nijiandaodezhuangkuangshi,nvrenyouqihuizuo,youqihuimaimeng,nanrenjiuguanhuaibeizhidiweizhuzhuan,mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu,jitataoqian,meitianhuafeigezhonggeyangxiaoxinsirangtakaixingaoxing,niyouqixianmujidu,zaihuitouqiaoqiaozishenneibule(cun)qi(zai)denanpengyou,keshinixuyaolejie,zheileizuoyeshiyouchengbende。
晓听我详尽道来。
“zuo”yiweizhedeshiyiziwoweizhongxin,er“tinghua”yiweizheyinanrenweiguanlizhongxin。
renkedeshi,yige“shanren”tongchangshiganqingzhongdekuaichuanpaohui。
lirunanrenxiangnila,yigedianhuadarangni,niyejiupidianpidiandadeyiwang,shijianzhangletayagenburongyizhongshini,hushinizijidefanganheshijian,jinisuishidaiming,zuobudaohaiguaini。tashizuicuqiandeshili,zhihushangdeyueduzheyingdangdougaoqingchuzheiyidiande。
yinci dajiatiyinvrenyaobitchyidian,yejiushishuoyaozuoyidian。zheileitiyiyouhenduo,youdeshulihuiquanbenzhengdangdixiezheizhongwupin,suiyijuhaoduogeshili:
不必:
bubirangnanrenyiyanjiukantouni,yaojitazhuomobutoudejuede,kendingbukeyirangtamenyijuhuajiujiangnixushuwanhou。nixuyaozhuomobutou,bukeyisuishidaiming,yaoshitatizaoyuding。
nibuyaobaogaonidouzuolenaxie,jiarutawen,ninengjianduanshuoshuo,bubishiwudaxiaoshuoqilaibuting。
bubiwennanren:nizenmebubangwotongdianhua?huoshi:niganshaqule?gengbubizhugepenyoutongdianhuazhaota。
bubijietaqian,bubibangtabaituoexjitamendeheiying,shitazishenjinxingzheizhong。
索取:
xuehaoyongmaimengsuoquchongni,shitabangnikaipinggai,bangnibanjiaju,bangnichuxiangfa,bangnijiejuekunnan,yaoxiangtamaimeng,“zenmeyangma”,“nizuihaole”,“bierenyaoxiangzheiyima”。bangzhulezaihetashuodao:“zhenbang”,“younizhenxingfu”。
zhengqueyindaotahongren“niyoumeiyouxiangwoya”,“neimenikuaidaiwochimeiweide”。
shitazhuomobutounidexintaizhuanbian,chennu,shangxin,jiduanhuawuqizhuangbei——ku。quanshiweilegenghaodishitahongren。
keshizheiyizuoshiwubiyouchengdude。rutongkaishichangshuo,nijiandaoyuezuoyueshouchong,keshinisuobuqingchudeshi,nanrenzaichixukaolvnvrende【zuo】deqingkuangxia,shifeichangleide。youshihouzuoyixia,xiaohaotadiansixu,shitalaiquyueni,quyueniyihounizaijitamenyidianjiangshang,neileijuedeniliangdouxiai。nixihuandeshitalaiquyueniquhongren,taxihuandeshitahongrengaoxinghuodelechongzudehaowuyiwen。
liuyi,shangbianneiyiduanhuayoulianggeguanjiandian:
关键点一:有时候。
nibunengmeitianzuo,meishimeikemaimeng,zishenquandoubugan。“laogong,nilaizhufanbei,bierenxiangchinizuodemeiweide。”“laogong,nilaishuawanbei,bierenchidehaochengma,douguainizuodetaimeiweile。”“laogong,nibangwoxxxxxx”“laogong,ninengbunengxxxxxxx”
zheizhongyujusuiyilinchuquyijuquanshifeichanghaoyongde,nanrentingzhewenxin,keshinibunengbamaimengdangquannengle,bubirenweizishenzuibiansagejiaojiukeyi,jiuquandouwuxuzuo,suihouzaikuayikualaogong,nimeitianneimegan,jiufangfoqiyelibianzongshigenlingdaoganbuayufengchengnaxiejutidehuoyebugandezhigong,meiyourenduiniyouganjue,lingdaoganbuyongbushangduozhangshijianbianhuilejienidezhenzhengshuizhun。
关键点二:奖赏。
guohouduitachongzudekendingshiquebaonanrenxiayicihaixiangyaoquyuenihongrendeyagen。tabangnijiejuelenanti,yidingshuoqi“nitailihaile!”naizhiguangshuohaibugou,ninengjitamenchuishifenzhongbei,huobangtazuoyizhuojiachangcai,huochuanshangtaxiaidegongzuozhifu,zixiaojiangshangdaodajiangshangdounenggou。keshidabufennvrendenantishi,nanrendiyicikaolvtamen,tamenkuayikua,diercikaolv,youkua,disanci,….,dincikaolvdeqingkuangxia,tamenzaoyibazheigeshizuolisuoyingdangdele。nanrenyoushihouyibuzuo,fandaogangkaishizuo:nibianle,shibushinibuaiwole,zhiqiannibingbushineiyang。zaibijiaoyanzhongyidiande,weilegenghaodizhengshi“laomahuanshiyoufengcaide,laomahuanshiyouxierenyaode”dangzhongquzhaoqitanandenuanwei,youyiqizishendenanpengyou。。。hehehe,wonengchengdanzerendiduinishuo:youtryyoudie.
nihuoxuhuiganjue:womeidiea,wofandaofajuetagangkaishijiaolvbuanwoleni!neileijuedezhenhaokan!
keshi,zheileishier,nanrenyibianjiaolvbuanni,yibiangengqiangzhuyaobiaoxian,neixinyibianganjuelei。youshihoujihuidaobuhuilei,pinciyiduo,pilaoganjiujileiqilaile,pilaoganyiqilai,jiugangkaishicaiyi:“wozheidaodishitugesha?”“haibibushangzishenguoni。”“rujinjiushizheiyang,zhihouwanhungaizenmeban?jishinianyizhineiyangwokeshoubule。”
shijianyizhang,taduinitaileile,niyejiuhuifajue,niyidalian,takanqilaihaoxiangqueshixintengnileyidian,keshixunsu,jiuxiufulebuzaiyinideqingkuang。nichixudalian,tayuelaiyueyulaiyufama,nifajueshenghuochengbuxiaqule,gangkaishiyongtichufenshoulaizuodasi,tayougangkaishijiaolvbuan,gangkaishiwanliu,keshifantiaohuibuzaiyinideqingkuangdesulvbiandeyuelaiyuekuai,zuizhongnacinidalianmeizuohao,tajiumanzuleni,yibuwanliule。
suoyishuo,xiaozuoyiqingyangxing,shouyoudazuoshangshenti。niyoushihouxiaozuoyixia,erqiejishizhisun,dequekeyijiqinggannuanchang,keshinijiandaodezheixieshouyoudazuodenvdezaoshoudatengxide,neidoubingbushipingwenqingkuang,quanshibukechixufazhanguande,tamenyibianshouyoudazuo,tamendenanpengyouyibianzaixinzhongduijianglaidezixinxinchixujiangdi。
nihuoxuyaoshuo:erwojiandaodequeyoudenvhaiyizhizuo,nanpengyoujiuyizhihong,zuizhongyechenggongjielehunya!
nanrenhenanrenbuyiyang。youdenanrenjiexianbuqiang,renshilanhaoren,benshenbuhuishoudaonvrenreliehuanying,buxiangshiqunizheixie,zongeryanzhijiushitadequeqiangrenleijiqilaidepijuanrenlehaozhangshijian,naizhirenlaidaojiehunhou,naizhijiehunhouyourenlehenduonian。keshi,youyitian,dangtafajuezaiyiqidepijuanzaoyichaoguoshiqulenidehaipadeqingkuangxia,taduifunideqingkuangxiajiulaidao。
jiehunhoudenanrenruheduifu?
自然是出轨了。
erjianqingzheileizhuangkuangkaodebianshitinghua。nitinghua,niyejiunenggoujiangdinanrendepilaogan。zheidadaolishinanhaihenvhaihutongde。yigetiexindenanrenhuijiniganjueshifangyalihewenxin,yiyang,nidetinghua,nide“shanren”,yehuishitajuedeshifangyalihewenxin。
tinghuazhuyaobiaoxianzai,nilejienanrenmangqilaishizhenmang,ninengjitamenchongzudeshijianhekongjian。nikendingbuhuimeitianchazhengtadaonaqu,burongyimeishimeiketongdianhuajianguanta,burongyiyouyutabulijihuinierfahuo,burongyiwuyuanwugudixiwangtajilaozheixieguaiyidejieri,burongyiyaotarangnimaitajingjifazhanshangyaliqilaiyixiefeijingdewupin,zheileiyeyouxuduo ,zuizuizhongyaodeshi,nikendingbuhuibatashishikekedegerenxingweihezhuyaobiaoxiandouhetayouduoainilianluoqilai。
(daliandezhendibianshi……tingguoyangchenglinde《zuobian》ma?libianyouyiju:niweicengfaxian,niyizhiyongyoushounazhewo,dannixinquezhandongzaizuobian……kebukeyigengzuoyidian!)
keshiyiyang,zheilei“shanren”yeshiyouchengdude。ninengweitazhufan,weitazhenglifangjian,bangtaxichuangdan,peitawanyouxihuoshiqingjingdishitawanyouxi。keshinimeiribianshizheiyixieshi,yitiandaowanzhufanxichuangdanshoushiwuzi,zhenshijiubianchengletaniang。tawaichunizaidanshiwen,niyejiuyuelaiyueyidianyouyueganyemeiyou,liantadouganjueniwuguanjinyao,yincitagangkaishiganjueniwuqu,tazainishenbianyedaibuxialai。zuicaogaodeyidianbianshi,tongchangzheileidangtemenvrenzaineimezuodeqingkuangxia,xinlishibukaixinde,tamenshitianmanmaiyuande,tamenganjuezishendeqingchunnianshaobeixiaohaozaizheileishiershang,ernanrenyidianganxieyemeiyou,lingwaitamendenanrenxiangdequeshi:nibuxiangzuoninengbuzuoa,sheibiniganle。keshitongchangtamenzishenbizijizuo,huoshitamenyibuzuo,nanrenyimaiyuan,tamenjiulaolaoshishizaicijiawulaodonglaidao。zheijiubianchenglanhaoren。
ruguowomenhuanyigejiaodu,zheilianggedingyihuigengweiqingxi:
“zuo”he“tinghua”chedibumaodun。
zuoyiweizhedeshiwoyaonibiaoshuchuzishendeyaoqiu,kaishezishendejiexian。
jiarujinijiexian,niyejiubingbushiyigelanhaoren,niyejiuburongyimeiyouliyouditouruhaitianmanmaiyuan,niyejiuburongyiyitiandaowannianzhetachaqinchadianhua。
jiarujinijiexian,niyejiuyongyouzishenderichangshenghuo,youzishendeyouxiyulehekuaile,dannishigongxiangzheizhongkuailerangninanrende,bingbushiyoutazaicaiyoukuaile。
jiarujinijiexian,niyaoganxiangtabiaoshuchunidetihui,niyizhizaixinhandeqingkuangxiayaoganduitashuo,erbushimenzaixinlileijiyuanhen。niyeyaoganlijigaozhitazenmezuocaihuijinigaoxing。
tinghuayiweizhedeshininengbunenglejietadeyaoqiu。
jiarunitinghua,niyejiugaoqingchutayoulixiang,erqiexiangyaobangtashixianlixiang。
jiarunitinghua,ninengzuoshitakaixindeshiqing,liruyoushihoujitamenzhufan,huoshichuangbianjitamendianyiwaijingxi。
jiarunitinghua,niyejiugaoqingchutadexiaoliao,mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu,lejietaleideqingkuangxia,keyihetajingshenshizhishangzuodaogongzhen。
niyaoxiangdenanrenshiyigeyouyizhongdehaonanren。
yiyang,nanrenyaoxiangdenvren,shiyigeyouzishenjiexiandehaonvren。
youxierenwen:weishatinghuayoujiexian,danwonanpengyouhuanshiyuwofenlezhaoleyigezuobini?
缘故很繁杂……
youkenengshirongmaoshenxingshangde,lirutaxiaishourendannipang,taxiaidayuanliandannisheyao。
yeshiyouhenyoukenengnibitagao,bitanianlingda,tajienabushang。
yeshiyoukenengshixingqingshangde,lirutashoubulenixinshuibitagaosuichubitaqiang,tayaoxiangbeiqinpeidanniyaoxianggongping。
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