huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?yiguoliandelianren,dabufenyiliaoweizhudao,yinci lianghaodegoutongtizhizhenduiwaidilianreneryanyouqiguanjian,ziran,goutongjiaoliuyeshimeiyigerenfazhanqushiguanlianbibukeshaodezhuanyejineng。jinridajiajiuyiyiguolianweilizi,mudexingdigongxiangyixia“ruheliaocaikeyiliaochuhaoqinggan?”
从无话不说到“吃了吗?”
liyajiushiwopenyou,tahenanpengyoushuaimengzaoyiwaidiyinianduodeshijianle,yuanbenshitongyigeyuanxiaotongyixiyuandexueyuan,danzaibiyeneinian,liyatiaoxuanduyanjiushengjinxiu,shuaimengtiaoxuanbianchengyimingguojiagongwuyuan。
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我询问她:
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她很高兴地回应我:
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neishihoudeta,duishuaimengqingkuangdezhuanbianmeishenmefajue。
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liyazheili,yanyideshangxueqixueyegongzuoyalibingbusuantaida,liyahuopokailang,xunsujiujiejiaolehaoduogehaoguimipengyou,tahuihemeiyigeguanlianhaoderenjiangtaheshuaimengdeyiwang,dajiadouduitamendegushitebiexiai,yincibianyongyou:
什么时候带他来见到大家呀!
neiyangdehuyuyulaiyugao,zaizaijiashangliyaduishuaimengdesinian,liyabianquheshuaimengshuo:
bierenwohenxiangni~ninenghuilaijianwoma?
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bijiaomingandeliyaziranjuechadaole,yincitaheshuaimengbiaoshusiniandepinlvyulaiyugao,jibenshangmeiribixuyou2-3ci“xiangnila~”,jinguanshuaimengdedafuyeshi“woyexiangni~”danliyajuedeyixiebuyiyangle。
yihoudedabannianshijianli,queshixiangliyadanyoudeyiyang,tamenzhongjiandexianliaochuxianledaliangdenanti。
guoquyiqiguanxindezongyijiemuheyouqudeshishuaimengxuduo doubutaikanguo,liyahepenyoujiandegezhonggeyangxixiwanshuazhongyouyisideshibizhaoshuaimengjibenshangyichengbubianderichangshiwurichangshenghuo,kanqilaibeidaoerchi,tamenzhongjianyiranhuimeiriyidadianhua,dandabufenbianchengleyibiandaodewenhao:
你吃饭了吗?
今日干了啥啊?
嗯嗯嗯...好的!
zheishihouliyazhaodaowo,tabuqingchufashengshenmeshi,zenmehuineiyang?
不明白聊,让相互的情感失踪
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适度地表述思念
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zheibenyingshitianmeide,danrichangshenghuoneiyangdeyishunjianduole,yejiunile、zhujianwuganjuele,zailiaosiniandeqingkuangxia,neileixingfendeqingxujiuzaoyixiaomodaijinle。
yinci ,shidudibiaoshusinianshifenguanjian,nenggoushizhejiangnidesinianleijiyiduanshijian,jiangtaxiechuyifengxin,huoshiyifengdianziyoujian,chuandijilingyifang,neiyanglingyifanggengnengjieshoudaonimanmandeaihesinian。
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你的故事,他的心思
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出示情绪价值,突显和他在一起的区别
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wulunshinanshenghenvsheng,zaiqingganzhong,douqidaizishenshilingyifangshengminglizuiyouqide,zaiwomengenjuyuyandebiaoshuqutuxianlingyifangdeyuzhongbutongdeqingkuangxia,zheijiushichushiqingxujiazhideyizhong。
danglingyifangduijinixintaishangdexiwangheyaoqiudeqingkuangxia,genjuyujuqukaolvlingyifangdezheileixintaixiwangheyaoqiu,jiushichushiqingxujiazhi。
相近的也有:
danglingyifangjuedegongzuozhongjiaoweipijuandeqingkuangxia,dajiakeyishuo:
woshiyoudenanyou,gongzuozhonghuilaitaileile,jiulijijitafalexinxineirongshuojinriganjuehaolei,xianshuile。erwonanpengyoujibian feichangleihaihuijixupeizhewoliaohuitian,woqueshiganjuehaoxingfu~yaobunihuanshixianxiexiba。
制订相互方案,提高彼此联接
yiguoliandelianrenmeifaxiangyibanlianrenyiyangchengnuojinyequchidacan,libaitianqukandianying,xiabanlequpashan,yinci xuduo qingkuangxiahushilexianghuzhidingmubiaohezongtimubiaodebiyaoxing,shijishanggengshiyongyouzheizhongxiaoxiao“xianghuchengnuo”,lianrenbicicaiyongyouweixianghugengweibuduanjinqudemubiaogan。
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liuyi:wohualejiaozhangdepianshujiangleliyadexiaogushi,tamenmeiyoutichufenshou,doumeiyouhenmengliedefenqihezhengzhi,zheikanqilaishiyiduanhenyoukenengmeishenme“wenti”deyiguolian,dantashiwenzhongdeguanjian。
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