广州花镇情感公司靠谱吗？我们到底为什么会爱上另一个人？

 zaiwomenbeixunwendaoxiaihuoshiaiwomenrujindeairendeyuangushi，henduorendoushihuiyiliankelianerqieshouzuwucuodeshuo：“wobuzhidaoshizenmehuishini。”keshiniyaoxixinxiangyixiang，weiherenhaimangmang，weihezainilejiedeneimeduorenqunzhong，nipianyaohuitiaoxuangennideairenzaiyiqini?guangzhouhuazhenqinggangongsikaopuma？

meiguohaolaiwuaiqingpiangaozhidajiashuo：“zhenzhengdeaiqingmangmugenfengde”

 keshixinlixuezhuanjiaduinishuo：“ganqingbudanbingbushimangmugenfengde，bingqieshishifenkeyibiaoshude。”xiangtingguodezuibaqiceloudeyijuxinlixuezhuanjiashuoguodehuabianshi：“genwoshuoniaishei，woyenengduinishuonishisheiya。”

jinrigenniyongzuikexueyanjiudexinlixueyuanlibiaoming，dajiadaodishizenmehuimishanglingyigeren。

dajiadaodizenmehuiaishangyigeren

1.大家每一个人都期待见到客观性的见到自身在这个全世界存有

 nathanielbrandenzhuanjiajiaoshou，yingguozuijiechudekexueyanjiuzizunxin(self-esteem)dexinlixuezhuanjia，shineiyangbiaoshude：rutongdajiajiandaoquanbuwupinyiyang，dajiaqidai“jiandao”zishenyeshizhenzhengcunyouzaizheigequanshijiede。zheiyi“zhenzhengcunyou”dehuaxuewuzhifangshidajiafeichangrongyijiandao，youyudajiazhibixuzhaojingjiuhaole。dajiawangwangneimaxiaikanjingzhongdezishen，henzhongyaodeyigeyuangushi：yushijingzinenggoushiwomenzaiguannianfangmianganshoudaozishendekeguanxianshi。

 keshiyouyibufendezishenshiwomenwufaliji“jiandao”de，zheiyiyibufenbianshidajiadeshengming。dajiadeguannian、jiazhiguannian、xinnianzheixiewupinnenggouzaimouzhongyiyishanggenjudajiasuohuodedezaojiuhuodefanying，lirudajiahuadeyifuhuahuoshishejifangandeyidonggongchengjianzhu，keshidajiadequanbushengmingquemeifazaizheishijiezhongyishitixiandefangshichengxianchuqu，tashishiwomenshifenzaodongbuandeshier。

neidajiadeshengmingyaozenmecainengxiangbiedezhenzhengcunyoudehuaxuewuzhiyiyangbei“kandao”ni?

 jinyougenjulingyigegendajiayiyangyoumudecunyouderen!zheigerenjiarukeyi“kandao”dajiadeshengming，erqiegenjugendajiadehudongjiaoliu，batamenyanlikandaodeshengmingfanshemianrangwomen，dajiajiulejiezishendeshengmingyeshixiangquanbubiedezhenzhengcunyoudewujianyiyangshinenggoubeikandaodele。yejiushishuo，taren，rutongyimianjingziyiyang，nenggouzhaodaodajiadeshengming。erdajiabixuneiyangdeyushijingzi，caikeyijiandaozishendeshengming，zhenzhengdecunyouyuzheishijie，rutongdajiazhaojingdeqingkuangxialejiezishenderentishizhenzhengcunyoudeyiyang。

2.心理状态由此可见性标准

 nathanielbrandenzhuanjiajiaoshouqiangdiao，dajiawangwanghuizhangjiudeaishangyigeren(duanzanxingdesuanbushang，youyuduanzanxingdehenyoukenengshiyouyuyixiebuzhengquedeyuangu)，shizhishangshiyouyutamingquetichude“xinlizhuangtaiyoucikejianxingbiaozhun”。rutongyimianjingziyiyang，jiarunideshengmingzhenshidebeiyigerenkandao，niyejiuhuimishangzheigeren。ruguonifajue，jiarutarenkandajiademuguanggendajiaxinlingshenchuzuizhenshidezijiduizishendeguandianshiyizhide，erqietamengenjutamenduidajiadeyantanjuzhi，zhuyaobiaoxianchudajiadezheileilejie，dajiabianhuiyouyizhongshenshendidebei“kandao”dejuede。

 jugeshili。zuixiandajiajiadingjinixiangduixingwanshandexinlizhuangtaihejiaoweiqiadangdeziworenshi，suihounijuedezishenshiyigekailang、xinggekailang、duirichangshenghuochongmanjiqing、yingyongerqieshifenzixinderen。cikenipengdaoleyigexiaoji、fengbishi、meiyoujiqingerqieshifenbuzixinderen。tahuijiangnidexinxinshizuoshiyizhongjingong，erqieduiniquanbushuodehuahezuodeshierdeyongyizaochengcaiyi，zongganjuenixuyaokongzhita，zheigeshihouninengshishatihuini?nihenyoukenengganjueyihuo、yihuoerqiebeishenshendidewujiehebubeilijie。huanyizhongzhuangkuang，ruguonishifenxinxindebiaoshuzishen，suihoulingyigerenmashanglejielenidexinxinhetanran，duinihuixinyixiaoshi，tarangnidetihuiyoushishenmeni?ninengganjuezishenbeita“jiandao”le。zhei，bianshidajiachangshuodebeikandaodejuede。

haiyouyigedajiahuilianrenlingyigerendeguanjianyuangu：genjuaizheni，wokanjianlezishen。

 zaiwomenpengdaoyigexiangdajiasuogan，fajuedajiasuofajuede，zhenxidajiasuozhenxide，zaibuyiyangdeqingkuangxiadefanyingyegendajiatongyangderenshi，dajiabudanhuiganshoudaoyizhongmingxiandeqinqiegan，bingqiehuijuededaogenjuzheigeren，dajiakandaolezishen。ruguonifajuequanbujiedingnishisheiyadezheixiexinnian、jiazhiguannian、zhiliang、tedianhegerenxingweihuizailingyirendeshenshangdouzhuyaobiaoxianchuqushi，ninengyouzaitadeshenshangzhongrenchulaile“zishen”dejuede。zheiyeshiweishenmedajiazhaoxunzaishizhishanggenzishenleisideren(dajiahuizaihoumiantidaohuxiangxiyinzhudexiangfuxiangchengzheigewenti)。

 zaijugeshili，jiadingnishiyigeduigaozizunxin、ganjuemeiyigerendoutianmanwujintezhi、ganjuezishenderenshengdaolutianmanwuxianqiannengerqiejuedezheishijiehuiduinideqinfen，jinenghecaiqizuochuhuiyingderen。ruguonipengdaoleyigeyiyangjuedezheishijieshiyigehuiduitadequanbuqinfen、jinenghecaiqizuochuhuiying、gaozizunxin、erqiejianxinzijidewujingailvderenshi，niyoujuyizhongzhongxindeshangxi，erqietadeyijuyidongdoushihuitishiniziji：zheizhongtadeshenshangde，quanshiwofeichangaixideguanyuwomenzishende。

3.心理状态由此可见性和自身探寻

 shijishangdajiadexinlizhuangtaiyoucikejianxingyizhiyouyigeshuipingnanti。congdajiadeershigangkaishi，dajiabianyizhimanmandegenjuyutarendehudongjiaoliuzhongbuduangengweirenshiziji。meiyigehaizidouduoduoshaoshaodezaijiazhonglibei“kandao”，youyumeibeikandaodexiaohaishimeibanfacunhuoxialaide。keshiyouchengqianshangwandexiaohai，youyuzaijiazhonglidebubeikandaoerdaozhitamenzaichengnianrenyihoudehunyinguanxizhongyizhiganjuebuanquanhuoshiganjuezishenbugou。

 xinlizhuangtaiyoucikejianxingshijishangshidakailedajiazishentanxundedamenkou。womenzaigezhonggeyangyubierendehudongjiaoliuzhongchixudejiazhongduizishendeziworenshi，keshimeishenmebihunyinguanxigengnengtishengdajiadeziworenzhile。zaiyiduandajiabeizhenshikandaodehunyinguanxizhong，dajiahuichixudechajuezijiyiqianyemeiyouyishidao，huoshishidouhaimeiluchushuimiandezishen—zheixiedajiameiyoufajuegongzuonengli，dajiamaifuqilaidefazhanqianli，zheixiedajiaconglaimeiyouxianzhudebiaoxianchulaidexingqingtexingzheixie。

 jugeshili。guangzhouhuazhenqinggangongsikaopuma？lirunideairenshiyigebinigengqiangdegenzishenderentihezishendexintailianjiezaiyiqideren，neimahetazaiyiqideqingkuangxia，niyehuibuzijuedequtanxunnigenzishenrentihezishenxintaidelianjie;zailirunideairenshiyigehendangrandebiaoshuzishenxinlidexiaohaideren，ernishiyigexinlixiaohaizizaoshouyizhideren，jiarunideairenduinishuo：qinaidede，wokandaolenineixindenagexiaohai，erqiejilinibiaoxianchulai，nihenyoukenengjiukeyijiangniyuanxianbiaoshubuchulaidenagexiaohaibiaoxianchulai。

 wanshandehunyinguanxizhongzuimeihaodeshiqingzhiyi，bianshiruguonidouhuicaiyizishenshi，nideairengennishuo：qinaidede，qingbuyaozhuangzuoniyongyuanbuzhidaoninengbaozheng，niyaozuohaoziji!

 wohaijidezaiwozuichuyouyongkedeqingkuangxia，meiyiciyou2000mishiyijianshifenrangrenjupadeshier，keshijiuyouyigexiaohuobanmenzaiwoshifencaiyizishendeqingkuangxiagaosuwo：“joy，biezhuangzuonibunengbaozheng，yinweininenggou。”neiyiketakandaolewohaimeiyoujiandaodezishen，wofaxianlewoqueshinenggou。neiyike，bawokandaole。

zaiaizhenizhizhong，wopengdaolezishen

zheijiushiwomenzenmehuizhangqidemishanglingyigerenerqieyizhigenzheigerenxianghenizaiyiqizhongdeyigeguanjiandeyuangu。

youyuzainiyanli，wokanjianlewoyanlidezishen;

youyuzainineili，wokandaolezijideshenying;

youyunizhenshidekandaowo，erqiechixurangwofaxianlexindezishen;