夫妻的三个等级，你是属于哪一等？

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　　忽略别人体会：自我中心利益追寻

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　　对感情和承诺的不负责任：金钱高于一切

　　fenshounanyaoqiandexingweijieluletamenduiyuganqinghechengnuodebufuzeren。tajiangjinqiandangzuoyiqie，baganqingyuzerenpaozhinaohou。tamenbuzaiyicengjingdechengnuohechengnuo，zhizhuiqiuzijidequanyi。zheizhongduiganqingderoulinheduibicidepanbian，lingrengandaofennuhenanguo。fenshouzhihoudezhengzhihezhengchao，tixianchulezheizhongnanrenduiganqingherenyideqingshi。

　　索要和占据：欠缺关怀理解

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　　纠纷的代价：分手产生长期困扰

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　　当心保护自己：维护权益和尊严

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