女孩子一定要拥有一个独立人格

 zai《lihunlvshi》liyouyijujingdianhuayu：nvxingzhinengzairengeleixinghejingjifazhandoudulidezhuangkuangxia，caikeyidedaozhenshideanquangan。shide，yigenvrenbixuyouzheyigedulirengehedulisikaodegongzuonengli，caikeyirangzishengengweiqiangjing。

一、女生一定要有着一个独立人格

1、dulisikaoweizijizuojuece

 xinliyouanquangandenvxing，tamenderenshengdaoluconglaibubeidongjineng。weizijizuojuece，suihoudandingdeguoyisheng。weizijizuojuece，nenggoushixiang《eat pray love》lide elizabeth gilbert.taochukanqilaitashi、danbingfeitayuanyideyishizhuxing，tarulvchengquxunzhaoziwo，zaixibanya、yinni、yinnibalidaofenbiehuodeletesemeishi、daogaoyuai。

 weizijizuojuece、anzishendeyixiangerhuo。jinguanyoushihoushouqitayaosujiban，meifachangkuailinlideguo。dannixiangyaoquneiyangzuo，bingqingxidegaoqingchuzishenbuyuanyinaxie，jiulidedaodulirengeheanquangangengjinleyibu。

2、把感情当琐事

 xinliyouanquangandenvxing，tamenhuibaganqingdangsuoshi，bubaqidaijituozaibierenshoushang，fazifeifudeganjuezishenzuigaibeigengqiangderenlaiai。youxieren，anquanganshishushilingyibanquanbudedenglumima，shilianrenmiaohuidexinxineirong，shisuishisuidinengqianzhedeshou。

 shubuzhi，anquanganshijishangshilaiyuanyuzishendehaowuyiwen。bubibaduizishendequefazixinquqiangjiayujilingyiban，duitagengweiyanke。danglingyifangjuedebeiyapohexinlibushufu，guanlianbianshenxianlemeibanfazhengjiudeliangjihua。rangzishenqingqingsongsongxie，yeranglingyifangqingqingsongsongxie，baganqingdangzuoyijianxiaoshi。bujixianghugongzuoyali，yaoshimeiyitianguodegaoxing，jiushishuozuibangdeyouzhe。

3、发自肺腑的自信

 xinliyouanquangandenvxing，tamenganzuoganyao、xiaguzhengzheng，fazifeifudezixinqiangjing。duinvxing，zixinlaiziduixinlidezhangwohezhangwo，yeyiyanglaiziduibiaomiandelingrenmanyi。youyu，meiyouzixinderongmao，haibibushangyouzixindechoueneimayouyouhuoli。ruguonizhenshiduizishenzixin，erliuluchulaideqizhiyufengcaishiwuyilunbide。