爱情的正常维系办法：不要把幸福托付在他身上

　　gezianhaoshifenshouma？zheiyijujianduandehuadaozhilerenmenduifenshoudetansuo。zaiyidingchengdushang，danglianggerentiaoxuanfenbiexunmizijideaiqing，zanjiadianshijuheshuyuandeqingxukenengzaochengtamenzuizhongfenshou。danshi，yekenengshigenjubicizhufuyuzhichi，tamenkeyizaifenkaizhihourengbaochilianghaoguanlian，zaicichengzhanghefazhan。yiner，gezianhaobingbuyidingyiweizhefenshou，zhongdianzaiyumeiyigerentiaoxuandefangfahexintai。

　　失去了联系的情感联结

　　zaiganqingzhanghezhong，youshihoudajiahuimianlingezhongyuanyinzaochengfenlichulaidejiongjing。dandanglianggerenjiangchu“gezianhao”shi，zheishijishangchengweileyigeyinxingdefenshoushujuxinhao。zheiyijuduanduanyiwenjutantaolexuduorenzaifenkaizhihounengfoubaochilianghaoguanlian，jiqishiqulelianxishibushiyiweizhewanbi。danshi，keguanshishihenyoukenenggengfuza。

　　间距拉开的裂缝

　　gezianhaoshifenshouma？danglianggerenzhuiqiubuyiyangderenshengguiji，zanjiadianshijuyushijiandelisanbianlianghenyoukenengzhujiandakailiangrenzhijiandeqingganlianjie。zaimianduishengshuhefenlishi，tamenwangwanghuixuanzejianjiandixiaochubicizhijiandechuxian，yimanzuxinshenghuojiezou。zheizhongqingkuangxia，gezianhaokenengqueshiyiweizhefenshou，liangrendeguanxijiangyusuiyuedehongliuzhizhongzhujianxiaoshi。

　　心里牵挂的谷底

　　danshi，youderenjinguanxuanlefenlichulai，danxinlingshenchuyiranduilingyifangxinhuaiguanian。gezianhaoqishishiyizhongyouruziwobaohudeguiding，zaishiqulelianxidetongshihaitongshibaozhengleyizhongandingdeqingxu。jinguanyebingbuyiweizhetamenyehuizhudonghuidaocongqiandeguanxizhong，danrengkeyimomodiqidaitanengguodehao，zhufuduifangxingfu。zheizhongqingkuangxia，gezianhaobingbudengyufenshou，ershiyizhongmoqididaobieyuxinlishifang。

　　心手相连的执着

　　yexumouxieqingkuangxia，lianggerenzhongjianbaochilianghaozhijiandeguanxibingbuyidingshentishangxianghupeiban。gezianhaodeneihankenengbianchengbicizhijianzaizhianxianghushouwangdeguanaiyuzhichi。suiranmeiyouleqinmijiechu，quetongguogezhongtujingbaochizhelianxi，gongxiangbicizhijiandesuoyouxinuaile，shibicineixinshenchudepengyouhuozhixin。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，gezianhaogengxiangshiyizhongqingganshangdechixu，bingfeipolie。

　　将来交集的概率

　　gezianhaokeyishifenshoudexiangzheng，haikeyishiyizhongrenshixiangyidekaishi。jinguanmuqianbicizhijianshengcunzaibuyiyangdeshijie，danshiyihoujiaojidegailvyirancunzai。shijianyukongjianbingbushishiyonghengdejiedi，lianggerenyoukenengzaiweilaidemouyishikezaicizhongfeng，zhongxinfaxianbicizhijiandeguanghui。yiner，gezianhaobingbushiyiweizhefenshoudejieshu，fanershiliangxinbicizhuyuanbicizhijiandelu。

　　汇总

　　gezianhaoshifenshouma？zheiyijianduannantiyinqileduiganqinghefenlidetansuo。danshi，bulunshijianjulakaideliefeng，xinliqianguadegudi，xinshouxiangliandezhizhe，haishiweilaijiaojidegailv，gezianhaobingbuyidingyiweizhefenshou。zhenzhenzhengzhengzuizhongdejiejuyexuzaiyumeiyigerentiaoxuandefangfahexintai。buguanzenyang，gezianhaonenggoushiyizhongzhenchengdezhufu，qidaibicizhijianmaixianggengmeihaodemingtian。