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　　初失的爱与找到的机会

　　gangfenshouhounandezhaoxinhuanxinli，zaigangfenshoudeshiqi，nanxingmianlinhenduofuzaqiezaluandexintai。jieshuyiduanganqingbudandanshishiquyigeairen，gengjiashishiqurichangrichangshenghuodedalizhichihejiezhu。danshi，wangwangshizheileibeishangdejiguangqiege，dianranletamenxunzhaoxinhuandexinlixuqiu。

　　寻找宽慰与抵挡孤单

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　　修复自信和彻底改变自身

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　　分散化痛苦和解决情绪

　　shidudefensanzhuyiliyouliyunanxingduguobeishangdehuanjie。genjuzijintourudaoxindeganqingzhong，tamennenggoushudaoqingxu，huanjiefenshousuodailaidewaishang。xunzhaoxinhuanxinlizhuangtaijiushiweilecongtongkuyubeishangzhongjiefangchulai，rangtamennenggouzuoshibuguan，xunzhaoshenghuodangzhongqidaihelequ。

　　不再信任与复建情感联结

　　fenshouhou，nanxingkenengduiganqingheganqingchanshengzhiyi。xunzhaoxinhuandexinlixuqiu，yefanyingchutamenxiangyaofujianqingganlianjiehexinlaidepoqieyuanwang。tongguoxindeganqingxiangchu，tamenqidainengzhaodaoyigerangtamenzaiciyujianaiqingdehaojihui，niuquyiwangshibaidejingli。

　　走出过去与去迎接

　　xunzhaoxinhuandexintailvtuduinanxinglaishuoyeshiyigezhonghuoxinshengdeyigeguocheng。genjuzaicizijintouruganqing，tamenkeyigenghaodewangdiaoguoqudeyinying，ronghemingtiandexiwang。zheishiyigeyijingcongfenshoudeyinmailizouchulai，yingjiexinshenghuodezhongyaoshiqi。

　　gangfenshouhounandezhaoxinhuanxinli，zongtilaishuo，gangfenshouhounanxingxunzhaoxinhuandexinlixuqiudeyinsuhenduo。budanxunzhaoanweishujietongchu，yexiwangtongguoxindeganqingfangshilaifujianzixinxin、xiufuxinlai，bingkaiqixindeshenghuozhangjie。zheiyixinlizhuangtaijiushitamenzaicizuohuizijideyizhongfangshi，erqiujiejueyiwangbuchenggongdeganqing，bingyinglaigengmeihaodemingtian。