买了花镇一个月服务，如何调教内向没有情调的伴侣？

mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu，youyuqingchunfayuqishidajiacongxiaohaizizhuanhuachengchengnianrendeyigeguanjianfazhanqushihuanjie，dajiadexuduo gerenxingweidoushihuiyouqituxian，baohanjinritidaodezheiyizhuangkuang。

zaizheigejieduan，dajiadetinenggangkaishizaidushengzhangfayu，gangkaishiyuelaiyuejianzhuang，nvshenggangkaishilaidayima，nanhaiergangkaishizuochunmeng，dajiadeguannianyegangkaishichanshengbianhua，gangkaishixiangliqubabamama，xiangdandu，xiangyouzheguishuyuzishendeshineikongjian，dajiaxiangzhengshiwohaishiwo。

zheigeshihou，babamamayegangkaishiganshoudaodajiadezhuanbian，tamengangkaishijiaolvqingxu，gangkaishidanyoudajiahuizhanchifeixiang，huiliqutamen。

weilegenghaodijianqingxinlidejiaolvqingxu，babamamahuizaizheigeshihouxiangbanfahuihuaidajiadejiexian，zulandajiafazhan，mudishibuxudajiahetamenfenlichulai。

自然，这种全是她们在潜意识中方面的，观念方面是不清楚的。

tamenzongshiganjueshidanyoudajiaxueyechengjibutaihao，danyoudajiajiaohuai，yinci huisuibianjindaodajiadewuzi，zhenglidajiadewuzi、fandajiadebeibao、fandajiadechoutiju，kandajiaderijiben，zheizhonggerenxingweicongshizhishangkanquanshizaihuihuaidajiadejiexian。

 yeyouyixiegerenxingweishihuihuaijiexiandedaibiao，biruganyudajiadexihao、ganyudajiazhiyuantianbao、ganyudajiadeshejiaoquanzizheixie。

jinguancongguannianfangmianzheizhongquanshibabamamaduiwomendeaiqingheguanzhu，dancongzaiqianyishizhongfangmian，mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu，dajianengjieshoudaobabamamazaiqianyishizhongdejingong，yinci tamenyueguanzhu，yuecaolao，dajiabianhuiyuenaonu，youyudajiadejiexianbeiqinfanle。

讲的这种和为何越投入，另一方就会越把大家当仇敌有什么关系呢?

有的。

huiheiseyuanxingdongtaitufengexian

tanlianaiquanqiuli，haoqizifeichangrongyihuandezhangfudeeyaneyu;titieruweidenanyoufeichangrongyihuandenvyoudekanbushang。

haoqizihetitieruweidenanyou，wojiangtamendouchengzhiweiyibaifenairen，danyibaifendeairenbingbushizuishushideairen，zhenghaodeairencaisuanshizuishushide，youyuyibaifenjiudaibiaozhemeiyoujiexian。

怎样看待一百分和正好呢?

举个事例：

nvyoubingle，yaoxiangquchizhongqinghuoguo，yibaifendenanyouhuiminglingjinzhitaquchi，erzhenghaodenanyouhuigaozhita，nichihuibingdegenglebuqi，neiyangninenghennanshouyinweiwohuixintong，danshijuecequanzaini。

yinci zuizhongjishinvpengyouquchiwan，bingdegengqiangdakuzhehuijiazhaotadeqingkuangxia，tayehuijitayigetitieruweidezhaoliaoheguanzhu。

weiheyibaifenairenhebujiuhaobanlvhoumianyizhonggengshidangni?

youyunvyouxiangganyiqieshierquanshiguishuyutadeshier，dangyibaifennanyouyanjintaquzuodeqingkuangxia，dengtongyuganyuletadejiexian;

erzhenghaodenanyouhuizaitazhenshiyoubixudeqingkuangxiacaixiashou，tashiduinvyoudeyizhongxinrengan，jianxintahuijiqujiaoxun，jianxintayouziwochengzhangdegongzuonengli。

congshehuixinlixue(donglixuemoxing)deshijiaojiang，nvyouderentiyoutazishenzuozhu，nanyoudeguanzhucongshizhishangquanshizaijianqingzishenxinlidejiaolvqingxu。

zheileijiaolvqingxukenengshinvyoubutingzishenhuasuozaochengdeshiluogan，youhuoshishizishenxiangxiangzhongnagejizhinvyoudepinpaixingxiangbeihuihuailezheixie。

bingqietabukeyiguaini，youyutashitazishendetiaoxuan，zaizheigequanguochengzhongtazaoyihuodelekoufudexiangyou，erzaijienachufadeqingkuangxia，jiunenghuodenilijideguanzhuhezhaoliao，zheicaisuanshikaolvlenvyoudeziyiweishi。

youyudangtaaichideqingkuangxiajiunengchi，wulunneishihouyoumuyoubing，tadounengjuyouzishendezhipeiquan，erdangtazhongbingdeqingkuangxia，yaoxiangguanaihewennuan，nanyoubianhuichuxian，zheizhongganjuejiufangfoquanshijiedouyiwolaiguanlizhongxin。

dangyigerendeziyiweishibeichongzukaolvyihoubianhuifazhan，yuebubeikaolv，bianhuiyuezhiliuzaiquanqiuyiwolaiguanlizhongxindehuanjie，suihouhuiyizhixunzhaozheizhongganjuezhizhibeikaolv。

依靠是多少，就相当于随意丧失是多少。

wojuedehenyoukenengyouderenyiranhuigengxihuanyibaifendeairen，zaizheierwonengjidahuoeryixieyijianfankui。

●diyi、zaidajiayouqixiangyoulingyifangweidajiadanfulebenguishuyuzishenyiwudelingwai，yedaibiaozhedajiashiqutongyangdesuiyi，yikaoshiduoshao，jiuxiangdangyusuiyisangshishiduoshao。

●dier、dajiaduicaozongheqianghandechimi，kenengshilaiziduibabamamadezhongshi。

怎样看待呢?

ershi，babamamazenyangkandaidajiade，zhangdaleyihou，yehuixiangzhaoyigehebabamamakandaifangfaxiangjinderen，youyuzheileibeikandaidejuedehuishiwomenhebabamamayizhiweichilianjie。

举个事例:

wojiangputonghuabushiguifande，huidaizhuqianqiandeguangdonghuahuayin，danshijishangyiwoyinbiaofayindegongzuonengli，shichedinenggoubaputonghuashuipingshuoguifande，biruwohaizaigechanghuoshilangsongwenzhangdeqingkuangxiajiuchedimeiyouguangdonghuadehuayin。

danwodezaiqianyishizhonghuiganjuedaiyixieguangdonghuadehuayinhuichuxianxinrengan，juedezishenheguxiangweichilianjie，yinci zaiwodudaxuedeqingkuangxia，pengdaoyixiehanyouguangdonghuahuayindelaotongxuejuhuiyouqiqinjin。

●disan、youqixiangyouyibaifenairenderen，congrengetezhifangmianshangshibuzudanduxiangxide，zaiwomenhelingyifangjiexianbuqingchudeqingkuangxia，huifeichangrongyisunhaizishen，yefeichangrongyisunhailingyifang，youyujiexiandexiaotuijiudaibiaozhezishenxiaoshile，huoshilingyifangxiaotui，tashiyizhongduishenwangdehaipa。

yinci ，weilegenghaodishiwomenkeyiyouyiduanzhangqixingpingwendehunyinguanxi，dajiabixuzhubuwanshanzishenderengetezhi，shidajiabianchengyigedanduxiangxidegeren。

lejieleyibaifenairenhezhenghaodeairenyihou，woganquexindongle：

bingbushitourubudui，yebushiyuebutourujiuyuegao，zhishiyaomingbaifenqingxi，jiexianzainaer，shenmeshizishendeshier，shenmeshilingyifangdeshier。