花镇情感机构正规吗？男朋友越来越不爱和你交流？

 womeiwanhundabannianle。zuoriwoxunwenta，hunyinqingkuangruhe?youmuyouxiangtonghualiyiyang：huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima？gongzhuhewangziguoshangmeihaodeshenghuo。womeishuo，niqingchuma?101gaoyiduanluo，wodehunyinshenghuoyemeijiu。yuanbenmeizhouliuwandezongyijiemu，wolaogongbianshijiabanjiadianhaiyaohuidaowanjiawoyiqikanxiaonvhaimenbaihuazhengyan，suihouwailucifubanweixiao。kanleyeyaoyuwotantaonvhaimendezhuyaobiaoxian。wojiahuanhuanxixi。rujinhuijiale，jiudaozaishafashanggangkaishiwanyouxi，gentajianghua，xianzhujuededaobingbushitexiangliwo。

 queshi，weihenanyou，zhangfudoushihuibianweineiyang?benlailianaideqingkuangxia，dahuoerquanshinuanxinhaopengyoua，nanyouhenbunengjinridabianlashenmeyangbixugenwogongxiangyixia，daozhonghouqijiuhuigankai：nanguaimeiyigenanrendouxiangqugejuxiongdeyaba。

 tingzheshifouhenlingrenfahuo，danshiweihe，lianrenfeichangrongyibianwei，zaiyizhangzhuoziyongcandeluren?fufujibian zuozhetongyizhangshafashang，haikeyiyiyewuhua。jinguanyouxierenshuo，woshihenxiangyoujibian buhangshengdoububushufubuganga，zaitongyiwuyanxianenggougezuogedeshier，henxingfu!shi!neishishuangfangdouxinfanyiluan，erbushiyigerenxiangshuo，lingyigerenbuting。

这类情况浮夸来到哪些水平呢?

 wozuotianheguimihexiawuchashijian。tajinqifanganyigequanjiarenlvyou，suihouyaogenzhangfuquedingshijian。zaiwanfandefanzhuoshang，tashuodayuedeshijian，feijihangban，dingdejiudiancanting，tashuodequanguochengzhong，zhangfujiuzaiyizhikanshouji。tashuo，woshuohuanitingdaomei?zhangfujiuena。suihoutasuoyoujiangwan，zhangfupingfenshengming，wailushaziyibandemuguang：a?nishuosha?guimishuo，yaobushixiaohaizizaijiali，woqueshiyaobacaipandiudaotalianbu。

 youyunijiujuedehenbubeizhongshi，youxierenbanijianghuadangfangchoupi，niyisibugoutiqianzhunbeidelvyou，qinrenyidianyebuaixi，fangfobianshiwoyigerenxiangchuquwanyiyang。

 shijishanghenyouqudeshi，wodehaopengyou，zaoyiguannianlaidaozheigewenti。takeyizhaoleyitianzaodianhuilai，zuozhezhuopang，fajuetagentaxifubuqingchushuonaxiehao。zhibuguobianshi，jinricaihenxinxiana，nilainayigeshangchangmaide，aiyowangbaoqiangqianqiyouchuqugaonaxieheheda。meiyoule。chuduixiangdeqingkuangxia，neishiyizhengyeyizhengyebushuijuea，quyingyuanhaibeihoubianderentiyizi：jiwobizui。

我认为较大 的缘故：话讲完了。确实!

 xianzaiwoyouyizhongyouqikegumingxindeguidangludetihui。nanyoumeiyicigenwofanfumouyixiaogushi，wodouyaosisuoyixia，shitajiyilicha，huanshiwozaiqitadiqutingguoyiyangdexiaogushi?fanfuyibianjishile，ruguoshitadewushangguangronggerenshiji，tazhishaofanfuwubian。zhangciyiwang，tayeguoyibuqufanfule，zhongjiutadoumeiyoulaonianchidaizheng，yijianshichongzhetongyigerenshuodepinciduole，tayefan，nanrenbixuxinxiandeguanzhongmen!

dierdian，niyibujitamenreqingdefanying。

 jiunashangbianshilizaicishuo，nidiyiciting，nenggouliulu：walihaidexiaobiaoqing!dierci，hainenggouzhuangyixia：neimeqiangda。disancijiuwenminglimaoxiaorong，disicijiumomowuyan。diwuci，nihaowuyiwenrenbushangshuoqi:bishangzuibani!woyeqinyanmudujianguonanyouzaipengyoujucandechangsuo，bayigejulaodemoshushiyanshileyibian，meijianguodepenyoudouhuanhu，zhiyouwozijizuozhebianshangchixiao，wolianchuochuandoubuxiang!

disan，lianaiqingkuangxiadepengchangzhuhequanshibiaoyanlaide。

 womeiganghemeifulejiedeqingkuangxia，womenyiqichulaiyongcan，shiyijiayouqizhimingdedapaidang，dantamenjiajidezhijin，queshihenchale，haibibushangniaoniaodezhi。suihoumeifujiuyongxingendajiajianggezhonggeyangzhidemocazuli。womeitingdejinjinledao，yanzhonghaixiangwaimaoxingchen。zhihoujiehunyihou，dajiayiqiqukansanweiyingpian，jieguoyingpianhuaidiao，dajiaruhekandoubingbushisanweide，youxierenjiuzaidaoluan。meifuyongxingendajiashuo，sanweiyingpianshiyouliangbufangyingjiyiqifangde，kendingshizaiqizhongyitaihuaidiao，yinci jiumeiyouzheiyishijixiaoguole。zheiyisanweidianyingba，womeifurengzaikepu，jiubeiwobiaomeiqieduan：xinglexingle，jiunidongdeshuzuiduo!nikeyixiuma?xiubutaihaojiubishangzuiba。

第四，便是很累。

 cengjingdewoshoudaoyigesiliao，shisichuandeyigenvhaifaguolaide，shuoyouyitianwanshangdizhenle，keshidizhenzhenjibingbuda，nenggoujuededaodihuangleliangxia，youyutamenfufu2gebixugongzuo，yinci sansuideguinvfangdaojiapojia。jinguanmeishile，danmuqinneixinhuanshiqianguaguinv，xiangkanyikan。zhangfujiuhenbuyuanyi，shuonimeianxin，jiudagedianhuaquwenyiwen。tajiujuede，kanyikanyouruheni?zishenqinshengfumudeguinvneimebuguanzhuma?tazhangfubianshuo，nixuyaoquzishenqu，taichile，woxiangshuijue。nvhaijiujideyaorenming，banyesangengniyaorangzijiwaichu?niyeyouyidianshuoaiwodeqingyima?

 qishiwotinghuilejiezheiyizhangfude，woyouyitianxiabanlehuijia，lailijia，kaiguoyitiantaibenhui，houlongquanshiyade，wohaiwangjileyeligennanpengyouyuelekanbiaoyan。wojinjiajiuyitoudaozaishafashangshuijuele，doubingbushirushui，worenweishiyunjue。youyuwoyagenmeiyoutingdaoshoujixiangle18geweijielaidian。

 huoxuzheiyizhangfujinridabaitianqueshifeichanglei，huoxutayouyidianfashaoganmaoxiangzaodianshui，huoxujinribeigukemadegouxuelintouxinqingyumen，huoxubeilaobanchuanlexiaoxie，huoxutongshiqilezhengchao，buguanzenyang，doushiyouyixiebuzuweiwairendaodexiaokunao。zaitalaikan：guinvanquanbujiukeyilema?weiheyaokeyipaoyitang，shenyeliangsandian，wangfanzhishaolianggexiaoshi，mingrihairuhegongzuo。keshizheileihuajiarushuochuqu，yeshiyichangzhengzhi。

diwubabianshinanrenqueshixuduo huabuxiangshuo。

 youyunanhaizizixiaobeiwenhuajiaoyu：naneryouleibuqingdan，nandemaiyuanjiuhenniang，nandehanjiannanbianshimeibenshi。shijishangxingbieqishiqingxianglibian，nandeyebeisiweidingshile。daozhixuduo qingkuangxia，nanyouzhangfushoulebiequhuoshixinqingyumen，jiuxinfanyiluan。jiuxiangxiangershiyiyangyitouzharuzishendequanqiu，youxishijie，wangjiquanbuwaibiandebuyukuai。

neimayingduibuxihuangoutongjiaoliu，zheibanjianmodenanyou，womenyaozenmebanni?

我认为第一，便是letitgo。

 meiyigerendoushiyouxiangzishendaizhedeqingkuangxia，ruguonifajuenanyouqingxubuhao，yebuyuanyiduogoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，jiuyaotaquba，niwannide，yuehaoguimihexiawuchashijian，yuepengyoujuhuihuodong，hemuqinguangjiegouwu，zongeryanzhi，youyigekeyizishenyurenxiangchudejiyu，yefeichanghaoa。

 worenweichediduoyuguiding，meishimeikedoushiyouhualiao，queshibushiji，bingqieyehenchaoai。yewuxuguiding，nanyouhuoshizhangfuduinichediyichengxiangdai，xianxinghouai。meiyigerendoushiyoudanduderen，meiyigehunyinshenghuodoushiyoumimi，zheicaisuanshishijiderichangshenghuo。zheixietabuyuanrangnilejiede，yaoshibingbushiyuanzexingwenti，wuxubiwen;tabuyuanxianliaodeqingkuangxia，jiumashangdazhu。

第二要常常深层次闲聊。

 neishihouxinqingyumen，nenggourenpingtaqu，guohouyidingyaozhaojiyuhetaliaoyici。woyougepengyoujiazhonghenhaodexiguan，bianshianshixianliao。tamenfufujiehun20nianle，huanshiqingganfeichanghao。zhangfuhuiwanxiaoshuo，jinyeyouruguotixingtanhuashijian。zaitixingtanhuashijiandeqingkuangxia，dahuoerjiutanchengxiangjiandibazuijinkunaoshuochulai，naerbumanyishuochulai，duilingyifangheduijianglaiyounaxieniantoudoushuochuqu。wobenrenganjuegoutongjiaoliushihenzhongyaode。

 womingbaiyoudenvhaieryaoshuo，gentashuodaoledoubuting。tayagenbuyuangai。worenweibubibagoutongjiaoliudangzuopengjijiaoliuhui，bushinilaizeguaibierende，eryaoshuochunideguiding。birushuoha，nijuedenanyoujinqibuailiren，bubichongguolaibianshuo，nizabuliwo!zhishiyaozhichengyibanyiwenjushuo，huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima？shangpin，dajiajinqishifouxianliaodoufeichangshaola?youyunishangqujiuzhize，renfeichangrongyiyouqingchunqipanni!likejiuhuibaxianghaohaodigoutongjiaoliudexinbianweidichu。

 ganqingyeba，hunyinshenghuoyeba，guigenjiediquanshiliangrenyiqiyingdui，yiqidanfude，yinci yidingyaotanchengxiangjian，yidingyaohaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，yiqiyingdui。

第三呢，便是较为行而合理的科学方法论。如同我妹说的101那类，大家两人要寻找一件两人都很感兴趣的事儿，而且一起去做。

 biruwopengyoujiubameixingqideliumaoliugoushijiandangzuoliangrendexiaolianaishijian，liumaoliugoudeqingkuangxiayewuxudaishoujishang，liangrendaizhugou，maiyibeikafei，sansanxin，shuoxiexiaoxiaohua;ciwaiyigepenyou，shizhaodaozuqiudui，youyujinqishijiebeisaima，tahezhangfuquanshizuqiumi(jinguanaidebingbushiyigetuandui)，keshinenggouxianghuzhijiantishikanqiusai，xiabanlehaidaiyabozheileilingshihuijiale，yelidingnaozhong，youshihaixianghuzhijianquruyixialingyifangzuqiudui。huanhuanxixi。

zaizheileihuanjuyitangdeshike，tebieshizaiyaohaijidebianshi：liuyouzhijiezhengju!duila，bianshizhaoxiangla!

 zhaoxiangyounaxiehaochunini，yigeshijiluneishihoudekuaileshike;ergebianshinenggounachulai“fujinzhuixi”de，dajiayiqianbingbushishuoguohuatitaolunfeichangrongyiliaoguoma?cikenachulaineishihoudexiangpian，jiukeyizaishuoyibian：

ninishifouhaijideneishihoudajiayiqiquqichedeqingkuangxia，haicuanchuquyizhixiaogouma?

kuaikanzheizhang!baxiduicanbaile，houbianneizhuodenanrenjidebaputaojiujiaozishenyitou。

a，paizheizhangdeqingkuangxianihuanshizhangfani。

nikankanzheizhangdajialouzaiyiqidezipaizhao，nidougaoxingdemeiyoushuangyanle!