花镇情感靠谱吗？吵架学会这几点想分开都难

 henduorenduizhengchaodoubaoyoupaichiderenzhinengli，juedeqinglvzhijianzhengchaobianshiganqingbuhedezhuyaobiaoxian，huazhenqinggankaopuma？henduorenjiyijieliuyanbanliuyandeqingkuangxiadoushuo，jinguanzuizhongfenshoudeyuanyinbingbushizhengchao，danzuizhongjiangchutichufenshouqueshiyouyuzhengchao。

 shijishangliangrenchuduixiangbingbushiyiweizhuiqiuwanmeibiaocengningjing，zhishidaizhuzhenxinshiyihedanliangquxianghudamopaoguang，chixujiehe，zheiyiquanguochengyidingshidongtaixingde，bingbushijingzhibudongbuhuigaibiande。

 yinci ，zhengchaoshishifengengyouyiyideyizhonggoutongfangshi，keshixuduo lianrenquezaiyongbuzhengquedezhengchaofangfa，rangzhengchaobianchenglefaxiexinlidefumianqingxu，zheiyeshidaozhidajiayuechaoyuexiongdeyuangu。

neima，jinriyijiejiuyuniliaoyiliao，ruhechaojia，nengrangdajiaqinggangengqiang

01大家怎么会争吵

 zai《feibaoligoutong》zhongtiji，dangdajiazhengzhideqingkuangxia，shijishangshiyouyuzaiqizhongyigerendezhuiqiumeiyouhuodekaolv，xintaimeiyoubeilejie。

 eryouyouyuwoguodezhonghuachuantongwenhua，rangdajiazaibiaoshuzishenyaoqiushishifendewanzhuan，zuidianxingxingdebianshi，nvyouxiwangnizengjitayigesongshenmeliwu，tahuoxuburongyizhijieshuotayaoshenme，zhishikanfadeanshizheni“xiangyixiang，jintianshashenghuo?”，“wopengyoutananpengyouxiangtalangmanqiuhunle，haimailaitazuiyaoxiangdehuazhuangtai”

jieguoni，nanhaizitingchulenvhaideanshizhe，yejinvhaimailaiyigehuazhuangtai，keshinvhaizhenshiyaoxiangdeshishenmeni?

shiyichanglanmandelangmanqiuhun。

 huazhenqinggankaopuma？bunengshuonanhaizitaiguogangtiezhinan，jinjinjingquedejiangjielingyifangdezhenzhengyaoqiu，jibian shijiaowanghenduoniandefufu，yebuyidingnengyouneiyangdegongzuonenglihexinyoulingxi。

dangnvshengxiangyaodelangmanqiuhunyaoqiumeiyoubeikaolvdeqingkuangxia，bianshizhengzhichanshengdeqingkuangxiale。

neimazuoweitingdeyifang，yidingyaolejie，dangtabaoyuandeshenhouquanshiyouyaoqiude。

liru，dangtashuo“nizenmeneimeyiziwoweizhongxinni?”shenhoudeyaoqiushi“xiwangnikeyiduokaolvdaoxiawodeganshou”

huoshi“niguoduanhegongzuozhongwanhunsuanleba!”shijishangshenhouyaoqiushi“niweishenmebukeyiduochouchulaixieshijianpeizhewo?”

yinci ，danghelingyifangzhengzhideqingkuangxia，xianbubijizhequbianbo，xiangyixianglingyifangyounacengmiandeyaoqiumeiyoubeikaolv。

02怎样提升争吵的全过程?

钱钟书先生说过:

 fuqizhijianlianghaodezhengzhishishijiezuitaorenxihuandezhanshi，rutongyibajiandaodeeryedaotou，xianghuzhijiankanlaishaqu，danjuebunengshangdaolingyifang，duijuesanbailianjihoujingkekeqiqi。

xiangqianlaoxuexipeixun，dajiabudanyaoyazhidezhengchao，yeyaochulidajiazhongjiandenanti，neiyijieyouliangcengmiandetiyi。

 ruguonishibeimaiyuanfangshi，yidingyaoduolingtinglingyifangdemaiyuan，erqienenggouwenlingyifang“nineixinshizenmexiangde?”“niqidaiwozenmezuo?”neiyangquzhengqueyindaoqingxujidongdeyifangshulizishendezhenshiyaoqiudian，erbushijizhequbianbolingyifangdemaiyuan，rang“zhanshi”beikuoda。

 ruguonishimaiyuanfangshi，zuixiankeguanxingdexushuniguanchadaodegerenxingwei，erbushizhuguanxingdeshiqianzuochufenbian。liru“wofaxianlenijinjitianyizhizaiwanyouxi”erbushi“nijinjitianneimeaiwanyouxi?niyidingshibuaiwole?”

 suihoujiangchutadegerenxingweiduinizaochengdetihuishi，yaoyaoyong“wo”kaishibiaoshu。liru：woganjueshifendefahuo，erbushi“nirangwojuedeshifenfahuo”。

最终，便是忽悠阶段，不但要给另一方洗，也要让你自身洗!

“zhengchaodemudishijiejuekunnan，erbushifaxieqingxu!”zheijuhuayidingyaomingjizaijisuili。