxu。nanshengyexuhuiyishidaoletamencuoguoleyigetebiederenhebaoguideaiqing。tamenhuiririyeyexiangniancengjingdewenrouhetianmei，houhuizijidangshideqinglvxuanze。zheileihuihenshitongguoduishiqudedongxiqipanheduiweilaihenyoukenengyihansuozaochengde。danshi，houhuibingbudengyuyidingyaohuidaocongqian，tashiduiyiwangdezhizheheduiweilaidebuquedingxingdeyingshe。

　　接纳和成长

　　zainanshengshuo“taileile，fenshoudehuahuihouhuima？”zheizhongqingkuangzhong，tamenyidingyaozhaodaozishenzhenzhengdexuqiuyumubiao。pijuanhouhuiyexuzhishiyishideqingxubuwendingbiaoshu，erfeiduiyuweilaifuzerendexuanze。jieshoucongqiandeyucitongshi，tamenyexuyaojinbuyuchengzhang，weizijichuangzaogenghaodemingtian。

　　nanshengshuotaileilefenshoulehuihouhuima，buguannanshengzaifenshouzhihouburongyihouhui，zhongdianzaiyutamenyuanbuyuanyiyingduineixindeshijixuqiu，bingweizhifendouqupinbo。shenghuodangzhongxuanzeconglaijiubushijueduixingduihecuo，zhongdianzaiyushifounenggouzaixuanzehoujianchizijidexinli，yingyongmianduiweizhidejiyuyutiaozhan。