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 woyiweipenyouw，fenshouhouhoumeilisishe。yuanben，tazaoyifeichangyounanshifengcai，danfenshouhouhouzheileifengcaihaoxianggengshangyicenglou，changchangjiangqiaoyudenvhaierdiandeyilengyilengde。

nvpengyoushuo，tazheishihoubuduanzaishifangzhexingyouhuodexinxineirong，tashitadefengcailaiyuanyu。

wopanduanlishangganjuebingbushizheiyangzi，danzheijiujingshishenmeyuanyinni?woyishiyeyoudianeryihuo。

 yegengshizainaertian，zaiwozhuchirendeyigexingquxiaozushang，dangyigenvxueshenggongxiangletadeganshoushi，worenweizishenbuhuoleyidianhuida。

 cicixuexipeixun，shirangnvxueshengmengongxiang，naxiedenanrenrangtamenbodianhua，neiyangdenanrenhetamendebabayounaxielianluo。shangyizhou，bujiurangnanxueshengmengongxiangle，naxiedenvrenhuirangtamenbodianhua，erneiyangdenvrenyouhetamendemamayounaxielianluo。

yimingnvxueshengshuo，e，taconglaimeiyouduinanrenlaichudian。

 zheibutaikeneng，wojiang，ni30henduonianderenshengdaoluzhongconglaimeiyouduinanrenlaichudian?kendingbushizheiyimoyang，haohaodixiangyixiang。

 queshimeiyouguo，dantayibianshuoyibianxianruchensi，turanjiantaxiangxiangdaolenaxieyiyangshuo，aiyo，taqueshilaiguojihuidian，danshi，tahuibabodianhuadejuedekuaisuchuimie，yinci zaitadejiyilihaoxiangtaconglaimeiyoubeinanrenxiyinzhuguoyiyang。

woxunwenta，weiheweilaidiandejuedemashangchuimieni?

 tahuiyingshuo，bodianhuadejuedetaikepale，neishihoutahuijiqizaiyilingyifang，wushiwukedouhuidianjizhelingyifangdeyijuyidong，zishendehuanlehetongchudoubeilingyifangjiusuanbudadexingweiyinran，bingbiandadaowanmei，tahuiganjuezishenyixiazixiaorongle，buhuiyoule。

yinci ，takendingbubibodianhuadejuede。

 tingtaneiyangjiangshi，woyishunjianganwudao，zheiyeshitamamadetihui，erzheiyeshitamamaweihejishinianruyirididihui、jingongtababadezhijieyuanyin。

 duitamenmunvlianglaijiang，mishangyigenanrendejuedetaikepale，yinci tamenzaitanlianaishi，huitiaoxuanmeiyoushenmejuededenanren。keshi，jiusuanmeiyoushenmejuededenanren，jiarujiaowangjiule，yehuichuxianqingyichuxian，erqingyijidaibiaozheneileikongbujuededepumianerlai，yinci ，tahetademama，doushihuizaizheishihoukekelaogong，chixuzhizetamendebugou。genjuzheileizhize，tamenbudanzaihunyinguanxizhongdedao leyizhongyoudianyingxiangli，bingqiehaijiangzishenxinlibenyongzhedeqingyieshale，neibanjiukeyiduobiqingyichanshengdezishenxiaorongdekongbugan。

 zishenxiaorongdekongbugan，wohaizaiyiqiandewenzhangneirongduguo，jiarunimeiyoujingliguo，neimaninengxiangxiang，nishiyigejiqidanxinzuoguoshanchederen，danniyijingquanshijieqifujiaoda dechuizhiguoshancheshang，bingqieshifukanzhe，suihouchuizhiguoshanchejiangyihenkuaidesulvwangxiachong……

 zheiyidianhaikeyituokuandaoyiqielianaiguanxishang，fuqiliangchangchangzhengchao，huoxianghumiaoshishenzhijingong，henyoukenengdoushiyouneiyangyigezuoyong——bimian quai。

 zheishihou，wohaoxiangdonglewdefengcailaiyuanyu，danneiyikedegaoqingchunanyiyongyuyanmiaoshu，zhizhiwoturanjianxiangdaolezishendeyiduanxiaogushi，caiwanquandonglezheiyiqie。

dajiaweijuyixinyiyideai

 neishiyueduqinei，yiduanlianaiguanxigaoyiduanluo，yizhonghendangrandewanbi，bingbushiwoyutabuenai，zhishiyouyukeguanyinsu，jiuneimagaoyiduanluo。

 wanbihoudeshijitianli，wochajuezijishenxianyizhongguaiyideqingkuang，fangfozishendemuguangcishengdiyiciduinvhaieryongyouyizhongpohuaili。haojihui，wozouzaixiaoyuanlizouzaijieshang，wodemuguanghuaguozhoubianderen，huichuxianyigenvhaibeidiandeshazaineili。

 wojinyoushijitianyouzheileimuguang，yinci neishihoumeixiangzheigeshishenme。dancicigongzuozuxuexipeixunshi，youyuxiangdaowdexiaogushi，yeyouzheimingnvxueshengdegongxiang，wozaiduganshouwoneishihoudeqingxu，fajueleneishihoudefengcaishisha。

 neishiyizhongshiluo，lingwaiyeshiyizhongqipan，danshiluozaixian，erqipanhoumian，jutideyisishi：“wobuzaixiangxinaiqing，ganqingyaowoshiluo，danwojiushiaini，niganma?”

 dajiaxinlidoushenzangzheneiyangdeniantou，danpingchangdajiajimeiyoulijiquaideyongqi，duiaideshiluodoumeiyouhenshendeganwu，keshiwoneishihoudemuguangheshense，huoshigengjingqueshuochengquanbudexingmingqingkuang，huimashangchupengdaoyixingpengyouxinlingshenchudezheierzhongwupin，bingqiewochuzaiyizhongjiduanhuaqingkuang，yinci huiyixiazijiangtamenxinlidezheierzhongxiangshengyinran——“aishibutaikenengde，danwoqidaiai”，yinciwohaoxiangyongyoufeichangdadeyouhuoliyiyang。

 zhihou，woqingkuangxiufu，xinlizaiciduiaiyongyouzixinxin，huazhenqingganzixunkaobukaopu？bingqieganjueshihenshendezixinxin，yongyouneiyangdezixinxin，buguanxingmingzaoshounaxiedeyanlidaji，douburongyijuezhongduiaideqipan，danzheileiduiyixingpengyoudefengcaifandaoxiaoshile。

meiguolingqikangfushiananduozaitadejingdianzhuzuo《duishengmingshuoshi》zhongyetidaolezheiyidian，tashuhushishuo：

 youlianggenanrenlingwaiaizheni，yigeshichengxinchengyideai，yigeshikuangfangbujideai，nitiaoxuannayige?xiangxinziji，ninengtiaoxuanhoumianyizhong，woshizheiyangderende。

 ananduonianqingdeshihoushichaojimeinv，fuyoucaihua，jiatingqingkuangyehenhao，danzheiyiqiebingbukeyibimian tayeshiyouneiyangdexinli——“aishibutaikenengde，danwoqidaiai。”

 dangyigenvrenyouneiyangdexinlishi，nanrenchengxinchengyideai，zongshidazhongtaxinlidezheiyibufen——“woqidaiai”，erbukeyidazhongtaxinlideneiyibufen——“aishibutaikenengde”，zheifandaohuirangtahenbushihe。

zuixian，tahuibuxiguan，tahuiganjuetaishiwufakongzhile，e，zheigeshizhendema?yigenanrenqueshihuiyixinyiyishuoaiwo?

cizhi，tahuijuededaojidadegongzuoyali，tahuixiang，zishenduideqishangzheizhongaima，zishenyouneimahaome?

zuizhong，tahenyoukenenghuichuxianwoneimingnvxueshengdetihui，bodianhua，yejiushishuoaidezhengzhao，huirangtazishenyishunjianbenkui。

 zheileibenkui，shizishenxubaozishendebenkui。dajiaxinlingshenchudoushiyou“wobuzhideai”dezibeixinli，erdangershidedao deaiqueshifeichangshaoshi，zheileizibeixinlihuifazhanqushichengjidademeiyouanquanganhuohaipa，weilegenghaodifangyulizheileimeiyouanquanganhuohaipademaochu，dajiahuichanshengzhuduozishenziwofangyujizhi，yizhitamendemaochu。keshi，ai，wulunshiquaihuanshishenai，qiqiantitiaojianquanshiyaotishengzheileizishenziwofangyujizhi，neishihoubianhuiyixiazibeimeiyouanquanganhuokongjuxinliweigong，fandaohuiganjuehaipa。

 zheishihou，dajiahuijuedezhenailingzishenhaipa，erfeichangshaoxiangqi，shizishenxinliyuanbenjiuhuiyouzheibanshendehaipa。aiyuanbenshinenggouyizhizheileikongjuxinlide，dandajiahuiyouyudanxinzheileikongjuxinli，erlaolaodidihuaizhezishendezishenziwofangyujizhibufangshou，jieguoainanyijindaobingzirundajiadexin。

 youyuneiyangdexinli，dajiadoushenxianleyizhongguaiquan，enai，danaihaoxiangtaichenzhong，yinci zuihaoshiyikaishixianghujiulejietashiyichangbukenengdeai，neishihoufandaohuiaidehenzijintouru，danshizaizijintourushiyehuiyizaiganshouaideshiluogan，kanshangqujiuhaoxiangduiaideshiluoganchengyinyiyang。

 xuduo dianyingzhongdejingdianshexiangjingtou，quanshizaihanchanglinlidigoulezheizhongganjue。liru《zhizhuxia3》zhong，dangbianfuxiaganjueyunvpengyoudeaishenxianshiluoshi，tabeiheizhizhufuti，ranhoutayongyoubufandenanshifengcai，zaijieshangheyedianlijiangqiaoyudenvrenmendiandeyuntouyunnao。

 heizhizhu，zhiqianworenweishigongjinenglidedaibiao，danrujinwojuede，zheiyeshishiluodehuashenwei，fajueyunvpengyoudeguanlianhaoxiangbukaopule，bianfuxiashenxianyizhongshiluogan，ranhoutadenanshifengcaifandaobeichongzujiqichuqu。