花镇情感靠谱吗？异地恋怎么相处？

 huazhenqinggankaopuma？waidishizuimoliantanlianaideyaosu，meiyouzhiyi。suiranjulichanshengmei，danzhangqidejianjufeichangrongyirangxingfuxiaohaodaijin，youyujianjujingchanghuidaozhijiedi，zaochengxinxineirongbuduideng，rangxianghuchanshengwujie。

 keshi，zheibingbudaibiaozhejianjuyidingshiganqingdemaizangdi，jiuzaiwoshenbianxuduo waidideqinglv，doulijingjianjudemolian。haosijingliguorechuliyiban，qingganzaiwaidicuihuafanyingxia，yuelaiyuegengweijianyi。

 xuduo yiguolianrendaowanbijianjudemolianyihou，doushihuiyouyizhongnannengkeguidetihui，xianghuhuiyuelaiyuefenwaizhenxixianzai。dabufenquanbuwaidiqudechenggongdelianrendoushihuitijizheiyidian：dajiarujinfeichangshaoyouzhengchao，youyuzainayiduanshijianlixianghuzaoyimoheqidechongzujishi，jibian ouyouzhengzhi，yehuilikehehao，youyudajiabushedehuihuaimuqiandexingfukuaile，yincifenwaiguanai。

yushijingliguomolian，gengjiazhenxixianzaidedezhibuyi，woshifenrenkezheiyidadaoli。

 jianyidejieshaoyixiawodeqingkuangba：ershiwusui，nv，chuzhongbiyetanlianai，gaoxiaowaidisinian，biyezhihouwaididabannian，woxiajuexin，yibuhejiazhongrangbu，sheqifenpeidegongzuozhong，haobuyouyudequtadedachengshi!huiyiqilaiyiludiediezhuangzhuangjianzhijianku，dantanlianaizheidongxi，yidanxunzhaoxiaojiqiao，manzuganjiezhongerlai。jibian tanbushangfashaojiwaidicansaixuanshou，danlijingsinianduodepijingzhanji，wojuedezuishaoyinweiwosuandeshangyiyiguoliande“shushou”，huanshiyouxuduotihuixindehegantande。

 yiguolianqueshimeixiangxiangzhongdeneimanan，xuduo qingkuangxiadajiabeijibaide，bingbushipumianerlaidejiannan，zhishineixinlidechiyi、yihuoheyoulv。

 jibian feiyiguolian，yeshiyouganqingmoca，yeshiyoufenqihezhengzhi，zhibuguoshixuduolianrenzongxiguanxingbanantituidaogezhongyinsushanglai——lirujiazhongyaosu，lirusanguanbuhe，zaihuoshidiqunanti……danyiqienantidoubukeyibaituorendeyaosu，yaoshishirendeyaosu，neimanantidoushiyouchulidefangfa，ziranqiantitiaojianshiyingduinanti，butuituodaogezhongyinsu。

yaoshimingbaijiaoda shuipingdeqingchumoshenggan，gaoqingchulianggerendejiaowangfangfa，neiyiguolianbuguoshizhilaohueryi。

【外地如何交往】

 womenbudiaoweikou，lijizhijieledang，zheimeduoniandeyiguolianchenggonganligenwoshuo，xiangrangwaidiqudechenggongbuerdefangfayidingyao：jinjiaoda henyoukenengqingchulianggerenluojisiweidechabie，jibian bukeyichedijiejue，danhaiyaoxuehaolejieqinglvdesisuofangfa，burannanyijianchidaodi。

neimeshuohenyoukenengnanyilejie，yinci womenbenzhezheiyijieguo，zhujianpouxi，yidiandiandebodiaoshenmimianju——

1.什么原因合适异国恋

 yiguolianshigetaoxintaofeidequanguocheng，nvhaimenbietaitianzhen，waidideqiantitiaojianyidingyaoquebaozheiyinanhaiziyongyuanaizheni，duijinichongzuzhongshi，tangruolingyifangnaozilihuayongxin，neimeibiyaozhenxinchengyi。buyinwanhunweimudideyiguolianquanshishuawulai!

 zhenduienaidexianghueryan，yiguoliangengheshideshi：shanyugoutongjiaoliu，chendezhuqi，xiangyaozaiyiduanshijianneiweichijingshenlianai，youchongzuwanqiangxinlizhuangtaiguanniandequnti。

 yiguolianshiyigechuxianyichangkuzaofaweidequanguocheng，benlaiyijingxiangyouqingchunnianshaohelianqing，danyinweijianjudecanren，xianghujiandouhuiyouyizhongwuligan。

 tebieshizaizhenduinvhaimeneryan，zishenjiuyongyou henqiangdeyilaigan，tanlianaizaochengdegenbenyuanyinzhiyishijishangbianshizaizhaoxunqipandeguishugan，kaolvbenshendeyilaigan。danzidatiaoxuanyiguolian，zheizhongxintaidounanyizhenshidehuodekaolv，yinjianjurangyiqiyuelaiyuekewangerbukeji。

 kenixuyaogaoqingchu，tanlianaishizhongbingbushirichangshenghuodesuoyou，jibian niquexinshengmingzhongzuibunengsheqidebianshimuqianjiqixinyangdeai，dantanlianaijiezhuyurichangshenghuo，danbutaikenengcheditianchongsuoyouderichangshenghuo。ruoshichedirangganqinglingjiayurichangshenghuo，neimenijiangfeichangrongyimishifangxiang，jibian feiyiguolian，yefeichangrongyirangganqingchuxianliefeng。

2.男孩和女孩逻辑思维是有差别的

 qingjilao，zheiyidianshiyiguoliandejiben，jiarunibukeyiqingchudeyishidaozheiyidian，neimayiguolianduinieryanshijizhongdeyali。

 lianaizhongdezhengchao，tongchangbingbushibuzukuanrongxianghu，zhishiguannianbushanglingyifangdeluojisiweichedigenzishenmeiyouyigepindaolanmushang——luojisiweichabiezheimeda，chedimeinenglejielingyifangdeyongyi，zenmekenengbuchuxiannantini?

 diquyaosuhuibazheileichayibiandashushibei，zheiyeshixuduo yiguolianrennanyichijiufazhanqushixialaideyuanyin，danguoduorendoumeiyishidaonanti，gengbuyaoshuojiejuekunnanle——yincixuduo houdaihuibayiguoliandangzuoyixiangtiaozhan，danquebuzhidaoludouzoubudui，quanguochengzaijianxinyouyounaxieshijiyiyini?zaiqinfenwangqianyeyagenzoubushangdaodazhana!

 nvhaishimao，nanshixiangquan。gougouwangwangjiao，maohuiwuhuichengjiaoxiao;maojianqixiaoweibashijingxing，goujianqixiaoweibabaidongshiquyue……nanshihenvshengzailuojisiweiyishishangyagenbingbushiyigezhongqun，biaodanenglicha，siweimoshiyebuyiyang，xiangbaituoyiguolianyuyan，yidingyaogaoqingchuzheiyidian!

举个简易的事例：

changjing：yiguolian，nvhaiganmaofashao。

nvhaiduinanpengyoushuo：“qinaideda，wohaonanshoua，woganmaole!”

nanhaiziyibandoushihuishuo：“kuaidianfuyaoa!duohedianreshui!ainimemeda!”

 yudaoguoneiyangdeqingkuangba?yingduinanhaizineiyangdeyuyan，nizhenshiyouxiangchousitadebulizhi——chouxiaozi，nijuededebuquanshikonghuama?wohaibuzhidaojiuyifuyaoshuizhangjue?

 shijishangnvhaimenzuixiangyaodehuiying，yidingshibaokuoguanaide，liru“shayatou，ruhedoubuqingchuzhaoguzijini，benlailejiewobuhuizainipangbian，nineiyangwonenghenxintongde，bangwohaohaodizhaoliaoniang!”

 yinweinanhaihenvhailuojisiweichabiedeyuanyin，feichangshaoyounanhaizihuibaozhengchediqiehenidesixu。yinciwulunzainidebinghuanshipengdaobiedeshidiaokanshi，fandaohuishengyitoubiemen：taruheyidiandoubumingbaiwo，yagenjiuburongyiwenroutitie，shifouyidianbuaiwoa!

 nanxingsiweiguangfanshi“jiejuewentixing”de，zainanhaizilaikan，nideyuandiaokanfalaosaobianshizaiqiuzhu，yincitahuikuaisuyijianfankui“kuaifuyao，duoyinshuiainimemeda”。dannideniantoushijishangshizaixunzhaokuanwei，kaolvzishenyikaodexiaopiqi。

 huazhenqinggankaopuma？bujinshizheiyishilizhongdenanti，suoraoyiguolianqinglvzhijiandexiangjinnantihaoduohaoduo，yinweibumingbaixianghudeniantou，ganqingyexunsubianqian。xuehaohuanweisikaoyixia，nikenengfeichangrongyihuangrandawude。

3.塑造归属感

 jianjufangda，nvhaimenhuiyoulvdenantiyegengjiadeduoleqilai，zuichutanlianaidewoyishiruci，danshirujinhuiyiqilaicaichajuezijiyoudianershenjingdatiao。yiguolianguishugandelaiyuanyubuyinggaishijiandaohuoshibuduandetichuzhiyihebiwen，erliyingshiduixianghudexinrengan。

 yiguolianganqingqueshimingan，danxinzishenyiqiangdetouruzuihouquemeiyoujieguo，danxinqinglvchugui，youlvmouyitianshuojinzhipengdaoshashijiufenlile……

 danzheidoubingbushiyuanyin，zhiyoushuoniduiganqingbuzuxinrengan，duiqinglvwangbudiaoxin。jibian lingyifangzhuyaobiaoxiandezhongzhenbuyu，zongshinikeyijiandaodajiaganqingxingfudejieguo，dannihuanshitaxiabulaijingxiaxinlai。yuangufeichangjiandan，zheidouhuinixinlideniantou。jiarunixinlibuzuxinxin，neizainiyanliganqingyeshisuishisuidihenyoukenenghuilinierqu。