分手后前任不想复合大都因为这个原因

　　gennvpengyouchaojialenaofenshouzenmehong，dangchuxianlehenvyouchaojiazaochengmaixiangfenshouqingkuangshi，youhenduoduicekeyongyuhonghuinvpengyou，fuweiduifangdeqingxu，xiububeisunshangdeguanxi。zheijiangbaokuochengzhidedaoqian、jijizhudongdejiaoliu、biaoshuzhenshideqingganjiqirangtaganshoudaozishendebiyaoxing。chucizhiwai，guanjianhaizaiyuzhanxiangenggaijuexin、jiyushijianyukongjianjiqigongtongfendoujiejuewenti。zhongyaodeshiyaogaoqingchu，xiufuhemuguanxixuyaoshijianheqinfen，tongshibaozhengzunzhongyulijie。gennvpengyouchaojianaofenshouhou，yongzhengquedefangshihonghuita，zaicigoujianqirentonghezuiwennuandeguanxishishifenzhongyaode。

　　挽留关系的初心：一次争执，一次发展

　　gennvpengyouchaojialenaofenshouzenmehong，buguanshiaiqinghuoshihunyinguanxi，chaojiahechongtudounanyibimian。ruguonifaxianzishengennvpengyouchaojianaofenshoushi，zuizhuyaodeshixianpingjingxialai。zheishiyigezhongyaoguantou，xiangyaonicaiquzhengquedexingweiquwanhuiguanxi。jibianzaizhengzhidangzhong，dajiayekeyixuexifazhan，rangcicichaojiabianchengguanxigengjinmidejihui。

　　懂她：聆听与尊重

　　zaipingjingxialaihou，shouxianyaozuodeshilejienidenvyou。zaizheigeshihou，yaojijilingtingtaxiangfaheganshou，daijitazugoudekongjianbiaoshu。fangzhiqieduanhuozhenglun，zhongshitaguandian。genjulingting，nikeyigenghaodilejietayaoqiu，yeyouzhuyunixunzhaojiejuewentidejiejuefangan。

　　致歉和思考：诚挚的道歉融兴纠正错误

　　wulunzhengzhidezhuyaoyuanyinzenyang，xiangqizhiqianshifujianguanxideguanjianyibu。xieyifengchengzhidedaoqianxin，chuandachunidexinliniantou，zhiqianbingrencuo。yucitongshi，shenshizijigerenxingwei，zhaodaozaochengzhengzhidezhuyaoyuanyin，duizijideyanxingjiyujiuzheng。zhanshinideyongqiheqinfen，rangqijiandaozijidechengzhangziwogaibian。

　　积极主动的交流：以解决问题为主要目标

　　hezuoshixiubuliekaiguanxidezhongyaoyihuan。quebaonidegoutongjiaoliumudezaiyujiejuewenti，erfeizhenglunshifeiduicuo。fangzhipipinghejingong，zuihaoshiyong“wo”debiaodafangshi，biaodazijideganshouyuxuqiu。tongguojijidejiaoliu，bicikeyigenghaodelejieduifang，dachengyizhi，ranhouzhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。

　　展现爱与关怀：行为胜过言语

　　chukaikoutoushangzhiqianhechengnuowai，genjuxingdonglaizhanshinideaiyuguanhuaiyeshifeichangzhongyaode。zuoyixieteshudeshier，rangtaganshoudaoniguanhuaihetiexin。xuyaozhunbeiyigelangmandewancan，jitaxieyishouqingshi，huoshijitayigeyiwaidejingxi。zhongdianzaiyurangqizhenqiediganshoudaoniduitadeaizhenshierchijiude。

　　给与时间与空间：让心态有所缓解

　　chaojiahefenshouzaochengdeshanghaiburongyiyiyezhijianxiaotui。lejieduifangdeganshou，bingyuyitachongzukongjianheshijianlaihuanjiejiaolv。zhongshitabixu，bubibitajieshounizhiqianhuodiaozheng。fujianguanxixuyaoyiduanshijian，goujianqirentonghekekaoxingxuyaoshuangfanggongtongdenuli。

　　一起成长：解决问题，搭建更加好的关系

　　gennvpengyouchaojialenaofenshouzenmehong，zuizhuyaodeshi，jiangcicizhengzhishizuoyicigongtongchengzhangdetupokou。genjujiejuewenti，gaishanjiaoliufangshi，chuangjiangengjiahaodeguanxi。chixubuduandeqinfengaijinheweichiyouxiaodegoutongshiweichijiankangguanxideguanjiansuozai。shizhongbaochizhongshi、lijieyuzhichi，nijianghenidenvyouyiqizouxianggengweixingfuhemeihaodeweilai。