zenmewanhuiyigenvrenxin?nvxingyidanduiyigenanrensangshizixinxin,yibanshinanyihehaoruchude,huazhenqingganzixunkexinmadanbingbuyiweizhemeiyoujiyu。xuduo nanshenghuitiaoxuansipilailiandefangfalaiwanhuiganqing,xubuzhidaoneiyangbudanmeishenmeshijixiaoguo,bingqiehuirangzishendeshiyongjiazhijianshao。xiabianjiulaijiaoniliuyishenmeba!
不提挽留,不聊情感上的事
nvxingzaigennifenshouhou,duinifumianqingxushifendebijiaoyanzhong,jiaruniyiweidetiwanliu,wanliu,wanliu。huoshizongliaodajiaqingganshangdehuatitaolun,tahuishifendichugennidexianliao。dichugennidechupeng。nirujinyaozuodeshirangmeizhiganshoudao,nijijizhudong,shehuizhengnengliangdeqingkuang,rangtajuededaonibuzaihu。jianshaomeizhiduinidebumanqingxu。
警惕心不可取
jiarunimeilixingdicaiyongyiyanhaiyandezuofa——jueceyongyiyangdefangfaquduifunidelingyiban,zheikekendingshigexiaxiace。huoxunihuodeleyishidekaolv,ganjueshita(ta)yechongzuganshouyixianineishihousuozaoshoudeyanlidajihesunhaimeishenmebudui,yehengongzheng。keshi,yaolejie,zhenduizaoyibiantilinshangdeganqing,neiyangzuodebuliangyingxiangbujinwuliyushierdechuli,fandaohuishiliaobuji。
冷藏分手一段时间
xuanyongzheiyifangfadeqingkuangxia,youyigeqiantitiaojian,jiushizheigemeizhi,bujienindedianhua,lianxidianhuasuoyoujiaruheimingdan,bingqiebugenjiniyiqiechupengwanglai。
chuxianzheileizhuangkuang,biaomingzheiyimeizhirujinduinidefumianqingxushifendebijiaoyanzhong,jiandoubuyuanyijianni,neimanirujinjiuxuyaocaiyonglengzang,fenshouneiyangdefangfa,bugenzheiyimeizhiyouyouhelianluo。congtadequanqiulixiaotui。youdixiongjiandaozheierkenengyebudandingcongrongle。jiaruqueshihetatichufenshou,neiwobuhuibianshiyaoliangle,haiwanliunaxie?keshidixiongmen,jiarunimeineiyangzuodehua,zaiciqujiuchanbuqingta,qiqiuta,zongshirangtayulaiyudichuni,shijianyizhang,meizhijianggennikendingbuhuiyouyiqielianluo,neiyangdewanliugailvwei0。jinilengzangfenshoudemudi,yeshiweilegenghaodizaiweilaikeyiyouzaicizourutarichangshenghuodejiyu。
复建信赖感
jibian qinggandecanpianhuodelezaicixiufu,zaixiufuyihouchuangjianhuxiangxinrenyeyiranshishifenbixude。
nibunenglaoshiyouyulingyifangzuolebaoqianzishendeshierersuichuduita(ta)duofangmianxunchi,feideta(ta)guizainiyanqianyaoqiunidekuanrong。neiyangzuoshijishangshihaowujiazhide。jiarudajiahaixiangguoquneibanzaiyixianghujiandeqingganbingqidaizaicizaiyiqidehua,neima,liangrenduoquchuyixieshijianzuoxialaipingxinjingqidishuoshuoxinlihua,dayuejiumeishenmenanyijiejuederougedale。
和她像盆友一样去交往
xuduo qingkuangxia,meizhigennitifenshoudeshihou,tayaoshuo,dajiazuopengyouba。shijishangjiarufenshoushi,nvshengjinijuedezheijuhua,bianshizairangnijiyu。youhenduodixiongmen,huixiang,wocao,shiwomenzuopengyou,haibibushangyaowosiqu。wozennenggenxinyidenvxingzuopengyouni?jiarunimeiyineiyangdefangfajitajiangxueya,yuqinguzong。zongshibatarangnidejiyuxiaohaodiao。
给相互一个思索的室内空间
zhenzhengdeaiqingzoushiliu?shuiluoshichuyihoudezuikaishijiri,zheigewentihaowuyiwenshiliangrentantaohekaolvdaodejujiaodian。lizaitianpingchengdeliangbian,dajiayouyibujue。zheigeshihou,zuihaoshidefangfashixianghufenliyiduanshijian,fenbielizhidikaolvdaozheigewenti。nenggouqudujiahuozheyouyigerencongliangrendexiaofangzizhongbanchulaiyiduanshijian。neiyangbicicaikeyigenglizhidizhenglifenbiedexintai,buhuiyishichongdongzuochubuzhengquejuece。
以诚相待相对性
laidaoliangrennenggoujingxialaitanchengxiangjianditanyitandeqingkuangxia,bunengtaobideyigenantibianshi:shizenmehuishicujinneirenpanbianledajiadeganqingerzuochulewaiyudeshi。henyoukenengta(ta)neixinduinimangliugongzuozhongermeishijiangujitadelengdanyizhixinhuaibumanyi,danta(ta)rengweishuochulai,zhishichangshicongtarendeshenshangxunzhaokuanwei。
jiaruta(ta)heneirendeguanliandouhaimeiwanbi,hebujitamen(ta)yigexianqi,shita(ta)youchongzudeshijianzuochuxuanze。duiyuliangrenzaiyiqidebiedeguanjiandian,naizhishichuangbiandeguanjiandian,bingbingbushilejiedeyuedaduinantidechulijiuyueyouxiezhu。youyubeimengpiandeyifangtongchangbingbushichuziyuxingquaihaolaiwenzheizhongnantide,zhishibuzhengquedirenwei,zishennenggoujiecijihuilaizuodaoneixindepingjing。jiezhebianhuiwukejiuyaodishenxianyigeliangjihua:beimengpiandeyifangbuduanbiwenzheixieguanjiandian,erqiuzuodaota(ta)shuobailedexinlideningjing。
有求于专业人员
badajiazhongjiandezheileishiergaozhiciwaiyigehaobuxiangganderenhuoxubingbuneimafeichangrongyi。keshi,zheileifangfatongchangshihenyoushijixiaoguode。ruguoniyunidezuihaodepengyouqingtunidekumenhewunaishi,tamentongchangshilizainizheiyibianeryouyidingdepianxiang,jinerbutaikenengmingquetichuyouquanjuxingdejiejuefangan。erquanweizhuanjiadetiyizenenggoubujibuxudizuochupingding,jinerzhaodaohelidejiejuefangan。
心理状态基本建设
xinlizhuangtai,shiwanliuzhizhongyijiguanjiandeyidian。youhenduodixiongxunzhaowojiangwanliu,yizhishuo“xiaomian,xianzaiwolikemashangzuodeshinaxie?xiaomian,wojitafaleduanxiaoxiba,xiaomian,wojiangdajiazhiqiandeheyingzhaopian,ganleyigexiangcetupian,wojitafayiwangba。xiaomian,wojintianjiandaotale,qiunigenwoshuo,xianzaiwojiexiaqu,xiayibugaizenmezuo?”jiarushuonihuaizheneiyangyigepobujidai,xuqiuganhenqiangdexinlizhuangtailaiyaowo。xinlizhuangtaijiweidebuwending,yezuobudaofenshou。pengdaodiancuobai,jiuxuyaosuiyisheqi。neimaneiyangdedixiongmen,qingbuyaolaiyaowowanliu。aiqingjiuxiangyigeciqiyiyang,yikaishidajia2gejiaowangjinjinkailieyigexiaojianxi,zuizhongbeinishuaileyigexisui,woyouzenmekenengjinizuoyijianshi,huazhenqingganzixunkexinmajiuyishunjianxiufudajiadeganqingni?jiarunimeiyouzhixingnengli,yebuyuanyiqutigaoziji,gaibianxianzhuang,neimanidewanliu,huishifenkunnan。
简易的两步便是:
1、zaifenshouhou,nixuyaoyouwaidaoneiqugaibianxianzhuang,huanyizhongshejifengge,rangzishenhuanranyixin。
2、genggaiguoquderichangshenghuofangshi,bazijideshenghuoguannian,shejiaoquanzi、lixiangzaicikaishe。
3、nixuyaoxiangbanfarangzishenmeiridougaoxing,meiridouguodehenjingcaifencheng。
4、meiquyigediqu,zuikaixindeqingkuangxiajiuzhaoyizhangxiang,zaizhaoyidianlvyouzhao。
5、lejieduoyidianyixing,genduoyidianyixingqutiaodou,zhaoduoyidianheyixingpengyoudeheyingzhaopian。
6、genjuyixiedajiajianhainengxiangjiaodaodedian,liruqqkongjianshuoshuo,weixinfapengyouquan,xinlangweibodeng,jiangnichanshengdegenggaigenjuxiangpianhewenbendefangshichengxianchuqu,“bujingyi”zhongrangnideqiannvyoujiandao。
7、duogendianlaoyoulianluo,suihouzaiduohetadepenyoulianluo,nenggouyiqiwanershang,rangtalejienirujinderichangshenghuofangshi。
8、buzhudonglianluota,danquechangchang“bujingyi”chuxianzaitadequanqiuli,yiduanshijianhougenjuyoushihoudejiyu,huoshuacunzaigandefangshidajiajianzaochengzaiduhudongjiaoliu。
9、hudongjiaoliudezuikaishibianshidangzuopenyouyiqi,liaoyiliaojinqi,niyizhizaimangnaxie,xueshenme,younaxiezhunbeizheileide,jianjiexingrangtajuededaonidebuyiyang。zaizhaoyigeyouxiaodeyuanyinyuechuqupengmian,yinweinishizhizaoyifashenglezhuanbian,neimaercixiyinbianhuiqidong。
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