花镇情感官网：夫妻关系不太好的十大要素是啥

 qingganshirenshengdaoluzuizhongyaode，danshijizhongxuduo fufuchangchangzhengchao。weihefuqiguanxibutaihaoni，huazhenqingganguanwangweihefuqiguanxiyulaiyudan，xiabianwohuizongyixiadaozhiqingganbuwendingdeshidayaosu，jidahuoergongxiangyixiafufuganqingganbutaihaodeyuanguba。

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夫妻关系不太好的要素1：不沟通交流

 zhenduinannvguanxizhongrangtamenfanmenfanxindeshi，henduorendoushihuizhuanglongzuoya。yilaishitamenbuxiangshuochuqushanglingyifangdexin，cizhishiyouyutamenyaoxiangweichiqianghanyingxiangli(canzhaodierdian，pubiandezhuangkuangshi：“jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaoweihewonengfafeng，neimewoziranburongyiduinishuo!)zheileifangfaduanshijianhenyoukenenghuiranglingyifangkekeqiqi，danzhangqixingxialaitahuimanmanfushibiciganqingjichu，shiqiriquqianque。xiaofenqiduiqilaileyuelaiyuedadenanti——yinweinidelingyibanchechenjinzaixingfukuailedecuojuelierhulvelezheizhongzaocheng nantiduijidefenqi。gengzaogaodeshi，chedimeiyouyishidaozheizhonghuibianchengjinifanmendeyuanyin，zuihou，jianmotixianlexinrengandequeshao——rutongwochangshuo，yiduanguanliancongciwancheng。

夫妻关系不太好的要素2：一直想赢

 lianaiguanxidezhimingxingxiongshouzhiyibianshizhengqianghaosheng。bushiwozhizaiwangqiusaizhongnibunengchengshoubuchenggongdeneileishichangjingzhengzishi，zhishizhinidetanlianaixintai，nishizheileiguanlianzishenweiyichangsaishi，bingxiangqudeshengli。bayichanglianaizuoweiyichangshichangjingzhengderenyizhixunzhaoyoudian，youyoushi，youzheyixienengcaozonglingyifangdeniantoude，ruguonijuedezishenyouxieshibukeyigaozhilingyifangpata/tajiecijihuijingongni，neimanijiushichuyujingzhengguanxizhong——danzheileiguanlianburongyichijiu。

夫妻关系不太好的要素3：不聆听

 lingting——renzhendelingting——shihennannengkegui。tingjiantarenhaoxiangzaichizezishenshiyaoxiangjizijibianboshiyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang，yinci dajiajingchangshiqieduantarenlaijizijibianbobianjie，huoshizhiguanzhuruhejizijibianbo，erbingmeiyouyongxintingwantarenchangshuodehua。

 dankeguanshishijiushiniyingdangyongxintinglingyifangdejiaotan，naizhiyingdangzailingyifangdepingshitaolaozhongtingchutamendeanhandeyisi，yichuaicechulianta/tazishenyebushifenqingxidelixianghexinyuan。jiarudabushangzheileishuiping，zuishaoduinisuozuiaidereneryan，zheishiyigenanti。

夫妻关系不太好的要素4：怕提出分手

 xiangyouxingfukuailenannvguanxiderenshiburongyidanyoutichufenshouzheiyishide。jiarunidanyou，neimejiubiaomingdajiadeguanlianchuxianweijile。danyibannantigengshilaiyuanyuzheileidanyouzishen。yinweitabudanbiaomingnitaobushangduilingyifangdebuxinren，yexianshixinxiniduizishenzixinxinbugou——nidanyouzishenbuzuhao，meirenzhenshiyouyuanyinhuixianghenizaiyiqi。zaowannidezhixiqinshuhuijuewuhuilaisuihoulinierqu。

 yinci nihuadalianghuolilaiweihubaoyangzheiyiduanqingganbiaocengdeguangcaizhaorenerbushiyingzaozishendeneixinshenchu，shizishenxinxin。rongwotanyan，neiyangzuobujinburongyirangnizijilingrenmanyi，yetaobushangniqinglvdehuanxi。

夫妻关系不太好的要素5：不信任

 zainannvguanxizhongyouliangcengmianxinrenganhenzhongyao。diyishiyaochongzujianxinlingyifangburongyimengpianhuosunhaini——erqiejianxinlingyifangyezheibanxinrenganzishen。lingyifangmianshixiangxinwulunniganlenaxiehuozhejiangguonaxie，lingyifangdoubuhuilikainibinghuiyirujiwangdeaizheni。jiaruzaiqizhongyirenyunyonglingyifangdexinrenganganlebukeyuanliangdeshi，neimadiercengxinrengandoujiangdangranwucun，dajiadeguanlianyiqiedoujieshule——jibian shizhangdashijiniandeqinggan。

夫妻关系不太好的要素6：太依靠

 nannvguanxizhongshiyongheyikaoshiyigebutaihaozhangwodedu。jiarunijiezhunidezhixiqinshu——neijiushishuo，lileta/tanichediwufahuo-neiyangniyejiuguojiele。nideairenrujinchengdanzhegongzuoyali，tagecengmianbixujiangnizhaoguhaoerzheileigongzuoyalihuicushitabumanyi。jiaruniyizhiqidailingyifanglaibaochizheiyiduanqingganerzishenshenmeshidoubuzuo——wozheilizhideshicaizhengjuheqingganshiyong，neimaniyejiuyoujiannanke。

 liuyi：bushiwoshuonixuyaogongpingdejianfurichangshenghuozhichu——wodeyisishijiarunibukeyiweishenghuofeiyongfuhelv，biedecengmianyewuyiqiefengxian。neimazheiyiduanqingganjiuyichangle，ziranyejiuburongyiyouhaojieguo。

夫妻关系不太好的要素7：想得简易/想得很难

 womendouzhidaoguodenannvguanxizhongyouerzhongtanlianaixintaishifenyoushenmewenti。yizhongbianshijuedenannvguanxiyingdangjianyi，jiaruniqueshiaiyigerenbingzhunbeiheta/taxiangbanyishengdehua，hendangranbianhuishunlichengzhang。lingyizhongxintaishijiaowangshijianfanxinshi——gengshiyouyububian，yinci yaoqinfendedao 。

 zheierzhongjianjiedoushihuizaocheng nikendingbuhuilaoshenyunyingzheiyiduanqinggan。nimeiyongxinyouyunijuedetayinggaishishunlichengzhangde，yinci buyongqinfen，huojuedetazishenbianshigefanxinshi，jiaruniqinfen，yebuhuiyinerbianjianyi。zaierzhongxintaixia，nixunsubianhuijingpilijie——yizeshiyouyuyandixianihulvedenantiyagenmeianniqidaideneibanzixingchuli，erlaijiushiniyizhishengchanzhizaodenanticushinixinyouyuerlibuzu，leguoduosixudeqingganhenyoukenenghuizaodaozhishangxintaideweihai，danbuyongyidiansixudeqingganyebabuqunali。

夫妻关系不太好的要素8：期待获得欢乐

 yiduancaogaodeguanliandebiaoshibianshi：zaiqizhongyifanghuoshuangfangdouqidairanglingyifanghuanlehuoqidailingyifanglingzishenhuanle。wulunduizishenhuozhebicilaijiang，zheiquanshigetuolishijidepanwang——chulezishen，meirennengjinihuanleqilai——danbatazuoweinannvguanxidexiwangshituolishijide。

 jiaowangbuzhishihuanle，xuduo qingkuangxianiburongyijuedehuanlenaizhidoubuyingdangganjuehuanle。ruguoniganjuemishi，tongchu，yayiganhuoyoushangshi，youyigerennenggoujiezhunaizhixiangbiyizhihuanlegengguanjian。jiaruniqidailingyifangjinihuanle——huogengzaogaodeshi，niyouyubukeyiranglingyifanghuanleerganjueyoushiluogan——neimadajiazheiyiduanqingganshichengshoubulecuobaide。

夫妻关系不太好的要素9：掏钱不控制

 zheiyidianyijianshieryanshigekegumingxindejingyanjiaoxun——talijizaocheng woqinianlianaiguanxidewanbi。ruguonidanshenshi，ninengzairenheshihoumaixialainiyaoxiangderenhedongxierwuxukaolvdaoweilaihuizenmeyang。huazhenqingganguanwangjinguanbumingzhi，keshinidanfubuliangyingxiangdeyejinjinniziji。ruguonihebierenmingquezhangqixingdelianaiguanxihou，zheileitaoqianfangfayebushijile。nidezhixiqinshu——henidehaizi(ruguoyouhuozhunbeiyaoxiaohaizidehua)——kenengchengdannizheileisiyikaixiaosuochanshengdebuliangyingxiang。

 yinci nizuihaopeiyanghaoyouliangdexiaofeixiguan，yishenghuoyongpinhuaxiaoweizhudao，ruguoyouyingyu，zaihelingyifangshangliangyixiaruheshiyonggaibiqianzuihaoshi。

 xianjieduanhuaxiaonantizaocheng nannvguanxifashengzhengzhidezhuangkuangyulaiyuduo。youyuyulaiyuduoderenjibian jiehunhouyetiaoxuanhuijifenli。zheileifenpeizishenshiwukefeiyide，danyuxiangxiangzhongfanguolai，caiwudulibixubicidaliangdegoutongjiaoliuhecanjia。jiarunijuedehuadeshizishendeqianbierenmeizhipeiquanganyu，neimanidenannvguanxizhongjiuhuibuchenggong。

夫妻关系不太好的要素10：从来不争吵

 youshihoudelianghaodezhengchaoshibixude。mouzhongyiyishang，zhengzhikeyichuliyixiesuosuiyifangzhitamenjichenghuawenti。danyiyang，zaizhengzhizhongxuanxienaonushirenmenxintaizuchengzhongshifenyiqiezhengchangdeyibufen。nidelianaiguanxiwubichongzujianren，keyikuanrongzhenzhengdenierbudanshininhaodecengmian。