与三个男友的生活,花镇情感靠谱吗?

 huazhenqinggankaopuma?wobingbingbushiyigeyouqichuantonghebuanshishidenvxing，wodewenhuayishu、rongmaohejingjifazhanqingkuangyekendingsuanshishangzhongdengpianshang，danzaishenzhenshishinian，wojurandaoxianzaihaizhaobuzheguichu。woyicigen3genanshengjinglitongjushenghuodelishishijian，danzuizhongdouyoushanertongchudifenle。woshucifanshengzishen，meiyoufajueyounaxiedadebuzhengque，woqueshibuqingchuzheidaodishisheidecuo。

7月14日夜里，新闻记者的电子邮箱接到几封未落款的信，全是见到新闻记者写的《单身女性调查》一书后发过来的，在其中有一封信尤其造成新闻记者留意，信里写到：

 “woshishenzhenshiyimingdanshennvren，bushiwobujiehun，qishiwobisuoyourendoubixuhunyinshenghuoyujiatingdewennuan，danwoqueyizhizaishenzhenshifajuebushangzhenzhengdeaiqing。”

 xinwenjizhehuilexin，bingbiaomingxiangfangtanta。shiwurizaoshang，xinwenjizheyoujiedaotadexin，tabiaominghenxiexie，yebiaomingzishendeyigerendeshenghuodequehenwunai。dantahuanshimeiyouliumingzihedianhua。xinwenjizhezaidufuxingaozhita，wuxuduodaoqinggandehoubian，hebubawangrideganqingnachulaishaishaitaiyang，yexuqingxuhuiyoudianerwennuan。shiwuriyeli，xinwenjizhezongsuanshoudaotadedianhua，womenzaidianhualiliaole2geduozhongtou。

第一个男生，由于不自信而离开

 woyu1996nianjinnianchulaishenzhenshi，lijingzheishinianlaidekankankeke，wodezhouzhehewuguansuanzuochengshule，danwoduishenzhenshideganqingqueyuelaiyuemoshenghezhuomobutou。

 wobingbingbushiyigeyouqichuantonghebuanshishidenvxing，wodewenhuayishu、rongmaohejingjifazhanqingkuangyekendingsuanshishangzhongdengpianshang，danzaishenzhenshishinian，wojurandaoxianzaihaizhaobuzheguichu。woyicigen3genanshengjinglitongjushenghuodelishishijian，danzuizhongdouyoushanertongchudifenle。woshucifanshengzishen，meiyoufajueyounaxiedadebuzhengque，woqueshibuqingchuzheidaodishisheidecuo。

 diyigezouruwoxingmingdenanrenshiguangdongmeixianren，tazhangqiligehenduandexiaopingtou，pengyouhepenyoudoujiaotachende。womendoushi1996nian10yuelejiede，neishihouwohaizaixinwenbaodaowenhuayishuzhongxindashayijiaguanggaoshejigongsishangban，qiyechangchangjieyixiebaozhuangyinshuadan，suihouzhuanrucaiyinchang。qiyebuda，jinyouwugeren，xuduo suoshiquanshiwolaidacaodaban。

 yewuyuanhelaobanshoudaodanhou，huizhuanruwozheige“changwuweiyuanzhiqinyiweizhe”，wozaitonggaocaiyinchangdeyewujinglilaijiedanzi。ercaiyinchangchengdangendajialianluoderenbianshichende。

 bangongshilichangchangzhishengyuwoyiren，chendelaijieshouyewuliuchengdeqingkuangxia，yibandoushihuizuoyihuier，wonengjitamendaobeicha，tazongshihanhandedizhuyaobiaoxianchuhenxiexiedemoyang。shucichupenghou，woduitayongyouhaogandu。

 neishihou，tayouyibumotuo，yixiabanlejiuhuilaijiewoyongcan，suihouqudoudoufeng。shinianqian，youyibuquanxindemotuo，duidajiazheizhongfuwengyizueryan，tasuanzuoyoudianer“xiaokangshenghuo”le，wojinaizhetadebeibu，youyicibuzijuediconghoubaojinta，zheiyibao，juranneitianwanshangbata“bao”huileqinshi。dajiajiushizheiyanggangkaishitongjushenghuole。

 chenderenbulan，danbianshiyoudianerlaoshibajiao，caiyinchanghaoduogeyewujinglizhong，tazuodeyewuliuchengzhishao。yinci ，xinshuizhishigoutajichushenghuofei。

 yemeiyouzaiyitadejingjifazhanqingkuang，yikaishi，jiuzijintourulesuoyoudeqinggan。wochushengyuxiaokangzhijia，zixiaomeiyouzuolejiawu，danweilegenghaodita，wonengyongxiannendeshouzhitouqushinongjincudejiaju，jitamenzhufan、zuozaodian、jiawulaodong。yelitahuijiawanle，yemeiyouxinsiyongcan，wulunzaiwan，wodouyaozhidaotahuijiacaiyiqichifan。huazhenqinggankaopuma?

 dagaidabannianhou，wohuangongzuodaokangjiajituanshuxiayijiaqiyezuoshineishejishi，wodexinshuibiyuanxianduoleerbei。ketaquezaicikezhaobudaogongzuo。

 shijishang，zaishenzhenshi，xiagangshihenyiqiezhengchangde，yemeiyoujuedezheiyounaxieganga，dantazhaoleliangsangeyuegongzuozhonghaizhaobuzhe，quehurankuangzaohebuzixinqilai，yaoshiyouyijuhuameizhongting，jiushuaimenerchu。

 1996nian8yue12ri，woyongyuanjidezheiyishenghuo。neiyitian，tayizaowaichu，daodiertianlingchen2diandouhaimeihuijiale，wotongdianhuadaotahaoduogeqinqijialejie，doubuqingchutalaidaonaer。

 6dianzhongshangxia，tahurantongdianhuaeryan，tazaiyebuhuijiale。woxunwentaweihe，tashuodaomeiyouweihe，yebuzhidaoweihe，tajinridaolonghuazhenyijiajiagongchangzuorenshigongzuo，zongsuannenggou“ziliziqiang”le，tabuyuanzaicizaiwodeshuyinxiaguoshenghuo，cihounenggousongyikouqile，qidaizhihoufendaoyangbiao。