花镇情感是真是假？男女交往不同阶段的消费方式

 dajiadexianghuxiaofeidabufenzhuangkuangxiayounanrenfuqian，huazhenqingganshizhenshijia？tazishendeduziyirenxiaofeidabufenzhuangkuangxiayoutazishenfuqian。

 dajiadexianghuxiaofeibaohanxianghuquwandemenpiaofei、yongcan、dade、kaifangjianzheixie，ziranzuihaozhuangkuangshinvrenyoushihouyefuqian，jiaruyigenvrennenggouweidajiaxianghudexiaofeifuqianzuodao1/5deedu，dajiadeguanlianjiugengweishenxinjiankang，niyizhizaitayanzhongdeyingxiangliyegaoxie，danzheiyiqiantitiaojianshinvrenyouyixiang，ninengzhengqueyindaokeshibukeyibipo。

 nvrenzishendeduziyirenxiaofeibaohantazishenxuangoudeyifukuzi、pinpaibao、hufupin，huoshizishendeshoujihuafeizaixianchongzhizheixie，zheiyixiaofeinibunengtitachu。zaizheigehuanjiebuchangdaonisongtawupin，youqishijiagechaochuyibaiyuandewupin。

zheiertianbuyigenanti：dahuahou，dahuadenvhaierjiekuan，yingbuyinggaiji?

基本准则是不必产生钱财借款方。许多 缘故：

 zuixian，yizhaochangqing，zaihaodepenyouyebubicunyouqiancaijiekuanfang，zhiyaoshipenyouzhangzuiaiyumianziwubijiedeqingkuangxia，yeshizhekoujiechuqu，jichububixiwanghaidai。

 cizhi，huoleershiduonianle，pengdaoyidiandianjiannanjiumeipengyouxiangbang，erxiangganglejiedeshengshunanxingdaikuandenvhai，zanhuanshidujueyidianba。

 shuozhenhua，jianguodezhuduoshilizhong，beidahuadenvhaierjiekuanjichubingbushiweilegenghaodijijiu，zhishinaxiehuafeichongzhia，tanwangjiarena，goumaishoujiqianbuzua，keshinanhaiermenkaolvyigekumendemianzi，queshijingranyoujiekuande。suihoujiutarulejiekuandeqiongtumolu，zuizhongcaizaidashanxuegongzuozuxunqiubangzhugaigaizenmeban。shanguangdianshi：jiekuandenvhaizidahuahouyimiandoumeijianguo。

 chuxinzhao：jiekuandenvhai，yaoshinijuedepengmian，jichudoujijisheqidaikuanle。pengmiansanfenqing，lianbulabujina。dianzizhifudeguanjianshidoubuqingchuhulianwangneilideliandaodishisheide。

当大家处在恋爱的阶段时

zheishidajiaxianghuxiaofeijichuheshangyigeqingkuangleisi，nvrenjiarutongyikongchuyixiehaikeyi

 ernvrenzishendeduziyirenxiaofeililunshangyeheshangyigehuanjieleisi，biaozhunyeshitazishenmaizishende，danninengyoushihousongtagelipinhuowupin，cikejiagegaoxieyeok，kanzhenidejingjifazhanqingkuang。qiantitiaojianshi，zheiyilipinzuihaoshijiushinitongyisongde，huazhenqingganshizhenshijia？nijitagouwujinjinniqidairangtakaixin，erzheibingbushinidezeren

dangdajiachuzaiwanhunhuoshitiejinwanhundeqingkuang

 cikewojianyilianggerenhuanshifenbiezhizhangzishendehuijiguanliquanxian，huoshitongsuhuadianshuo，bianshilianggerendeqianzuihaoshihaishifenkaide。zaizheigehuanjie，jiazhongdeqiannenggoufenweiliangdaosanfen，yifenyoutaziyouzhipei，yifenyouniziyouzhipei，(huoshihainenggouzaitishengyifenjiazhongxianghuhuiji，pingshihuaxiao、gouzhijiazhongxianghuwujian、xiaoshunfumuzheixiezhichuyouzheiyizichanzhichu，lianggerenshangyizheban)

zaizheigehuanjieniyekeyiyongnizijidezichansongtalipin，biaozhuntongshangyigeguanlianhuanjie

lingwai，niyenenggouweizijibeiyigegongkuansicun，neiyangnizijidexiaofeijianggengweisuiyi，zhongjiujingjijuecerendequanmianfazhan。

 ziran，zheiduofenhuijizichandezhanbijiqibicizhuzidezhanbi(youqishilianggerendenagexianghuzichan)nenggoushangyizhelai，nanrenhaikeyiquxiangduodanfuyixie

 jugeshili，xianzaiwohenvpengyouchuzaizhunwanhunqingkuang，yinweitabugongzuozhong，yinci suoyouhuijizichandouyouwokaizhi;danwoyiranjiangqianfenchengerfen，yifenyoutasuiyizhizhang，yifenwolaisuiyizhizhang，huxiangguji。youyumeiyouwanhun，suoyiwozanshimeiyouzhengtiguihuanagedisanfendejiazhongxianghucaichandezichan。

总体来说，两性关系中的消费方式秉持着下列好多个标准：

-nanrenbukeyibianchengnvrendequkuanji

-fenbieyouzerendanfufenbiedexiaofeidedifanghexiaofeizhipeiquan

-nikaizhideduoshiyouyuniaita，qidaitagaoxing，danzheibushiwubide