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 huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma?kebiexiaokanxiangqinyuehui，zheidanshigebujiandandejishuhuo，naizhishiyimenzaoxingyishu!shilingqingnianyoudexiangqinyuehuiyiliangcijiugangkaishixiangyouxingfukuaile，danyoudequelvbailvzhan，yizhikazaixiangqinyuehuizheiyijieduanzhong，ziranyeshiyouxiangqinyuehuihouganjuehaibucuo，kechupengchulaimeijihuijiukuibuchengjunde。

 nandaoshuoxiangqinyuehuidequdechenggongshifou，guanjianyaosuqujueyuxiangmao、wenpinghejiatingqingkuangma?ziranyouyidingdeyaosu，danshishishangniwubigaoqingchudeshi：zaixiangqinyuehuiyiqian，xianghudexiangxijieshaozhezaoyitiaoxuanguoqule。huanjuhuashuoshuokeyidehua，dajiadezhangxiang、wenpingheqingkuang，shijishangdouhuixianghujienafanchouyinei。

 yinci，zaixiangqinyuehuizhong，shijishangmizuzhongyaodequjueyuguanjiandian：xiangqinyuehuiquanguocheng、goutongdejiqiaoheduiqifendezhangwo——

1.地址

 xiangqinyuehuidedizhihenzhongyao，kezheiyidianfeichangrongyiqingshi。shexiangyixia，2geluren，benzheyiyangdemudi，diyicijianmianmianbulenankan，jinyoushihedediqu，caikeyizhenshidezhuangjichuhuomiao。

 xingba，rangwomenchaozhefanhuigeersanshinian，kanyixia20shijideqingnianrennanhaihenvhaixiangqinyuehuidizhi。neigeshihoukandianshijushiliuxingdexiangchufangfa，zhengzhongjiandaitoudaxiande，tongchanggejinanhaihenvhaiyizhangyingpiao，suihoulianggerennazheyingpiaozaidamenkoujianmian，kankandianyingsuanzuolejiele。danrujinlaikan，zheihaowuyiwenshizuichajingdexiangqinyuehuifangfa，jibian yingpianzaipiaoliang，yichangchulailianlingyifangzhangshenmeyangdoumeirenqing!kandianshijudexiangchufangfa，heshizaoyixianghulejie，dianjizhejinyibufazhanqushideqingnianrennanhaihenvhai。

 zailiaoyongcan，shijishangyebushihenshihe。zaiyiqishixiangqinyuehuihuanshiyongcan?chiyechibutaihao，jianghuagoutongjiaoliuyenongbuhao，youqishizaikuanchangdeshineikongjiannongdefeichangganga，yongcanheshiyurenxiangchu，danbuyidiyicijianmian。

 dandianjizhezaixiangqinyuehuizhongjilingyifangliuyouhaoyinxiang，huanshiqianglietuijianzhaoyigeheshijiaotandeningjingchangdi，lirukafeiguan，chalou，zheizhonglingyifangchongyingwenhededengguangxiaoguo，manshihuanjiemirendegequ，zaineiyangdeqingjingzhongfeichangrongyirangxianghushifangyalichulai，danglurenxiediaofangyuliheyanzang，yiqiedouyuelaiyuefeichanghaojiaowangle。

 tiaoxuanjingmidexiawu，huobujiubangwan，yueshanglingyifang，jiangemian，yibianxianliaoyibianhecha/yinyongkafei，zheizishenbianshiyizhongqieyideshenghuo，dangranyefeichangrongyijilingyifangliuyouyizhonggennijiaowanghenqingsongzizaideanshizhe。

 yiyangzhongyaodelingyifangzaifuqian，xiangqinyuehuizhongkanqilaishinanhaizifuqianlisuoyingdang，danshishishangnvhaiyebuyuanyiliuyoukuijiudeyinxiang，yincitongchanghuiqiangzhefuqian，danzaineiyangdechangdixiaofeibingbibushangyongcangao，nvhaiyebuhuitaihuijue。

2.心理状态

 huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma?youhuizhongdexinlizhuangtaiyehenzhongyao。chufeishiteshuqingkuang，lianggerenyiqianquanshimeijianmiande，xiangbaituolurennankandejushi，jinyoubaxinlidiaojiehao，buranshizhongzhiyoushilurenle。

 nvhaixiangqin，tiyiyishangqujiubalingyifangdangzuopenyou——penyouyeshiyouganglejiedema，jiudangzuoshiyigeyijianrugudepenyoujiuxing。nihuiguotoulai，ruoshixinlizhuangtaishangbalingyifangdangzuoshiluren，yishangqudajiazhiyoushi“xianghuzhijiansaoshi+xianghupancha”，ciwaiyejinyounankande“ng”“a”“o”jiqiwujindejianmo!

yikaishixiangqinyuehui，jiuoverle，zenmekenengyouxiayibudefazhanqushima?!

 shehuixinlixueyouneiyangyigehexinlinian：ruguonibalingyifangdangzuoruhederenjiaowangshi，lingyifangyehuibeinisuoganqi，feichangrongyibeinidaidaoyiyangdechangjing，zheichengweixinlizhuangtaitoushe。huanjuhuashuo，ruguonibalingyifangdangzuopenyouduidaihejiaowang，nanpengyouyefeichangrongyibeinisuoganqi，yiyangshouyinixiangfangdexintai。

 cihou，dajiadeguanlianyeconglurenkuaisudebianhua，bianchengbujiulejiedepenyou，huxiangtaojinhu，dingzhulingyifangkanyebuhuinankan，jibian henlijidelejielingyifangdejibenziliao，yehaoxiangzaipenyoulaojiachangyiyang。niyuedidang，yuebalingyifangkanzuochuluren，xiangqinyuehuizhebianhuigengjiangnidangzuoshiluren，shouyiyidaliangdedidangxinlizhuangtai，neiyangcaogaodeqingkuangnanyiquebaodajianengjiaowangxialai。

 tangruonishinvhai，bennengfanyingshangyongyou duiyixingpengyoumeiyouanquangan，yidingyaoxuehaodiaojiezishen，nanhaizimeiniyaodeneimachihuan，nidexintaifanyingzaimuguangzhong，zhuyaobiaoxianzaiyijuyidongzhong，caogaodexingweifeichangrongyirangcicixiangqinyuehuibugaoerbie。

 danzaijiaoxuehuanjiezhong，youdexueshengtiwenwentishuo，zishenyuanbenbianshijinyouhaoxiecaidangpenyou，yingduibiededequanshiyifumoshengrenmotandelengmoliankong。zheikanshangquzaishejiaomeitizhongmeiyoushenmenanti，danzaixiangqinyuehuizhongquequeshicaogao，bukeyidakaizijidexinxian，jiubukeyijijizhudongdechupenglingyifang，chupenghezhangwolingyifangyeshishifenkunnan!tebieshizaizaixiangqinyuehuizhongpengdaoxiaizhonglei，yinweimeiyouyidingdechupeng，haizhuyaobiaoxianchuyouyidedidang，ruhequebaozaicixiangchua?

 xiangrangzishenyougengxingfukuailederenshengdaolu，neimayidingyaorangzishengengrongruqilai，diaojiezishen，tihuilingyifangdexinli，neiyangcaisuanshihetarenyouhaoxiangchu，tanlianai、xiangqinyuehuizhongcaikeyixunzhaojuede——tuiyiwanbushuo，jibian zuizhongmeilaidaoyiqi，danhaolaiyeduoleyigepenyou，yetigaolezishenderenjijiaowangnengli，feichangyouerwuyihai，nijuedeni?

3.huatitaolunvsqifen

 xiangqinyuehuishuoxieshenme，yaozenmewenwenti，zheiqueshishizuiburongleguandenanti。nengyanshanbian，queshishixiangqinyuehuizhongdeyimimiwuqi，huiguotoulaijiufeichangrongyilejie，nishixiangqinyuehuizhe，lingwaiyingduiyigesinaojinheyigegangpengmianjiuqingqingsongsongdouniwangaoxingdeyixingpengyou，nixiangyaogennayigezaicijiaowang?

 xiangqinyuehuizhong，limaoxingdewenhao、shidudezanyanghejianyidejiandanziwojieshao，zheizhongquanshibukehuoquede，jinguanbujianyishangqujiuganbiedebazijidexinxineironggenxiegerenjianliyiyangchedishuochulai，danzaiyikaishiyiliangjujianyidejiandanziwojieshaoshimianbulede：nianji、hujisuozaidi、gongzuozhong。

 zaizheiliyihouyemeibiyaoshenxiannankan，shuoshuoxianghudegerenaihao，tanyitanzishendegongzuozhongyewuliuchengneirong，goutongjiaoliuxiajinqiquweidesuojiansuowen，naizhishuoshuolixianghuadounenggou。dantebiezhuyideshi，nixiangqinyuehuidemudijinguanshichupenghelejielingyifang，kanyixiaxianghushiheshifou，dannibushiqudiaoyanhujide，tangruochuzainankandeyiwenyida，xianghuzhishuosirenxinxi，neihechaxunhukouyoushenmebutongni!

 xiangqinyuehuizuizhongyaodebingbushiliaoshenme，xiangyaozhidaoxianghugengzuishenchudexinxineirong，xiangqinyuehuiyihouwenjieshaorenyidingnengzixunchuqu。xiangqinyuehuiduinieryanzuizhongyaodeshigoujianhaogoutongjiaoliudeqifen，ranglingyifangyishidaonishigeyouxiuderen，nishigehenkaopuderen，cihouzaochengzaicixiangchukanyixiadeniantou。

气氛很重要!

 duoshaorenshidaizhuzhangwolingyifangxinxineirong，kanyixiajiujinghebushihedexinlizhuangtaiqianwangde?neiyangyidingnanyiquebaoxiangqinyuehuidekaixinqifen，chupengqilaichukainankanbianshijianmo，gengbuhaodezeshiranglingyifangpobudeyizhaoyigetuocijinghuangshicuo!

 haidianjizhediyicixiangqinjiubalingyifangshichengnali，gongzuozhongliangnian，shouyishiduoshao，naizhitanguojihuitanlianaizhangwoqingxi?no，no，no!xiangqinyuehuishijishangyeshiyizhongjuede，juedejishi，zaicijiaowang，tangruobiededeyiqiedoushihe，neimejiunenggouquedingguanxi，jinyibufazhanqushi，zheicaisuanshixiangqinyuehuizhenshidemudi。

 keyidanbaxiangqinyuehuihebiededeguagou，neimazheiyikaixinquanguochengkenengyuelaiyuechuxianyichangcaogao。yinci duidajiaeryan，wulunliaoshenmehuatitaolun，bixuliaodaojinqing，balingyifangdangzuogangchupengdepenyouba，dajiayidingyouhenduoshixianggaozhilingyifang，zhaowoliaozhaowoliao，huatitaolunmanmantuokuan，yixunzhaogongtonghuati，lianggerendefangbianzhimendangrandoudakaile，yemeibiyaofenwaizaihuzenyanghuatitaolunle。

 jiusuannijiandaolingyifangyuyuguahuan，yishidaoxiangqinyuehuizhebingbushizishenganyuanlaixiangqinyuehuide，yechedikeyiyongxiaoshouhuashubafenweidiaozhengjishi——

ni：“ai，nidoubuqingchu，qishiwoshiyibuxiaoxinfumubizhelaide!”

lingyifang：“yi，zhenqiao，woshi!”

 ni：“heihei，zhenyouyuanfen，qishiwotingtaoyanxiangqinyuehuizheijianshiqingde，worenweifeichangbukekao，zhiqianpengdaogeqiguai，wojinijiangxiaa，rujinhaiganjuequweini……”