花镇情感是真是假？如何在朋友中保持女性竞争力？

huazhenqingganshizhenshijia？erzaihunlianjiaoyouxiaoshoushichangzhong，youfengcaidenanshengshenpangyebuquenvxing，nvhaimendoushihuidianjizheweichizishenjingzhengnengli，dedao gaoxiejiazhideairen。

weichijingzhengnenglishimizuzhongyaode，zenyangzaipenyouzhongweichinvshijingzhengnenglini?

feichangjiandan，baozhengxinxin、fenggu、lingxing、lingrenwenxinjiukeyi。shuoqilaijianyi，danlejieqilaiquebuyi，yinci womenyigeciyigecidetan。

【信心】

nvshijiaoda dejingzhengnenglishixinxin，zheiyidianbushineijiahua。

tijixuxidi，xiangxindahuoerdediyifanyingbianshi“xiaoxing”，diergeyinxiangcaisuanshi“piaoliangmeinv”。dantanengyoujinridezaojiu，wojuededaliangdehuanshiyuanyuyutadexinxin，zhongjiuzaizheigemeinvruyundeyanyiquan，keyipingzhezishenbingbuchusedewaizaibiaozhun，lingwaijianjushiyechenggonghehunyinshenghuoxingfukuailezheilianggefangmian，meiyouxinxindezhichengdiannanyiyouzhankaidezichan。

wulunzaishenmeshihou，wulunchuyuruhedechujing，zaipenyouzhongweichinvshijingzhengnenglideyagenjinyou：xinxin。wojuedetangruonichangchangbaomingcanjiajuhuihuodong，yidinghuijiandaozheixiepinpaixingxiangbingbutaichuse，danwulunyizheheyantanjuzhidoujirenhencaihuahengyidenvxing，ertayetongchanghuishiquanchangzhongderedianrenwu。

neiyangdefengcailaiyuanyunali?juedaduoshuyibufenbianshixinxin。xinxindenvhaiyongyou qiangjingdejingzhengnengli，youyuwulunxingzoudexinxinjudong，huanshixiangchuzhongdechenzhelengjingxiaobiaoqing，huoshiweirenchushishideyazhifengcai……douhuishiketishizhezhoubianderen，nishiyigezixinderen，nishiyigehenyouganzhaolideren。

shuoqixinxinjiujingshishenme，henyoukenengsheidounanyijiyigezhenshishihedejieding。youyuzheitongchangshiyizhongjuede，kewangerbukeji，zhuabushangmobudao，danyoujuticunyouzhe。

huazhenqingganshizhenshijia？xinxinbingbushiqianghan，gengbingbushiqiangda，tangruoyongyigecilaigenghuan，henyoukenengyong“wenroutitie”gengjiaqieheyixie。dangnvshiyongyouxinxin，zaipenyouzhongdejingzhengnenglijianghuichuxiandafudetigao，youyuxinxinhuichanshengdaliangdewupin，liruninengyoudandudeguannian，qiadangdejiazhiyishi，banshigancuililuodexintai，zheileiconglidaowaideqichanghuijinizhuyaobiaoxiandehentuxian，genghuihuodenanshideqinlai。

【风骨】

shuoqifenggu，xianxiangdaowentianxiang，danwomenzheiertandebingbushizheiyifenggu。

zheierxiangshuodefenggu，shiwulunzairuhedeziranhuanjingzhong，dounengshikeyouzhezishenbaochiqingxingdeluojisiwei，shizhongweichizhebaochiqingxingdexintai。

shide，henyoukenengzhoubiandehaoguimiaimuxuronghenqiang，changchanghuichuxianmangmupanbidexinlizhuangtai，nixiangyaorenyunyiyunhuanshiweichizishenni?qianwanbunengyinyinyouermangran，yinjiannanerdiluo，youyuyouzhechongzujingzhengnenglidenvhai，mingbaitounaoqingxingdedanao，anzhaozishendeyixiang，kailangqieyouguqideshenghuo。

ruguoniyouzhezhefangmiandepinxingshi，gujinizaipenyoudangzhongjianghuichuxianhenqiangdejingzhengnengli，genghuichuxianyichangdetuxianzishen。

【灵性】

nvrenshishui，shuiweirenshijianzuiyoulingxingde。jingruoyitanjingshui，dongruyipianpianyilian，wojuedetashinvshijiaoda defengcaisuoshu。danlingxingyuanyuyunalini?

lingxingbuzhicunyouyuchuanyidapeishang，zheiyezhishishizhuangdianbale，zhenshidelingxingdaliangdehuanshiyuanyuyunvshibenzhidemei。youbijiaokaikuodeshezumian，youyidingdewenhuaneihan，duoyixieyueduwenzhang，youguishuyuzishendeyouyakuailehezhuiqiuwanmei，liruxunlianminzuwudao，xuexichayi，lianlianxiyujia，huatiyoushendudeyingpian……

zaiyueduwenzhangzhongsisuo，zaisisuozhongfazhan，nvshidejingyanbujinlaiziyuyiluzoulai，chupengtiaoqiude，lingwaiyeyouyueduwenzhanghesisuohouchendingchulaidewupin。

lingxingshiyizhongfengyun，shiyizhongsishuirouqing，shiyizhongxiangyaofangkuanxionghuaiqurenzhizhenggeshijiedexintai。huazhenqingganshizhenshijia？erzuizhongyaode，huanshidongnanhaizidesixu，lejienanshixinlingshenchudekuhemu，gaoqingchuruheyongzishendeshouqingqingdifumo，fuqutadeyishenpijuan。

【令人温馨】

lingrenwenxin?henyoukenengjiandaozheiyiyuju，ninengganjuehenshengying，nanyilejie。

shijishangzaipenyouzhongweichinvshijingzhengnengli，zuizhongyaodemudihuanshizaihunlianjiaoyouxiaoshoushichangzhong，xunsudetishengziwojiazhi，mingqueziworenshidelingwai，xunzhaogaoairenjiazhideneigeren。

zuiweizhongyaode，huanshitishengziwojiazhi。zainanshilaikan，shenmejiaogaojiazhi(jizainvshizhongyouzhechongzujingzhengnengli)denvshini?

shuozaiduodeyuju，shijishanghuanshibaituobushang：mingbainanrenxinli，lejieruherangtawenxindenvshi。

zuixian，nixuyaozhangwonanshi。nanrenshiyizhonglangxingweishengwu——shijishanghuanshishuotamenshiyongyou nanxingbennengfanyingdezhongqungengjiaqieheyixie：youyunanshenghenxiangyaobeiyixingpengyoubaoweizhe，yongyou henqiangdezhanjuchongdong、kongzhiyuwanghebeiqinpeichongdong，danlingwaizaixinlingshenchuzangnizhemingandexinlizhuangtai，zheiyidianshixuduo nvhaichangchangfeichangrongyihulvede。

xiangbianchengyoujingzhengnengli，qiejubeigaojiazhizishendenvhai，queshibuhuitainan——bianshijiangshangbiandeyujuyizibuchadejisongjieshu，zaixinlingshenchuchongzuxiaohuaxishou，zuihouzhenshidezhangwonanhaizibenzhishuxing。

shide，woxiangduinilaishuozheiyidianshinanyibaozhengde。zheiyuanyuyunanrenhenvrensiweimoshidebuyiyang，bingqieniyaohuichuxianyisipaichiheqifu。danshiruguonizhenshidelejienanshi，keyibaozhengzhongshihekuanrongtadeqingkuangxia，zheizhongshierqueshibingbushinandian。

feichangjiandandeshili，ruguonibukaixinshijiulijibayuanyinjiangmingbai，youyutaqueshibijiaomang，shenghuodegongzuoyaliyefeichangda，nanshiqueshimeineimeduoshijianqucaixiangnibugaoxingdegenyuan。renshengdaoluneimeduanzanxing，hekubashijianxiaohaozaiwuguanjinyaodesuoshishangni?

zailiaogepubiandeshili，dangtajijiyuenilai，nishixiangyaoananwenwendepeizheta，huanshidatukushuishuozishenjinqiyoubuxingle?tiyihuanshibimianhoumianyizhong，aixizaiyiqidemeifenmeimiaoba。

shitawenxin，bingbushidiaodizishendezishi，gengbingbushitaiguodebiequzishen，shijishangshixuehaoguanxinnanshi。ruguonifajuenanhaiziyulaiyuyuelaiyueainiqingkuangxia，niyehuigaoqingchuzheixieyagenbingbushibiequ。