老公变心了到底值不值得挽回婚姻？

　　fenshoushinanpengyoushuohuigai，dangfenshoushi，nanyoujinbuzhujiangchulezheijurangrenzhemidechengnuo：“huigai。”zheiyijujianduandehuayinqilewujinsikaoyuchiyi，youyugaibianshiyizhongzishi，shiyizhongxiwang，shiyizhongqidai。zheihuachengzailetaduiyudajialianxideaixi，duilishicuowuderenshibingliangxindezhiqian，bingqieyeningjuletaduiweilaijiandingbuyichengnuoyunuli。danshi，renmentongchangjinbuzhucaiyi，zuihouzhelaiyuanyuwangrideshangtong，pazaidushanghaixinhan。womennengfoutiaoxuanxiangxintadechengnuo？zheiyexushiwomenyinggaimianduihequedingdeyike。

　　fenshoushi，nanyouhuorankailangdishuochuneijuchongchizheqidaidechengnuo，zhongsuozhouzhi，zheijinjinshiyigequanguochengdekaiduan。zheiyijujianduandehuajiangwomendeguanxituishangleyigexindezhengcheng，yigechongmanxiwangyutiaozhandekaiduan。dajiapobudeyimianduiyigezuizhongyaodejueding：qingxiangxinbingyuyitadechengnuoyicijihui，haishihuijixuzhuiqiuzijidexingfukuaile。

　　应对迟疑

　　dangtajiangchu“huigai”dechengnuoshi，wobuyoudexianruyouyubujuedechujing。yiwangdeshangtongshenghuozhongdemaodunzainaohaizhonghuikan，yaowowufaqingyidixiangxintadeyuju。wopaihuaiyuxiangxinyubuxinzhongjian，danyouzaidufushangheyihan。danshi，tadeyanjingheyudiaoquetouluchuyizhongzhenzhiheqipangaibianjuexin，zheijianshirangwowufayanyu，yaowofangongzishengshifougaiweitayicijihui。

　　揭露深层原因

　　fenkaishiyizhongwanshandequeding，dantaquezhenduigaibiandechengnuojielulechuangzuobeijing。huoxu，tashenkeyishidaozijideguoshi，bingweizijidejudonggandaoxiukui。zheiyichengnuoyiweizhezhezijixiangyaomianduiguoqucuowu，bingxiwangzaiwomendeguanxizhongzuochujijizhudongdegaibian。tadezhenchenghexinxinrangwoxiangle，yezhenqiedeganshoudaotaduiyudajiaguanliandegaoduzhongshihezhenxi。

　　机遇与挑战

　　jiyuduifanggaibiandehaojihuidaibiaozhewomenjiangyinglaijiyuyutiaozhan。zheibingbushiyigejiandandequanguocheng，ershiyicixuexipeixun、fazhanhehuifulvcheng。womenyinggaigoujianqixianghuxinrenhegoutongjiaoliudejiben，xuehuifangqicongqiandewentizenghen，jiqigongtongshangdingbingbuduanzhixingyifenqieshikexingdegaibianfangan。zheiyiweizhewomenbixuxianghuxinren、xinkufuchuheduoyidiannaixin，weiyouruci，womendeguanxicainengzhujianjinkuaihuifuzhangqiwending。

　　希望和现实

　　meiyigegaibiandoushiyicikaoyan，erqiezheigegaibianzhenduiwomendeguanxieryanyishiruci。suirantachengnuojiwomendailailexiwang，danwomenyeyaojieshouxianshi。rengaibianxuyaoshijianheqinfen，erjieguoyebuyidingbujinrenyi。yiner，womenyinggaiweichixianshishenghuodeyanjiehelixingsikao，bubibaotaidadeqidai，bimianzaidushoushang。yucitongshi，womenhaixuyaomingbaiweizijishezhidixianhejiexian，youziwobaohudeguannian。

　　重新开始的勇气

　　xiangxintadegaibianchengnuobingbudengyushizhongbuzaiyouyuhehuaiyi。womenyinggaichongmanyongqicongtoukaishi，weilenengxingfudeshenghuoyuweilai，yuanyimaoxianyici。zheixuyaowomenwangjiguoqudefudanheyinying，jiyubicizhijianxinrenyuzhichi，yitongmaixiangxindeweilai。jiusuanruguotaburuwomendechangsuoyuan，danshizhishaodajiameiyouhouhui，dajiaweizijijiandingdizhuixunxingfuerzihao。

　　buguanwomenzuizhongxuanzeleruhedeluxian，fenshoushinanpengyoushuohuigaidechengnuoyijingchengledajiaguanxifazhandedazhuanzhe。takeyishiyicixiwangdeyuanquan，haikeyishiyicijiaoxundekaiduan。zuizhongyaodeshi，wulunxuanzeshenmeyangdequeding，womendouyaoweizijixingfuchengdan，yonggandemianduihezhuiqiuaiqingdehaojihui。