有在花镇退款成功的吗?如何与指责型的女人相处？

zhizexingderen，youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？jiandaodeshizhongshitarendebuzhengque、quexian、bugou、yuangu。

zhizexingderen，huibajieguodecaogaohuozishenbutaihaodetihui，jiandanzhijiedeguinaweiciwaiyigerendeyuangu。

 liruzaiduixiaohaideqingkuangxia，zhizexingdefumuhuijuedeshixiaohailansan、tuichi、ben、cuxindayi、budongshidengyuangu，zaocheng lezishendenaonu。

 zaiyingduiairendeqingkuangxia，zhizexingderenhuijuedeshilingyifangdebuqinfen、lengdan、zisizili、taobizeren、zhangkongyu、bumingbaisikaodengyuangu，zaocheng lezishendenanshou。

 gongzuozhong，zhizexingdelingdaoganbuhuijuedeshizhigongbuzuxianghupeihe、gongzuozhongbuzuyongxindengyuangu，zaocheng leyejikaohebutaihao。

 zhizexingderen，neizhiguangxuexianweijingzuoyong，nimeiyigebutaihao，tadounengjiminfajue，erqiegaoxingdibiaoshu。neiganjuejiuhaoxiangfajuelejinkuangshiyiyang。

keguanshang，womenzhidao，yiqieyigebutaihaojieguodezaocheng ，douburongyishiyigerendanyideyuanguzaocheng de。

shubuzhinilaiwenzhizexingderen：niyejiumeiyoucuoma?

meinaodezhizexingyaoshuo：woyidiandoumeiyoucuo。

 youdianertounaodezhizexingzeyaoshuo：shiwocuo，danhaibingbushiyouyunixiancuo;doushiwodecuobianshidangshiyanxia;doushiwodecuoshisuoshi，dannidecuoshiyuanzewenti。

 yingduizhizexingderen，dajiadeganjuehuishifencaogao。zaizhizexingdeyanzhong，nijiuxiangyigeruanruowunengdefeiqiwuyiyang，yiwushichu，meishenmeyoushi。

jiaruniyouyigezhizexingdefumu、airen、lingdaoganbu，chongzunirichangshenghuozaishenglingtutanlile。

 waizaideyuangu，ziranshibeizhizederenbuzuhao，youzheixie，wukefeiyi。beizhizederenwangwangtongchu，bingbushiyouyutamenbuyuanyibeiqiangdiaobugoudediqu，zhishitamenchibuxiaozhizexingderenbasuoyoudeyuangudouguinaweitamenbutaihao，chibuxiaozhizexingderenmeishenmesikaogongzuonenglidexintai。

liangrenchaowanhou，genzhizexingdehuihuashineiyangde：

a：neiyangba，worengecuo，niyerengecuo，zheishidajiajishiguoquxingba。

B：好。

A：我错了。

B：你错哪了?

……

zhizexingderen，fangfoshizhongburongyizhenshisisuozishennayounanti。

 shijishangzhizexingderenyenanguo。bubirenweitamenmadehenguoyin，tamenyehuikuijiu：woweishenmekongzhibuzhuzishendexingzi，yinweiwolejieneiyangbudui。dan……taqueshishihenchale。

 yingduizhizexingderen，nengliquziranzuihaoshile。bukeyiliqu，nengduihuilaiyehenhao。jiaruyeduibuhuilai，yelibule，jiukeyisisuoxia：

 zhizexingderenshizenyangchanshengde。zaiyingduitamendeqingkuangxia，dajiakeyizuoshenmerangzishenshufudian。jiaruxiangbaochiguanlian，dajiayoukeyizuoshenme。

zhizexingderen，weiheshizhongdoudingzhulingyifangdebuzhengqueni?

 yigequweidezhuangkuangshi，zhizexingderennanyirenkezishendebuzhengque。jibian tamenlejiezishenbudui，yebuyuanyirenke。jibian tamenrenke，yehuiganjueyouqixiuchiganwufazhangkou。bushihaodaidehen。

 “wocuole”duizhizexingdereneryan，shishifennandeyijuhua。zheihuirangtamenganshoudaojidadexiuchigan。duanduande3gezi，bijiangchu“woxihuanni”haixiuchigan。

tamenyebuzhidaoweihe，mingzhidaoyemeibiyao，danbianshixiuchigandaoshuobuchukou。

 youqishizaitarenyanqianzhuyaobiaoxianchu“wocuole”demoyang，gengwufajiena。haoxiangyaobeibaguangleliangneibianyiyang，yaopinlemingdiyu。

neizenmecainengfangyuli“wocuole”deganjueni?

 jiuxuyaopinlemingzhaodaotarendebuzhengquelai。genjuzhuzhongquanshitarendecuo，jiukeyitaobidiaowocuole。genjuqiangdiaotarendebutaihao，jiukeyitaobidiaowobuhao。“doushinidecuo”、“quanshinibutaihao”deqingkuangxia，jiumeiwoshashile。

 yinci tamenjinjinbuyuanganshou“wocuole”deganjue，neileiganjueduitameneryanhaonanshoule。zheileibushufuhuijitajidadebaofali，zhanlingzhuzhendi，zhaodaonidecuo。

zhize，bianshiweilegenghaodifangyuliwocuole。

为何要防御力呢?

youyuzheileiganjueduitameneryan，zhendeshiyizhongquru。

tamenhuiyouyigezhizexingdefuqinhuomuqin，zaitamenzaoqianderichangshenghuoli，duitamenchongmanlequru。

 tamendefuqinhuomuqin，yeyouyigeguangxuexianweijing，yizhifajuetamendebuzhengque、quexian，suihousihaomeiyouliuqingdeqiangdiaolai。meiyoudixiandizhize、fouren。

zaifumulaikan，tamenquanshenmeiyouyoushi，tamenfancuowubixuchufa。tamenruhezuo，quanshibuzuhao。

tamenquanbuershidouhui“quanshinibutaihao”、“doushinidecuo”、“zhiyinweini”chixufanfuzhongzhangdayihou。

 tamenbeineimekandaideqingkuangxiayehuiganjuexiuchigan，danzheileifuzuiganhaonanshouhuibeiyayigan。yinci dangtamenxiangqizaoqian，huiganjuebushangshiduoshaofuzuigan。

 danzhangdayihou，tamenyidanhaiyoujihui，bianhuihuijuezaiganshouneileiganjue。youyumeiyici“wocuole”，doushihuirangtamenzaoqianneileixiuchiganbeijihua。

 zenmecainengfangzhizheileiganshouni?bianshiyibuquzainiyanqianrenke“wocuole”、“wobuhao”。zheiban，tamenjiuwanchenglefangfanyishi。

zhizexingderenbuyuanyichengshoudeganjue，huirangbeizhizederenlaichengshou。

 neilei“wobugouhao”、“woshicuode”ganjue，guanlianliyizhibixurenlaichengshou。yaobutachengshou，yaobunichengshou，yaobuyiqichengshou。

 yiqichengshoudeganjueshifeichanghaode，wochengrenshiwocuowudediqu，niyerenkejinibutaihaodediqu。liangrenhuxiangdaogeqian，youhexiele。

 kezhizexingderen，zaoqianchengshoutaiduole。chengnianrenhoujiuyidiandouchengshoubulele，zhiyoubeizhizederenlaichedichengshoule。jiarubeizhizederenyechengshoubule，jiuxianggenjuzhizetuihuiqu。

 liangrenjiubianchengquanlijiaozhu。bisheigengyouqili、sheigengyanzhiyouli、sheigengyouziyuan，sheikeyiying，sheijiuwuxuchengshouzheileiganjuele。

yinci muqinbianhuijiangchu：zaikaobutaihao，yeburangniqianyongle。

 airenhuijiangchu：fangwumailede，buyuanguoqulenizoukai。shijishangtamenjinjinxiangyunyongquweiyoushi，laiweibilingyifangchengshoucaogaodeganjue。

beizhizederen，jiufanfulezhizezhezaoqiandeyunshi。erzhizezhe，yequdechenggongdeshenghuobianchengzaoqianfumudeyangzi。

为何大家长大以后会活出父母的模样?

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？youyufumuzishenmeifachengshoudeganjue，jiugenjuzhizediujilexiaohai，rangxiaohaibeishouzheileicaogaodeganjue。

erxiaohaizhangdayihou，congcibuyuanyichengshouzheileiganjue，jiuxiangdiujizishendexiaohaiheairen。ciketajiubianchengfumudemoyang。

erairenhuidikang，rengchuhuibuchenggong，zuihoudoushihuiluoruzishendexiaohaideshenshang。

xiaohaiyoujiangbaohezhuangtai，yunshikenengzaiyidaidairenqunzhongxunhuan。

cankudeshi，xiaohaidechushi，shijishangbianshitifumuhaiqiande，tabixuchengshoufumusuobukeyichengshoudeganjue。

 hunyinshenghuodecanku，yeshizheiban，wanhunbianshitiairendefumuhaiqiande。fumudiujitacaogaodeganjue，gentahunhoujiudeniquchengshou。

meifa，tachengshoubulele。tajiuzhiyoubiponi，zhizhiniganxinqingyuandechengshouletacaitingzhi。

yaobuniyejiuliyi。suihoutazaizhaotarenzhize。

lihunzhihouzenmebanni?zhizexingderen，bawocuoledeganjuediujisheini?