情侣吵架怎么解决？学会7招解决矛盾冲突

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　　一、 面对现实，悲伤过后

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　　二、 思索缘故，吸取经验

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　　三、 自我提升，彻底改变幸福快乐

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　　四、 沟通交流倾诉，寻找适用

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　　五、 复建社交媒体，扩宽人际圈

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　　六、 放下过去，去迎接

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