分手后复合再提出分手的难题出在哪里，冷爱老师靠谱吗

weihesuichukejianyixienanhaihenvhaifenshoufuhehou，guobushangduozhangshijianyouzaidutichufenshou。lengailaoshikaopumayoudenaizhichaochaonaonaohaojihui。daodiyuanguchuyunali?gaizenmediaozheng?zheijiulaitanyitan。

分手后复合再提出分手的难题出在哪里

交往不和谐

shijishangdajiazairichangshenghuozhongnenggougenjusuobiaoshudeqinggan、xingge、gerenaihaolaigoujianyigefeichanghaodeliangxingjiaowangziranhuanjing，xuezhejiehelingyifangderichangshenghuo，zaochengguanlianxing。erbushibazijidazao“hanfu”depinpaixingxiang，yiweidehaofeita，zhizeta，shitayizhiyanzheni，manzunidechongdong。chijiuneiyangbianhuibupingheng，jiaowangqilaijiubuhexie。

难题的“自始至终性”

dabufendeqinglvfenshouyouyigebenzhiyaosushiyou“yaoqiu”quemeibeikaolv。meiqurenqingbajiejuewentihao，yirujiwangduobi，neimadajiazuizhongzhongguiyuhaodefayuanhenyoukenengshiyouyu“aietichufenshou”。fenlihouganjuehuanshilibulelingyifang，yilaizheizhongganjuezaizaiyiqi，bianhuizaochengchaochaonaonao，hehebeitoudejushi。

大家的“将来”

yaolejie，nanshengjishilejienihenaita，dannibutaihaodehaobuzaiyitadoukanzaiyanzhong。yizhifanfu，jianglaiyeshineiyangduguo，takeburongyitongyi。qingganshangzuidanxinshizaixianghudeshenshangkanbudaojianglai，huoshitaganjuechixubaochixiankuang，jianglaihuiyuelaiyuehenkongbu。

不断提出分手的你该怎么调整

情感仍在

jiaruqingganbujiangu，zaoyihenyoukenengjiangchudiyicitichufenshoucongcimeishihoule，keshijinglileshucifenheyiranhaiduanbudong，zhengshiniyizhizaitaneixinhuanshizhanjuyixiyingxiangli。

正确认识不够

zheishihounijiuxuyaogangkaishifanshengxiazishen，shifoumeibalingyifang“tianchong”hao。lengailaoshikaopumaganqingwentishibicizaochengzaocheng ，liangrendezhuiqiugan，shifounijianglingyifangcuoguodepinciduoquehaiyituozaituoweifajue。

zheileiganqingwentizenyang“miyun”：

接受现实

xianjieduanzuibixudeshiquzhangwodajiadeyigejutiqingkuangzenyang，bubiquduobi，“dangjuzhemi”dedadaolishijishangbianshiyaodajiatiaochulaiquanjuxingquanshenertuichuqudulisikaosuoshu，zhenglianluojisiwei，gaohaoyaogenggaidetiqianzhunbei，jiyuzongshijiaojiyoutiqianzhunbeideren。

找寻突破点

xunzhaoshiyin，zheishihouduizhengzhiliao，bianshihelingyifangweichiyigelianghaodegoutongqingkuang。guanjiannanti，jiuyishilunshishuoqing。yiqiangshidexintaijitamendashangyizhen“fangxinji”，lingwaiqidaidajiajianglaidehongweilantu，tupodianjiuzaizheishizaocheng。

使他看到将来

cike，dajiadezhaoshuhejiagoujiubixudashang，ziranmeiyigerendelizhengbuyiyang，lengailaoshikaopumasuozuodeyebuyiyang，kezixunworangbangnipouxi。danhaowuyiwenguangfandeshi，nixuyaoshitaduidajiadejianglaishiyousuoqidai。gengshitalejienidegenggaishiweilegenghaodidajiayougengqiangdejianglai。