有在花镇退款成功的吗?如何挽回出现危机的感情?

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？jinridajialaitantaogenwanliuxiangguandehuatitaolun，danbingbushifenshouhouruhewanhui，zhishidangtichufenshouchuxianjixiangdeqingkuangxiazenyangbaweijimoshazaiyaolanli。

一个提出分手一般要历经三个环节：

diyijieduan，yaobaibuding，lingyifangduinimeidangshineimalingrenmanyile。

dierjieduan，jiechuan，lingyifanggennidehuatitaolungangkaishishejidaotichufenshouzheijianshiqing。

disanjieduan，tichufenshou，lingyifanggongbujuece。

 zhengsuoweiaidaojintouqingshenyuanqian，yidanjuecefenshouhou，zaixiangwanliujiuhenbuyi，erzainantichuxiandediyijieduandabufenrenyouqianquechongzudejimin，yinci fangzhiweijidexingdongzuihaoshifangdaodierjieduan——danglingyifangjiechuangennifenshoudeshihou，nixuyaobalingyifangdeniantoufuweixialai。

 cengjingdewolejieyigexiongdibianshizheixiefangmiandedashen，tabiaozhunyiban，dannvyouhenmei，jinguantaduinvyouyizhifeichanghao，danchibuzhuzhuiqiuwanmeitanvyoudenanshengguoduo，yinci youneimajihui，tanvyouyiciwailuguofenshoudejixiang。changchanglaidaozheiyishike，wozheigewucaiwumaodexiongdidounengpingjietadeqingshanggaohuajieweiji。

他是怎么做的呢?

womenxianjiangxiadabufennvshishizenmetifenshoudeba。

 zaitichufenshouzheijianshiqingshang，youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？nvxingyouyizhongyushengjulaidenvxingsiweifangshi。yiban，tamenhuixianshifangchulaifumianqingxu，liruweiyidiansuoshigennizhengchao，huoshimeiliyoudilengmoni，dengzhenibiaomingbumanyibiwenyuangudeqingkuangxia，tamenjiuzhizenixiaodujichangbuchengshu，suihouchenjibamaodunshengji，zuizhongbawozhuniyuyandangzhongdebianzigongbutichufenshou。

 wozheixiongdidenvyouyongdeyeshizheizhao，danchibuzhuwoxiongdiqingshangzhishangtaigao，yizhibushangdangshoupian，meimeinvyouwuyuanwugufapiqideqingkuangxia，tadoufangzhizhenglianmaodun，tajimeiqubiwenyuangu，gengburongyidaizhufumianqingxuquzhizenvyou，congtouzhiweitajiuzhuangmeipiqidelaoshiren。

 youyizhenwoneixiongdifajuenvyouzaigenqitananshengxiangchu，bingqienageyixingpengyoubiaozhunbizishenqiangxuduo ，nvyoujiridoumeilianluotale，tajijiqulianluo，nvyoudedafuyehenfuyanleshi。

wohuozhizheiyizhuangkuang，jiuquwenta：“nimeizhunbeihetahaohaoditanyitanma?”

 tashuodao：“tanyouxiaome?tandejieguozhibuguobianshicujinnvyounawogenneigerenzuobijiao，bierenbiaozhunyoubiwoqiang，woneiyangbingbushizizhaosiluma?”

woyouwen：“neimenizhunbeigaizenmeban?”

tashuodao：“bugaizenmeban，zouyibuqiaoyibuba。”

woyouwen：“neiyangzimingbufandenvyouniyeyao?”

 tahuiying：“meiyigerendouxiangzhaobiaozhunhaodelingyiban，tashiyiqiezhengchangyaoqiu。danxianggenzuoyeshilianghuishi，erqiezuoyeshiyoubuyiyangdefangfa，zimingbufanzhiguishuyuzaiqizhongyizhong，lirujianyiliangcijiugenlingyifangshangchuangle。wobuhuiqingxinvyougennageyixingpengyouganlenaxie，danjiarutajinjingenneixiaozichigefanyuegehui，lingwaizaixinzhongkaolvdaotiaoxuanshei，neimazheileizuofajiusuanbushangzimingbufan，yeshiwonengjienade。tuiyibushuo，jishitaqueshizimingbufanle，wochukaiquxunchiyifanyejinyoutichufenshoudejieguo。keshirujinzheizhongdoubuquedingxing，wokeyiyoushenmehaotande?gengzhongyaodeshiwohenxihuanta，yebuyuanhetatichufenshou，neimawoyezhiyoudenghou，jiranwoyaozhaoyigebiaozhunbiwozhendenvyou，woyanzhongdezijibixudanfudefengxianxinghekunao。”(yuanjushuodejiaoweilaotao，wojishulileyixia。)

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？yinci ，woneixiongdidabufenmeiyoucaiyongjijigerenxingwei，jinjinweichizhemeixingqi1~2cidelianluopinlv，meiyicibiaoshushidudeguanzhujiukeyi，nvyoudafulengmotayejuebuduojiang，jiushizheiyangbuduanleyiduanshijian，qineiwohairenweitamendeguanlianjiuxuyaomeiyouxiawenle。jieguo，huoxushizhihoudisanzheneilifanlebuzhengque(jiannvhaieryizhibuxiadingjuexintichufenshou，disanzhexianwailulebuchengshudeyimian)，zongeryanzhi，nvyouyoufanhuileshenpang，woneixiongdilezizidedangquandoumeichanshengguo。bianshikaozheileirenshengnandehutuderenshengjingjie，zhihoutamenjielehun，rujinxiaohaidoujisuile。

 jiandaozheier，youxierenhenyoukenenghuiwen，zaoshounvyouhenyoukenengchugui，nandaoshuobuyinggaifangfanyuweiranjinjincaozongma?zenmekeyizheibanzongrong?

 fangfanyuweiranbixushouxiankanbicideyingxiangli，jiaruzaipingchangxiangchuzhong，nvyouguishuyubeicaozongdeyifang，neimaqiangzhixingguanshuyexuyeyouyongtu，danjiarupingchangdajiabianshigongpingguanlianhuoshitahaishaogaoyuni，neimashidaolintouniyaohuranshiyanqianghanrenwujiaosebianshihuche，ersichengdefangfanyuweiranzaiyigelieshirenwujiaoseneibianbuguoshidisanxiasidekenqiu。

zhishangbianshinvtuyongnvxingsiweitichufenshoudezhuyaobiaoxianjiqinanshengdexiangduifangfancuoshi。

jiexiaqushuoshuonvtuyongnanxingsiweifenshoudeshihoudezhuyaobiaoxianjiqinanshengdexiangduifangfancuoshi。

 nanxingsiweidetichufenshouqitedianbushinaopiqibunaopiqi，pingxinjingqiqietianmankeguandigennitantaoxianghudeguanlian，danzaiqizhongjuebuquefaquantaohezhaoshu。