情感咨询：相亲对象前女友回来了我该怎么办

 you dao：“xiangqinduixiangqiannvyouhuilailewogaizenmeban？”nvrenyidanxianruganqing，huihenmeiyouanquangan，huazhenqingganzaibenwenfenxiangyigeqinggananli。

一、情感咨询

 benrennv，27，duchu，165，50gongjin；nan35，dufeichu，175，65gongjin，jiatingtiaojianwomenliangjiadouchabuduo，junyouwendinggongzuo。xiangqinrenshi，yizhiyouweixinliaotian，dagaisangeduoyue，zhongjianyuechuquchiguojicifan，jianmianliaotianqifenyebucuo，woduitaganjuehenhaohenxihuan，taduiwoyeyouhaoganba。

 xianzaiyeyizhizailiao，jibenmeiyoubulianxichaoguoliangtiandeqingkuang，buguohuichuxianliaozheliaozhenanfangjiubuhuideqingkuang，yuanyinweizhi。nanfangzhiqianyouguoyiduanganqingfenfenhehehenjiu，zuihouyinqiannvyouchuguichedifenshou，xianzaiqiannvyouhuidadianhuafaxinxiwanhui，buguotadoujujieyebuhui，tadefumuyehenfanduitaheqiannvyouzaiyiqi。

 liaoleneimejiu，tayeyizhimeiyouyaoquedingguanxixiangchudeyisi，buzhidaoshibushitaqiannvyoudeyuanyin。suqiu：qingwenshiyinweiwodemvbugougaopancaihuimianduizheizhongdaiyuma？wogaizenmezuo？haiyaojixuhetaxiangchuxiaquma？

二、情感解答

shishishang，congniduishuangfangganqingdemiaoxie，bunankanchunihexiangqinduixiangduizheiduanguanxidebutongtaidu。

 nizishu“woduitaganjuehenhaohenxihuan”，shuomingniduitabijiaomanyi，shenzhijihuyijingrendingleduifang；er“taduiwoyeyouhaoganba”，rangnichanshengzheizhongmolengliangkedepanduan，biaomingtamuqianduinibingwutaiduochengyi，yinweixihuanyigerenduifangyidingnengganjuedao。

 xianjieduantayunixiangchudefangshi，yuqishuoshizhuiqiuzhe，burushuoshiputongpengyou，suoyijianyiniyebuyaoguozaobaduifangfangzainanyoudeweizhishang，yipingchangxinduidaijiuhao。bujiyuqiucheng，yebuyaoduitabaoyourenhexiwang。

 zuihouxiangjinitigexing，jiaruyouyitiantaturanxiangduidainvyouyiyangyunixiangchu，shenzhixiangheniyouzhitijiechu，neimeniyidingyaoxiaoxinhoucheyituiweijin。gaosuduifangzijihaibuquedingtadexinyi，meiyouanquangan，yindaotamingquedibiaomingxinyi，jinyibuduinitouru。wanwanbukebeituruqilaide“aiqing”chonghuntounao，xilihutumeimingmeifendiheduifangzaiyiqi。

至于高攀与否的问题，你再看一遍自己的描述，心里就自然有数了。