如何经营婚姻才有完美的夫妻关系？

　　zaifenshouzhihou，xuduorenhuijiujieruhejixuguanxinqiannanyou，tebieshinanyou。fenshoulezenmeguanxinnanpengyoudehua，yexuchengweileyigeyouyubujuedehuatitaolun。jinguanaiqingyijieshu，buguojirancengjingyongyouguoquanmianlejie，rengrankeyitongguopengyoushenfenguanxinduifangshenghuoyuxingfu。genjuguanxintadexiankuang、jilitademengxiang、chuandikuaileyuzhichitadechengzhang，nenggouzhanshichunirengzaiyitadejiankanghexingfukuaile。bulunshifoubaochilianluo，zheizhongguanxindoushiyizhongyoushandebiaoshu，weitamenzhijianbaocunleyifenteshuqingxu，doushichengzhangyuchengshudebiaozhi。

　　1. 重构这样的角色

　　fenshoulezenmeguanxinnanpengyoudehua，fenshouzhihou，dajiaxuzhongxingaishanzijizaiqianrenshenghuozhongderenwu。yiwang，dajiayoukenengshiairen、pengyouhuoqinmideguanxixiaohuoban，danshixianzaizheiliyijinggaibianle。zaizhongxinjianlilianxideguochengdangzhong，renmenbixumingquedajiaxiwangchengweitashenghuolideshenmeyangderenwu。nengshihaopengyou、zhixin、shenzhizaishenghuolide“pengmiandazhaohu”zhongjiandeluren。querenhaozijidedingwei，keyigenghaodeguanxinta、lijieta、zhichita。

　　2. 重视它的空间和个人隐私

　　suiranwomenyexiwangguanxinqianren，danwomenxuyaoquelijiexian。zhongshitadekongjianhegerenyinsishihenzhongyaode，buyaoqingyiguoduoganyutadeshenghuo。jitayixieduchudeshijian，rangtanenggouchulizijideshi，fujianziyideshenghuo。jinguanwomenyiqianfeichangqinmi，danshixianzaiwomenyinggaijiduifangyigejieshoudeshizhang，rangtajuedewomenbingbushiyizhidingzhetade。

　　3. 不刻意触碰，但维持友好

　　suiranwomenbuhuizaishiqinglv，danwomenkeyiyiyouhaodefangfabaochilianluo。buyaomangmuchupeng，buxuyaopinfandeyutapengmianjuhuihuodong。nenggoutongguoshejiaomeiti、duanxiaoxihuoshiouerdianhualaibaochilianluo。dangzheiyouxuyaohedajiagoutongdeshihou，chengxiandajiashanyuqingtingdexintai，jiyuduifanglijiehezhichi。weichiyouhaodexintaikeyirangtatihuidaozijideguanxin，bingshiwomenzhijiandejiaowanggengshunchang。

　　4. 防止太多回首过去

　　fenshouzhihou，womenyinggaifangzhiguodudehuailianguoqudemeihaohuiyi。congqiandetianmihuiyikenenghuishidajiachenniyuyiwangdeqingxu，meifajinyibufazhan。fanguolai，womenkeyizaiyutajiaowangdeguochengzhong，fenxiangzijishenghuo、gerenaihao、chenggonghezongtimubiao。rangtakandaowomendejinbuyuchengzhang，tongshiyeweiliangrendeguanxizhuruxinxiandongneng。

　　5. 探寻共同爱好和友情

　　chukaiguanxintadexiankuang，womenyekeyixunzhaogongtongdexingquyuaihao。canjiayixiexiuxianhuodong、shejiaomeitijuhuihuodonghuoshishetuanhuodong，rangwomennenggouzaigengguangkuodeshejiaopingtaizhongyutahudongjiaoliu。genjugongtongdexingquheaihaoyouqing，womenkeyibaochiyizhongqingsongerqingsongyukuaideguanlian。tongshiyeweidajiachuangjiangengzhangjiudeyouqingtigongleqiji。

　　6. 维持自我成长

　　zuizhong，womenbixujianchiweichiziwochengzhang。buguanfenshouzhihoushibushibaochilianluo，womendouyinggaijinyibufazhanzijideweilai、xingquheaihaojiaojiquan。tongguobuduanxuexiyuchengzhang，womenjiangyaogengjiadeyouzixinyudandu，yegengnenggouzhanxianzijidemeili。zheizhongziwochengzhangbudanshiduizijiguanxin，doushiduiyutadeyizhongzhaogu。rangtakandaozaimanmanchengzhangguochengzhong，yehuigengjiashangxidajia。

　　fenshoulezenmeguanxinnanpengyoudehua，zaifenshouzhihou，guanxinqianrenhenyoukenengshiyigefuzademeirirenwu。danshitongguozhongxinsuzaozheiyangdejiaose、zhongshitadekongjianhegerenyinsi、weichiyouhaodexintai、fangzhitaiduohuiwangyufazhangongtongaihao、weichiziwochengzhangdengxingshi，womenyirankeyitongguoyizhongyouchuangyidefangfaguanxinta。bulunshizuohaopengyou、zhixinhuoshijianyideluren，womenzijideguanxinyuzhufudounenggoutitachanshengyifenwennuanyuguanai。