花镇情感咨询：情感出难题咋办

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情感出难题大多数起源于没有话说

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情感出現难题应该怎么办

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1、自我反省

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2、换位思考一下

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3、例举优势

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4、临时分离

 bicilinshifenliyiduanshijian，fenlinenggourangshuangfangdoupingjingxialai，haohaodidesisuoyixia，fenlilebianhuiduolexiexiangnian，bianyujiejuemaodun。

5、约法三章

 fufubiciyuefasanzhang，jinkenengshangyifangzhizhengzhi，zhengzhishiyouyifangwubijianmohuolinshiliqu，yifangbugaoxinglingyifangyaolijidexiezhutawangjiyoushang。

6、学会放下情面