花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗?从陌生到熟悉之话术推进

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？zairenrenpingdengdejinri，zhudongjingongdenvhaidanshizuiyoufengcaide。ziran，yaoshejiaomeititisheng，haiyaozhuzhongfangshiheliangxingluojisiweidebuyiyang。“jijidanranglingyifangbuqingchuwojijirenweishizishenzaijiji”zheijuhuaraokoulingyiyangdehua，rengranshidajianvhaidexingdongzhidaofangzhen。

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找对总体目标是社交媒体提升的第一步。

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寻找话题讨论突破口，造成他的留意

xianliaodediyibu，shixianxunzhaohuatitaoluntupokou。

xiangdaoxuededefangshi，nvhaibushihetailiji，jiuyongzuichuzhongjidejiliangba：xunqiubangzhu!

jiandaotashoulideshui，woxianglexiang：jiutale!

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 suihoutadaizhuwohuiquzou，zhaolegedifangzuozhe，tasongwoyinpinhemeiyouwoyuguli，woyouqiguoyibuqudeshuo：“jiniqingwoheyinliaoqishui，taiguoyibuqule，wohuiyunnansheng，nishiqulvxingma?”tashuodao：“meiyoushenmede，ng，wodujialvyouni，jihudouhaimeilaiguoni，cicizhunbeiqudalilijiang，neiliruheni?”woda：“tingmeilide，wowuyigangqulijiang，neiliyouhenduoyoutediandeminsukezhan，henpiaoliangni，nijiaruxiangzhuwonengqianglietuijianjigerangni。”tabianshuojiaweixinhaoyoubianmashangquchushoujishangshuo：“wosaonia!”

 wohaiyouyiduixiaoshouhuashumeishuoni，jiuneimemingzhengyanshundijialetadeshoujiweixin，queshiyoudianerchuxianyiwai。qudelianxidianhua，yemeiyoulikewenxiaoshuaigemingzijiazhongdengcailiao，yifangbianweichaxunhukoushixianliao。

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