duixinaiderenbiaodaaiyibuzhishinanrendezhipeiquan,zuoweinvren,niyenenggouzuodehenmei。huazhenqingganshizhengguidegongsima?danshizhangwozuijiashijicaisuanshizuizhongyaode。ruguo“xianshen”buzuliji,yexushibaixiaohaoqinggan;jiaru“chuchanglv”taigao,youshitajianguanbujing。zaishenmeshihoucaiyongjiji,zheiyaokaoconghuidenilinghuoyingbian。
一、当他“失算”时
hanshengzaoyuzheyigezhongtedatiaoxuan:xiangzuozou,guanyunshunchang,zaiaoyinianbanzai,guanzhizhengchu;wangyou,penyouzhaohuanjiamengdaili,danshayidanweizongjingli,xinziyufengxianxingtongyanggao。hequhecongzuoyouweinan,xuanzemiwang。yezhikanjianlaogongdiaonan,quemeiyouweita“hongtubaye”,tayiqingkongwanlidechangtaihuabiaomingleduilaogongjiaoda dexinrenganhelejie,tayaoranglaogongganjue,“tiaoxuan”zishenbianshirichangshenghuodeyizhongfangshi。zheiyitianhenwanle,hanshengshuibuzhejue,zhanqidaoshenghuoyangtaixiyan。yezhiweitasongchapiyi,hanshengwen:“jiarudangguan,youkenengsipingbawenquefapoli;jiaruzuoshengyi,henyoukenengshuchengqiongren。
zheiliangzhong,nixuyaonayige?”yezhishuo:“zuoshenmebingbuzhongyao,guanjiandejiushinibenshen。wulunruhe,wohaizhichini。”diertianxinglaihou,fajuezaofanzhuoziheniuru、tusimianbaoyiqiyazheyezhideliuyanbanliuyan:diyi,duosikaohaodeyimian。dier,xuehuifangxia。hanshengzuihouchuhaile,yinianhoubianchenghuanbaozhuangshicailiaoxingyedexianfengrenwu。dantabeiyezhidianhuadexinzishizhizhongjizhe,dangtachuzairenshengdaoludeshizilukoushi,shilaopoweitaninghuiliangxingyuzhidejiaotongxinhaodeng。
pingjia:zainanrenhanhubuqing、zhanqianguhou、jintuiliangnandezuoyouweinanzhishi,nvrendeguliyousiliangboqianjinzhizuoyong。huazhenqingganshizhengguidegongsima?shijishanghanshengzaiqianyishizhongzhongxianyoulezishendejuece,dantabixubuduan、caiyilaizhengshiqiqiadangshifou,erhuodelaopoyezhidedianba,haowuyiwenshijiletaliboqianjundebiandalededongneng。
二、当他“认知功能障碍”时
sunjuntaoyoushuodahuadewenti,naizhinenggouqiangguobushedixugouchuqianyitianhenikesonggongjinwancandexinwenbaodao。buguanzhenbuzhenzheng,dahuoerlejietajinjinweilegenghaodizhaolezi,sheiyebuhuihetajiaozhener。
youyitianjiapolaideshihou,sunjuntaoyougujizhongyan,nayimeijiajinglianhonglaopopokaixin,chengzuochunjin,meixiangdaojiangfapiaoluozaidimianshang,laopopozhangyan,suishoushiqiyiqiao,lele:“zheichouxiaozi,daxiaojiuxihuanhongwo,rujinhaibianxiahua?”sunjuntaoxinlibushufu,lusique“kuajiang”shuo,naer,tabuyongshuohuanghuade,wojuededouningaoxingma……
pingjia:nanrendahua,qianpianyilvquanshihaogaowuyuanzhixurongbaduanjiazi,ke“renzhigongnengzhangaichengxing”shi,gengshinvrenmiaoshouzhuabuzhishi,guanjianshilusiconglaibuchuochuan,shitashunganpafengding,xiabuquzaidibaruanti,jiwushiqingmian,youyizhenjianxue,zaishitalaolaoshishidiqieshiluoshi。
三、当他“失察”时
jinjunzhixingyunquleyigehaoqizi,jiaojiaodedaqi、haokan、caikeyibansuizhejiehunhoudeshenghuodejinxinggengshitalingyanxiangkan。buguanzaijiali,huanshizaiwaimian,jiaojiaodoumeiyangneixing。jinjunzhixinqingyukuaixianxia,youfajuejiaojiaodouhuiyidezhiyudizhanshichugengshitachayideyoushihuozhuanzhang。jinjunzhiyixiangzishiweidiannaozhuanjia,zheijitiantayijingshejifanganfanzadegerenzhongxin,baozhengyibanshi,tatingchunfengdeyi,xiangjiaojiaoxianbai。jiaojiaokuatayiliangju,quezaisuibianzhongjianjianquanlejigeribendongmanshijixiaoguo,shuizhunxianzhuzaitayishang。jinjunzhimudengkoudai:“heshiyeyouzheiyishou?”
pingjia:jiaojiaodebiaodaxiaoguoqujueyujilaogongbuduanyiwaijingxi,huazhenqingganshizhengguidegongsima?buyinlengjun、yafuqusheng,shudubawodehenjishi,zheijiushi:zaiweilaogongnuanchangshihualongdianjing,shitagaoqingchu,qishiwobiniyiliaodehaixing,gengqiang。
四、当他“失帧”时
hongjingligaokuanbipengzhangdefachunqi,jinyibushijiaoaozida,tuiyibushikuangwangzida,zongzhiyixiegerenganjuetaiguoyouliang。youyu2~3pianqikanlunwenzoushanglexueshuqikan、jihuijishuzhichengshengzhiyilutongguan,tabianyixiejiaoaozidaqilai。liuxinshigejinxiaoshenweidelaopo,duilaogongzheibanlengaomianbuleyoulv。
youyici,tahelaogongyiqizaichufangzuofan,dahoudajiaodihaipashayu,laogongduofangbuhuilaidao:“jinkai,yeyoubiwoniude?”liuxinyangzhuangjingjushuo:“zheiyutexiongmeng,butaihaonong。”
hongyeshidiyicishayu,ziyiweishixiaocaiyidie,danqixianzhuabudao,daozhenshixiaxiaodaoshiliangshoufadou,kaiguotangdeyufeiersibule,shangcuanxiatiao。honglangbeibukanzhizhe,shouli、deshenshangjianmanzangxue,rengxiashuiguodaotaoyi。yifanxiazhetengchulai,liuxinbianguayulinbianshuo:“laogong,haiyounigaobudiandeshi?”hongyizhuangkuangwang:“heng,taniu,yeyoubitagengniude。”liuxinnairenxunweidida:“duia,sheidoubieniuguodule,renwaiyouren,tianwaiyoutianma。”hongyileng,bantianbuhangsheng,shayudequanguochengbianchengyingshengshengderenshengdaoluquanyu……
pingjia:zigu“shagouquanfu”dexijubiaoyan,liuxinjinjinmingzhengyanshundiquanjielaogongshoulianxingguangmang。nanrenzaidingfengshifeichangrongyixingbianshizhen,shuobailejiaoaoziman,bijiehouyizheng。liuxinzhishayuyizhaokanqilaijidongrenxin,shijishangyihuankouyihuan,mudexingjiqiang,zai“canburendu”dejingyanjiaoxunzhongdiandaoweizhi,buchoulaogong“wuwang”。
五、当他“分手后”时
anjieshiyijiaqiyedeyewujingli,lianaidingdanxinxishengchanliangdeshuipingbuxunyudangchuzhuiqiuwanmeishalideqianxin、guzhi。shalishuo,gongzuoshitade“cilian”,shitadedierganqingjiyu。genghekuangtaxiaoshouyejiyixiangaoren,shouyihebuweijiejiepansheng。danzhaoliaojiashaoyoushulanzhiyu。zheiyuqishuoquexian,daoburushuoshiqudechenggongzhuangdian。keshizheiduanshijian,anjiequejuede“fenshouhou”le—qixiangukehuiyue,zaishijizhuangzuoshengyibuduancuoshou,zaijiashangzaiqiyederenshidiaozhengzhongbeilinshipaomao,yizhongmingxiandecuobaiganlinganjiexinqingdiluo。shalifenpeileyicishengchenyanhui、2ciduantulvxing,lingjiahepenyouyiqishangtiyuguankaizhanrenaofeifandeyumaoqiu、youyongsai……zaibulushengsezhongjian,shalizhuyaobiaoxiandeduilaogongzaishenghuozhonggengyikao、zaigongzuonenglishanggengqinpei,laogongbeitagoujiandehuanleqiaoqiaodezhanfule,ziwofansishuo:“jiazhongherentiyiyangfeichangzhidetebieguanxin,xifuderenzhen,wofule。”
pingjia:anjiedeqingkuangzainanrenzhongpubianxianxiang,shalidegaochaoshijinshangtianhuashidezhuai。xiaochenzhongdelaogongzuimingan,chudongtadenengliangbianfenwaimiren,lingwai,qianyita“fenshouhou”deshiye,jitamengoujiangongzuoyaliyiwaideqingsongganhemanzugan,yegengshidadongqiruanzhudezuihaofangshi。
六、当他“无法控制”时
anannianguosanshi,zhujiandaijuanlepingjingdeshenghuo,xingziyitiantianjianzhang,kanquandouyanfan。cicipeilaopohuitingyanzouhui,chumenzaiwaiweizhuzhaixiaoquyizhanbufaliangdedaoluludengfandigu,dadeshixianjiashiyuanfangdegequzaoza……quanbuyeliquanshiborandanu,xiehuo“nu”ran。bumingbubaihuidehaoxintaiyizaohuihuai,dantaquchuhongxiaohaidexixin,peitayiqi“daoluan”,laogongshuoyiju,tatianjiju。zhizhijinlejiamenkou,anankonggaodamenkoudezhaomingdengjudianyuankaiguanzhuangdetaigao,huizeguoduanguzuo“dongnu”,shuomingrijiuqingrenchaiqiangchaizhuangzhongzouluxian。laogongyileng,wen:“jinineimebukaixinma?”huiyixiao:“danfannibukaixinde,bianshiwoxiangdadaode。”laogongdongle,laopobuguoshiyiqirenzhidaohaizhiqirenzhisheneryi。dazheiciyanzouhuihou,anantishigailiuyiguanlizijile。
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